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Hey guys, so by nature I can be very polite and respectful. However, I realised that can translate as Mr. Nice guy or old fashion. What are ways to appear more intimidating and masculine?
What would you recommend from head-to-toe. Dress style, personality traits, learning new things - self defense in any form, etc.
For example: I want to be respected by both men and women. For guys, so they know they can't mess with me. And so women can feel that they are protected by me.
Why would you want to appear intimidating? My advice for you: drop the fake alpha male bullshit. What you are asking for is how to respect yourself. When you
genuinely respect yourself, you won't be a "nice guy" who gets stepped on like a doormat, and at the same time, you won't be some socially uncalibrated asshole.
Respecting yourself includes:
1. Genuinely caring about yourself
2. Working out
3. Pursuing your hobbies and interests
4. Eating nutritious and healthy foods
5. Expanding your mind with knowledge-enhancing books
6. Dressing well (look up fashion advice)
7. Good hygiene
8. Putting yourself first
9. Doing things because you want to -- not to please
10. Being true to yourself -- that includes escalating