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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 9:14 pm 
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Man let this one fucking go.

I read the older posts and this is like the 5th breakup after cheating at least twice. And even in those you couldnt keep your story straight. Its done. Move on. Frankly, at damn near 40, you're not emotionally mature for a relationship so sort that shit out before entering a new one. You're erratic, manipulative and I truly feel sorry for this chick.

A chick breaks up with you, its a BREAK UP. 5 Fucking break ups in 5 years, shit isn't working simple as that. You are not ready for a relationship because you're so mentally unstable and have so little emotional intelligence you brush off the dysfunction and problems. There is always a reason for you. There is a reason why you cheated on her once. There was a reason why you cheated on her again. There is a reason why she left that you can fix. Its not 5 break ups..."its just the 2nd MAJOR one"...that changes everything (rolls eyes). Let the chick move on from this dysfunction. Fuck "no contact". ....No contact is when you think there's a chance. Move on. You really want to go no contact so she reaches out again? So you 2 reconcile for the 6th time? So something else comes along to throw it off course again? Let the shit go. Its a bad relationship and youve done too much at this point. Also, lifestyle-wise you 2 dont even share the same goals. Maybe its the age difference, maybe its your issues, maybe its the fact that she's lazy...whatever the case move the fuck on. Not "no contact"...move...the...fuck...on....
Damn...you just got busted by our official historian. Disregard my responses and listen to Neo.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 9:30 pm 
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@neo87 - Are you my GF in disguise? We've had spats from time to time but there was only twice where it truly appeared over...Where their was an "official" break up...You think you know me and you don't...I came here for advice not to be persecuted by forum police...

As it stands my situation is as its been communicated in this thread...If anyone wants to give me advice based on what i started in this thread with fine...I reject neo87's internet psychology, I'd like to choose a better all-world internet player to speak with...


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Damn NEO is on some super sleuth shit.

I don't have the time to do research on these guys, its good he's here because it ironically saves my time from continuing trying to help these guys salvage these toxic relationships they've helped create.


Wingman, Neo is trying to help but your ears are plugged with cotton.

I agree, move on and plug whatever holes you've got going on so you don't repeat the same errors with the next one.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 10:19 pm 
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Look man you have no clue the shit I have done for this girl, the love we have shared, the children we have lost, you have no fucking clue...

This is a pickup line, technique and tactics forum...Use any semantics you want this is a place where guys ask for help in using tactics to achieve their relationship goals...Some of these internet pimps actually think this is a place of moral uprising under the guise of "controlling these hoes"...so spare me neo87...I have less than 100 posts in the history of my membership here..the information I give is a small minuscule, percentage of my total relationship...

If I ask a question and someone has an answer that can fit into whatever goal I'm trying to achieve, that is the transaction...If you don't want to give one or you want to expose me or whatever else you feel your "playa" moral compass can't allow, don't answer the thread...Aint no licensed PHd's up in here when every other post in this bish is some form of "How do I scheme on this chick" ?... give me some advanced pick-up Artist Techniques and tactics or gtfoh...


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Look man you have no clue the shit I have done for this girl, the love we have shared, the children we have lost, you have no fucking clue...

This is a pickup line, technique and tactics forum...Use any semantics you want this is a place where guys ask for help in using tactics to achieve their relationship goals...Some of these internet pimps actually think this is a place of moral uprising under the guise of "controlling these hoes"...so spare me neo87...I have less than 100 posts in the history of my membership here..the information I give is a small minuscule, percentage of my total relationship...

If I ask a question and someone has an answer that can fit into whatever goal I'm trying to achieve, that is the transaction...If you don't want to give one or you want to expose me or whatever else you feel your "playa" moral compass can't allow, don't answer the thread...Aint no licensed PHd's up in here when every other post in this bish is some form of "How do I scheme on this chick" ?... give me some advanced pick-up Artist Techniques and tactics or gtfoh...
Is this how you responded when things didn't go your way with your ex? This is probably the reason she responded to your text the way she did.

We do know some of the things you've done and you started digging a hole for yourself. You've gone through losses with her which more than likely caused her to see your relationship as negative. Crying to her about not getting a job doesn't make you look any better in her eyes either. Although I do believe that you've shared love, but toxic is just toxic. You want a strategy...fix how you respond to people that are trying to be there for you instead of acting like an asshole. Learn how to respond to adversity. Quit looking for shortcuts and do the work on you so she'll be afraid to lose you.

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@neo87 - Are you my GF in disguise? We've had spats from time to time but there was only twice where it truly appeared over...Where their was an "official" break up...You think you know me and you don't...I came here for advice not to be persecuted by forum police...

As it stands my situation is as its been communicated in this thread...If anyone wants to give me advice based on what i started in this thread with fine...I reject neo87's internet psychology, I'd like to choose a better all-world internet player to speak with...
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So I'm eating a sandwhich my GF it's all good, she drops me off to work and she's like, "I think we should be friends because I don't know where this relationship is going?"

2nd, 3rd and 4th from 2015:
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Long story short, this is our 3rd breakup...Year 1 she found out I was texting another girl about a possible future relationship, but no biggie we got back together rather quick..my first big fuck up...

Year 2 was the real breakup where we broke up for about 2-3 months after she went in my phone and found out I was "courting" a co-worker, I was because we were having issues that led me to believe she was leaving me...but after lots of work back together.
And now this is the 5th.

