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Something that builds attraction, doesnt get her bored, sets you apart from other men, etc....
With day game, it's kind of easier as teh bar is lower. She doesn't have her friends buying her shots, people dancing, other guys hitting on her etc. You can juts be boring and ask interview questions. Every PUA vid is basically ''Hi, I know this is random. You're hot''. Then, ''what are you up too today?''./ Thenm make an assumption about her job or something. Then ask for her number.
But with NIGHT game in pubs (NOT loud clubs(dancefloor non verbal game), but more bars and pubs where people talk) it's much more difficult and I also struggle with what to say after opening.
The only time I can have a fun interaction without the girl getting bored is if I OPEN with a kind of fun routine. That can usually get her to relax enough so that I can then just transition into the kind of conversations every other guy in a bar has with a girl (what's you name, where are you from, what do you do for a job? )
But if I open in a NORMAL way ''Hi, I'm jack. What's up?'' kind of thing, then it's impossible to get the conversation off of the ground as she it still in 'stranger danger mode' and hasn't relaxed yet and so every question just gets a very short answer and then it just fizzles out and I leave.