As I have been growing up and have been experiencing situations after situations, I have been thankful to never have been truly stuck in a certain mindset. I always fall but seem to manage to get back up. I never really blame anyone other than myself for being stuck in a situation and that has proven to be my most useful skill in life. I had a shit job I hated, cool, I got another one. I have a drama infested relationship, cool, I decided to part ways after finally coming to terms with myself that it was my own fault for still being there and enduring it.


I am fat. Cool. I go to the gym eat healthy. I lack fashion sense. Cool. I go to the store or check out people who are dressed nicely and adapt some parts of their style to mine to my liking. Not enough ? Cool, I look up fashion articles and do something about it. Am I wasting time with a chick who I know won't bang me but she keeps hitting me up, Cool. I contact her less and work on the ones that have a short fuse under their asses and ready to come back to mines.


Now to move on to other issues that other men think they can change by just pronouncing their beliefs. Oh you want to date a hot woman with a vibrant social circle and expect her NOT to flirt with other men nor hang out with her social group that include said guys ? Haha, if she was like before a relationship, she won't just do a complete 360 because you pound your beliefs down her throat. It MAY work for a bit but you are just throwing drama on to your relationship which will eventually start to fester.

Don't get me started on accidental babies. No baby is an accident. It happened because you didn't wear a condom.

My current favorite is the ultimatums that women try to place on me. "Give me monogamy or no sex". Priceless

Cheating men and expecting there to be no drama or just ....or reverse demanding monogamy from already cheating women.

Most of the time, the blame is on us. Not on another person.

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I don't understand people. They fuck without a condom, don't take a morning after pill, then are "surprised" when they have a baby. Like fucking seriously?

Women are simply conditioned to demand that sex with them means monogamy...unfortunately there are very few who don't buy into the fairytale marriage and happy ending BS. The unfortunate thing is, you're fighting an uphill battle trying to get people to change their thinking directly - better to do it subtly and indirectly

Condoms sometimes break-though...

Where If I was bareback, I would pull out at the end for a nice safe happy ending.

The fact that I am wearing a condom makes me think it's safe but now.... I am really nervous to the point that I am going to have to pull out even if the condom stays intact.

It is has happened a couple of times and I have to take her word that she took a pill in the morning.

I am just gonna encourage myself to spooge above the neck line from now on. In my opinion, condoms cause more babies than people that do bareback.

Having a supply of morning after pills in my bed-side draw could be a wise idea, too.

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Condoms break, but you should practice pausing for a few seconds and checking if that sucker is still on your dick a few times during sex. It's not a hard practice and it will save your ass a lot of worry. You're taking a risk taking her word for it. Here in America, man, the legal system will come after your ass for that child support money. And you bet your ass that girl will get her paycheck some way or another.

As for your morning after pills. Shit, that would be the wisest investment. Another load off your chest.

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Or another load on her chest.

It's takes so long for me to cum as it is, so the whole thought process of checking before the last second can kill my entire climax.

But is defo something I should work on.

I had a pregnancy scare in the past from a lying sadistic lady and that was a long 9 months of dread and worry.

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Oh I'm not talking about the last second I'm talking about knowing here and there and if you can when you're getting tender and about to pop soon. I'm sure you know that feeling. Unless I have a pornstar money shot skill I didn't know about (girl says cum. I say ok)


And that's one of my biggest fears, a girl lying to me about being pregnant. That's just dirty

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Drag,

I read your trip reports. You need to change your brand dude, OR switch during sex so that they're more lubricated and less likely to break (which I do at times)

Never had a condom break on me - from what I understand, it's primarily due lack of lubrication.

But of COURSE condoms are not fool proof, and having a pill as a backup is a good idea.

Maybe we have different sized dicks...:p

I've always slacked on the lube though.

Here is my collection including the 8 different brands I have tried.



looks like I am running low :p

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Are we REALLY turning this into a literal dick measuring contest?

Really?

Do you REALLY want to do this Drag?

If she ain't wet shits gonna break with enough friction. Particularly if you've been going for a while, she'll naturally simply not be lubricated enough.

Have you ever seen the barcode on a condom?

p.s. I edited my previous post and I am not being serious

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Nah I ain't taking you serious bro!

Can't say I've really looked at barcodes seriously. However, I've found that durex doesn't work for me at ALL. Never liked them. I use a particular brand I get here in the Caribbean (It's called slam) that works really well for me, good lubrication and studded.

But like I said, when I realise that she's not as wet (almost always when I've been going for a while) I have one handy to pull off and put back on quickly.

I searched like hell for Slam condoms in the UK, but could never find them. You gotta use different ones that work for you.

I guess you haven't rolled it down far enough

*Bada dum tsss*

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Don't stick your cock in the mouth of a hardcore Catholic girl with braces. Personally, I think this is one of the hardest lessons I've learned.

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I think one of the reasons its hard to change is because its a hell of a lot easier to rationalize away things. It's a hell of a lot harder to admit blame and maybe something needs to change. That's probably the basis for a lot of toxic relationships or why guys have a hard time just saying no and walking away from a bad hand. I actually have been going to a psychologist for a few months. Each session she was impressed that I was so adamant about changing my life around for the better. I wanted success, and I craved it. In all parts of life and not just pickup.


My last session was couple of weeks ago..she pretty much said, yeah you don;t need to come here anymore, you're pretty much moving along on your own just fine. And in that instant I pretty much understood that I am probably wayyyyy ahead of everyone else who is stuck in their mindset. Wayyy ahead of people who are still sitting on the fence and thinking about making a move, wayyy ahead of people who have tried and are back to square one until the next push comes to shove.

I'm in a good place.

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