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PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2016 8:55 pm 
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So I have the confidence to go out and approach women, make small talk and get numbers.

So how to a connect with a women on a date? (I have a problem with connecting and forming friendships with people in general) WHen I go on dates, it just feel so awkward most of the time and the girl always ends up texting people on her cellphone during the date.


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So I have the confidence to go out and approach women, make small talk and get numbers.

So how to a connect with a women on a date? (I have a problem with connecting and forming friendships with people in general) WHen I go on dates, it just feel so awkward most of the time and the girl always ends up texting people on her cellphone during the date.
Making a good connection is a matter of finding mutual interests or at least some topics to talk about. Tell few funny stories that will put your friend in the right mood. Make several gentle touches and here you go – you will be chatting like best friends in the world.

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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2016 2:25 pm 
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By actually giving a shit about her and genuinely want to get to know about her interests, hobbies, family. Why she was a cutter as a tween. What movies make her cry. Her most embarrassing story. That kind of shit.

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By actually giving a shit about her and genuinely want to get to know about her interests, hobbies, family.
This ^.

Genuinely is the keyword. You should want to learn more about her as a person.

It's easy to go from fun banter and actually wanting to know her to going into an "interview mode," which is a great way to kill attraction. When she's talking, actually listen to her intently. Resist the urge to think about the next thing to say and listen to what she's saying. How do you feel about what she said?

I'll tell you how I met my current girlfriend. "You aren't from around here," I say. "Why do you think that?" she asks. "Girl I can tell when someone's from Chicago or not!" She laughs and says, "You'd be right. I'm from Ohio." I joke: "Whoa. What brought you from the cornfields to this illustrious city?"

Obviously what you say has to be congruent with who you are. It's also not so much about what you say but how you say it. You have to be honest about your intentions, and to do that you have to make yourself vulnerable and open to rejection. If you want sex, push the interaction towards sex, escalate, and don't be ashamed about it. Own up to what you want. Take two steps forward and one step back.

Otherwise you'll end up talking about the weather or the environment around you which is not only boring but a waste of time.


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So many ways to cook fried chicken. One way that works for me really well is to bait women to seek rapport with me. Yep. By making women connect with you; instead of connecting with them.

How? Since I workout on the regular and have achieved a better than average body, I wear tight fitting shirts and jeans. I also accentuate my cock. Women get sexual really fast when you have built enough emotional connection through your cock. If you are sexually appealing visually, women will try their best to connect with you. When they do, all you have to do is accept them.

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Why do you go on dates?


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By actually giving a shit about her and genuinely want to get to know about her interests, hobbies, family. Why she was a cutter as a tween. What movies make her cry. Her most embarrassing story. That kind of shit.

This. But first, you need to qualify the woman for YOU.

I approach every encounter with a woman as if I am the prize. She must pass my tests, and then I will start to give a shit and genuinely care.

I'm extremely picky and turn girls down on a consistent basis. Others pick up on this.

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I plug my hair with the girl kind of like an the avataar movie, ultimate connection

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PostPosted: Wed May 04, 2016 2:25 am 
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Read "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.

But basically, most of us like to talk about ourselves. So that's the tip: let her talk about herself. Not about the importance of sugar in cakes, but about herself. Goals, dreams, funny stories. Look at her in the eyes.
Now and then tease her (loads of teasing) and talk a little about yourself too, so that you can relate to her.


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This. But first, you need to qualify the woman for YOU.

I approach every encounter with a woman as if I am the prize. She must pass my tests, and then I will start to give a shit and genuinely care.

I'm extremely picky and turn girls down on a consistent basis. Others pick up on this.
How would I qualify a women with out making it sounds like a job interview?


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This. But first, you need to qualify the woman for YOU.

I approach every encounter with a woman as if I am the prize. She must pass my tests, and then I will start to give a shit and genuinely care.

I'm extremely picky and turn girls down on a consistent basis. Others pick up on this.
How would I qualify a women with out making it sounds like a job interview?
By listening with your ears, mot your mouth.

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