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From what you posted it seems like she is asking and has a genuine interest in your life. I don't know about you, but I feel that that is an action that should be rewarded. The reward? Answering her question genuinely and honestly. If a girl asked me that I would probably say something like.
Me: That's an interesting question. What makes me different? hmm, I think I am one of few guys who don't try to prove themself to anyone. I am confident in myself no matter what happens to me, and I am probably one of the most honest guys you will ever meet. I guess I'm not always all these things, but I'm totally aware of that and even comfortable with it. I am comfortable even with my faults.
I guess it depends on when it is asked. We want women to get used to jumping through our hoops, and not so much the other way around. We need women to qualify themselves to US, since we are the prize. We will not be qualifying ourselves to them, which is AFC and likely boring. When she asks you a serious question, and you give her a serious answer, you've just jumped through her hoop.. She is stealing your frame..
If, on the other hand, you respond with something that is funny, you are providing a source mystique, humor, entertainment by not complying to her demands, AND you are maintaining the frame, not her, got it?