I met a girl a few years back, yes laugh it out, have a good one. I made an excellent first impression and she's probably the most beautiful thing I have ever laid eyes on. I now live in England and she lives in South Africa.

So time goes on and she tags me in a few facebook posts and we start messaging each other, I start using techniques to try and make the best impression, making her laugh, negg-hits, being distant. And IT'S WORKING! She just invited me to meet her in Amsterdam.....

I'm not sure if I should go though haha. IS she shit testing me? To see if I run after her? It sounds legit though.
SHOULD I GO? She's coming to London soon even if I don't go, I have only met her once and then our convos have been through text and facebook and Instagram.

Don't take the piss, I need advice here, this could possibly be something beautiful.

Should I go to Amsterdam, by myself to meet her and her femae cousin that's leaving her after two days? Or should I not go and be crazy untouchable? Players please help, I don't just want to fuck this girl.

I think the question to ask is would you be going too Amsterdam if she wasn't there?

Personally, I would skip it, that is far too much investment for a girl I'd only met once before. Plus I have far too many priorities and other shit in my life.

If she was coming too my city, that would be another deal altogether. Although I would only meet her on my terms.

Long distance game..

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I think you're right, I feel like it is a shit test because she would think she's got me right where she wants me. Also I would be investing too much, we have been talking quite a lot and I think she does like me. SO maybe it's a way for her to see me? Do you think it's too much investment on her part?

The real question is what do you want to do? If you want to go out there and see her and you're not risking any of your responsibilities, then do what you want. Forget what everyone else thinks because they don't have to live in your skin after the fact.

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I don't really think it is a conscious shit test mate. She is probably all for meeting up in Amsterdam and would like the idea of you going and meeting up with her. But a lot of girls also like the idea of a well to do man get down on one knee for her, offer an expensive ring and commit solely too them. Only to flirt with other men, lose all respect and divorce them years later, taking most of what they've got.

I think that part of you intuitively understands that by going that far out of your way just for the hopes of meeting up with this girl you've only met once you are putting her on a pedestal. I think you're jumping like a dog at the first stick she is throwing and getting a little over-excited at the prospect. Although it might not be conscious for her at the moment this attitude you're displaying could lead her to lose respect for you in the long run.

You really have to be careful with which frame you're setting up, what do you really want with this girl? Because by the sounds of it "this could be something beautiful" is giving off all the wrong vibes. It sounds like you're in love with this girl before you've even fucked her and she is one of the only girls in your life right now, even though you only really have an internet relationship. I think you need to get it into your head that she is nothing special, and if you are on a 'pick up and seduction' forum then any girl that is only vising your city for a small while should be seen as a weekend of good sex.

That is why I asked, would you really be going too Amsterdam if she wasn't, and do you honestly not have other things that you could be doing and other girls too speak too other than her?

If you want too know how to get her to meet with you when she comes to London and turn it into a great time for the both of you then feel free to ask. But, other than that, do whatever the fuck you want.