Now dude, I don;t need a PHD to know that if a chick and you have broken up 5 times, heck, lets go with "they weren't serious breakups" so 3...by your own words, if a chick has broken up with you 3 TIMES, shit isn't working out. If a chick has told you "SHE HATES YOU"...Shit isnt working out. Its not rocket science.
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Look man you have no clue the shit I have done for this girl, the love we have shared, the children we have lost, you have no fucking clue...
And please, dont say anything else. I nevr said you didnt do anything for her. That is irrelevant. What youve done for her doesnt entitle you to be with her. Just saying that here....tell me you haven't hit her with that "please after everything we've been through and Ive done" guilt trip bs. Oh yeah, you did. Cant guilt someone into being with you. I dont care if you donated her a lung, or you had 5 kids that died in a fire...THAT DOES NOT MEAN SHE HAS TO BE WITH YOU. Cant you see how manipulative that is?

Look man, whatever history you have with this girl, if 3 times there have been what you call serious breakups, you 2 arent right for each other.
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If I ask a question and someone has an answer that can fit into whatever goal I'm trying to achieve, that is the transaction...If you don't want to give one or you want to expose me or whatever else you feel your "playa" moral compass can't allow, don't answer the thread...Aint no licensed PHd's up in here when every other post in this bish is some form of "How do I scheme on this chick" ?... give me some advanced pick-up Artist Techniques and tactics or gtfoh...
I dont know what forum you're on, but here, no one tells a guy to do X to get his ex back. There even are multiple threads telling guys how to move on. I gave you real, simple advice:

3 breakups (5) move the fuck on
10 threads on problems and break ups with the same girl = move the fuck on.

I cant believe you're talking about "morals" when nothing ive said has to do with that. The relationship is not working. She has left multiple times. This is not healthy. A gf should never tell you she hates you.

Really, is "move on" some kinda complicated advice?

It isn't "psychology" or "morals" or whatever else you want to make up in your head. SHIT IS NOT WORKING and YOU 2 DONT WORK TOGETHER. This girl has to TELL you she's gonna block you....You really think that SHE, who knows you, doesn't AGREE that YOU cant move on? Call me crazy, but girls block when they know you wont give up....and I dont know you but SHE does. And evidently you cant take hearing you 2 dont work as an answer. I dont know your relationship: I dont know what tv shows yall watch, I dont know how she sucked you off, I dont know that you 2 went to Spain for a holiday. What I do know is 5 breakups in 5 years. Its not that complicated and I dont need a PHD to know you 2 do not work in a relationship.

Again, move on. Its your business, I cant tell you to give up the car that has broken down on you every year for the past 5.

Supposedly this is breakup 3, what are you going to do after breakup 4? or 5? or 6? Cause it only gets harder to leave. If you get her back, do what you want to do: impregnate her so she cant leave. Thats how you sound.


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Damn NEO is on some super sleuth shit.

I don't have the time to do research on these guys, its good he's here because it ironically saves my time from continuing trying to help these guys salvage these toxic relationships they've helped create.


Wingman, Neo is trying to help but your ears are plugged with cotton.

I agree, move on and plug whatever holes you've got going on so you don't repeat the same errors with the next one.
Lol, its not tough...I like to get some backstory. So many times these guys come here disregarding 10 threads telling them to walk away and act like a problem just started.


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Damn NEO is on some super sleuth shit.

I don't have the time to do research on these guys, its good he's here because it ironically saves my time from continuing trying to help these guys salvage these toxic relationships they've helped create.


Wingman, Neo is trying to help but your ears are plugged with cotton.

I agree, move on and plug whatever holes you've got going on so you don't repeat the same errors with the next one.
Lol, its not tough...I like to get some backstory. So many times these guys come here disregarding 10 threads telling them to walk away and act like a problem just started.
You rattled the hornets nest, dude is throwing daggers like a flock of afghans throwing rocks at a woman.


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Stop blaming the job.

The relationship probably ended in the first place because you were partially desperate and unable to hold you stuff together.

Let it go bro. I wrote an article called " Going Through A Break Up? Read This Now" that will provide you with a great deal of insight on how to get through this situation.

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Considering the way you replied to neo's excellent advice, it's really easy to see why a relationship with you is hardly possible. You have the emotional maturity of a pubescent 17 year old who is still having issues accepting the fact that the Sun doesn't shine out of his ass.

Fucks sake man. Get a grip.

Inb4 restraining order.

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Look man you have no clue the shit I have done for this girl, the love we have shared, the children we have lost, you have no fucking clue...

This is a pickup line, technique and tactics forum...Use any semantics you want this is a place where guys ask for help in using tactics to achieve their relationship goals...Some of these internet pimps actually think this is a place of moral uprising under the guise of "controlling these hoes"...so spare me neo87...I have less than 100 posts in the history of my membership here..the information I give is a small minuscule, percentage of my total relationship...

If I ask a question and someone has an answer that can fit into whatever goal I'm trying to achieve, that is the transaction...If you don't want to give one or you want to expose me or whatever else you feel your "playa" moral compass can't allow, don't answer the thread...Aint no licensed PHd's up in here when every other post in this bish is some form of "How do I scheme on this chick" ?... give me some advanced pick-up Artist Techniques and tactics or gtfoh...
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