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You have to gauge it on a case by case basis, but in some instances the 'i have a boyfriend' thing is a TEST.
Yes, this is true. In some cases: "I'm sorry, I have a bf" is also a shit test as well.
I have hooked up with women that said this to me at first.
Sometimes the fine light between a rejection and shit test can be blurry.
Ok when they say this the convo dies - what should I say? What would you do?
You can say the same kinds of things in my previous post or say something playful that Arch mentioned.
The conversation dies on her end because she is waiting for your reaction (accepting rejection/pushing past her bs).
If the silence is coming from your end, that means what she says has too strong an effect on you. I used to get that way too and once a woman told me she had a bf, I would freeze up and be at a sudden loss for words.
I started getting pissed off at myself because of this. Now I never let things like this kill off my conversations.
Just tell yourself that you are an interesting guy and believe in yourself. If a woman gives you static bs, just keep pushing past it. Of course be careful because her bf might be there with her, but in my experience, these women are usually alone at the time, so just go for it.