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@neo87 - Are you my GF in disguise? We've had spats from time to time but there was only twice where it truly appeared over...Where their was an "official" break up...You think you know me and you don't...I came here for advice not to be persecuted by forum police...
As it stands my situation is as its been communicated in this thread...If anyone wants to give me advice based on what i started in this thread with fine...I reject neo87's internet psychology, I'd like to choose a better all-world internet player to speak with...
1st-2012
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So I'm eating a sandwhich my GF it's all good, she drops me off to work and she's like, "I think we should be friends because I don't know where this relationship is going?"
2nd, 3rd and 4th from 2015:
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Long story short, this is our 3rd breakup...Year 1 she found out I was texting another girl about a possible future relationship, but no biggie we got back together rather quick..my first big fuck up...
Year 2 was the real breakup where we broke up for about 2-3 months after she went in my phone and found out I was "courting" a co-worker, I was because we were having issues that led me to believe she was leaving me...but after lots of work back together.
And now this is the 5th.
Now dude, I don;t need a PHD to know that if a chick and you have broken up 5 times, heck, lets go with "they weren't serious breakups" so 3...by your own words, if a chick has broken up with you 3 TIMES, shit isn't working out. If a chick has told you "SHE HATES YOU"...Shit isnt working out. Its not rocket science.
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Look man you have no clue the shit I have done for this girl, the love we have shared, the children we have lost, you have no fucking clue...
And please, dont say anything else. I nevr said you didnt do anything for her. That is irrelevant. What youve done for her doesnt entitle you to be with her. Just saying that here....tell me you haven't hit her with that "please after everything we've been through and Ive done" guilt trip bs. Oh yeah, you did. Cant guilt someone into being with you. I dont care if you donated her a lung, or you had 5 kids that died in a fire...THAT DOES NOT MEAN SHE HAS TO BE WITH YOU. Cant you see how manipulative that is?
Look man, whatever history you have with this girl, if 3 times there have been what you call serious breakups, you 2 arent right for each other.
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If I ask a question and someone has an answer that can fit into whatever goal I'm trying to achieve, that is the transaction...If you don't want to give one or you want to expose me or whatever else you feel your "playa" moral compass can't allow, don't answer the thread...Aint no licensed PHd's up in here when every other post in this bish is some form of "How do I scheme on this chick" ?... give me some advanced pick-up Artist Techniques and tactics or gtfoh...
I dont know what forum you're on, but here, no one tells a guy to do X to get his ex back. There even are multiple threads telling guys how to move on. I gave you real, simple advice:
3 breakups (5) move the fuck on
10 threads on problems and break ups with the same girl = move the fuck on.
I cant believe you're talking about "morals" when nothing ive said has to do with that. The relationship is not working. She has left multiple times. This is not healthy. A gf should never tell you she hates you.
Really, is "move on" some kinda complicated advice?
It isn't "psychology" or "morals" or whatever else you want to make up in your head. SHIT IS NOT WORKING and YOU 2 DONT WORK TOGETHER. This girl has to TELL you she's gonna block you....You really think that SHE, who knows you, doesn't AGREE that YOU cant move on? Call me crazy, but girls block when they know you wont give up....and I dont know you but SHE does. And evidently you cant take hearing you 2 dont work as an answer. I dont know your relationship: I dont know what tv shows yall watch, I dont know how she sucked you off, I dont know that you 2 went to Spain for a holiday. What I do know is 5 breakups in 5 years. Its not that complicated and I dont need a PHD to know you 2 do not work in a relationship.
Again, move on. Its your business, I cant tell you to give up the car that has broken down on you every year for the past 5.
Supposedly this is breakup 3, what are you going to do after breakup 4? or 5? or 6? Cause it only gets harder to leave. If you get her back, do what you want to do: impregnate her so she cant leave. Thats how you sound.