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Why, why, WHY must you keep wanting to bring ME into it? You simply just can't resist it, can you?
It's pathetic. What's wrong with you people? Do you have zero mental discipline?
Can we please discuss the issues in question here? "masculinity", "strength" & "leading"
If you have nothing sensible to say on any of those subjects please shut the fuck up.
Ship...you are like a lot of the newer guys that come here. They have a preconceived notion of what pickup is and automatically believe that they have better morals and ethics than the guys that are here...at the same time, they need help with a woman or women. Throughout this thread you've got solid answers and you argued from the POV of your belief system. The reason you keep being brought into it is because YOU are constantly arguing, so to point out the fallacy in your arguments you are being used as the example so you can understand where the poster is coming from.
I totally get why you are defensive. It's not one guy that is telling you that you are wrong or handle things the wrong way...it's a group of people. The more that you argue with the group, the higher the likeliness that the group will become harsher on you. The sad thing is that none of the criticisms against you is coming from a bad place but you are too emotional and sensitive to accept that people are trying to help you.
You can disagree with everyone here and that's cool with me. To stick around in a place that is not meeting your needs is idiotic. If you aren't being treated in a way that is acceptable to you, just like we would advise a guy in a bad relationship, you should leave.
You've it done again!
Don't bring **ME** into this conversation. I'm not being... anything. It's not about what I'm being. Come on argue the abstract points on their merits! If there are fallacies in my arguments, let's hear what they are? Seriously!
Look, I am here to improve myself, I think you guys - well some of you at least - may be onto something.
However every time you attack ME it comes over as a sign of your weakness. It's like I'm brought up something that you are uncomfortable with, so rather than argue the point in question, you verbally attack me.
To recap, I am simply trying to understand the moral/intellectual framework for what is mean by this community by the terms "masculinity", "strength" & "leading". How hard can that be?
But yet again, and again and AGAIN, you guys all start calling me names! And use ludicrous attacks like I bet this is how he tries to pick up women.
a) you are not women
b) I'm not trying to pick you up
c) this is not a bar/party/social context... this is a discussion forum. For you know, discussing stuff.
Or is it that an abstract conversation simply beyond you guys?
Keep the ME out of it you numbskulls and stick to the frickin point.