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I don't get why this is an endless debate. The fact that you think a 10 requires different game only means you've never come close to one. Please stop using the number rating system and adopt a 'Attractive' and 'Not attractive' mindset, you might actually get somewhere if you think of women like this.
You're thinking in black and white Dragula. There a varying grades of attractivness. Whilst the fundamentals of what attracts women are hardwired into a woman's brain their psychology in the way they interact with men is different. A 5 may be more than likely be glad of attention from a guy and be complicit in her own seduction whilst a 10 will be sick and tired of it and have a multitude of screening techniques and shit tests ready for Mr afc purely as a time management system.
Women will test you and the more attractive they are the more they will test you.
The two main tests are.
1/ Confidence.
2/ Trust.
Demonstrate these and you attraction level improves but only so far. Like I said "they're not magic bullets".
Shrek pua/balls of uranium + 10....nah too much of a jump.
7 guy/afc + 10.....nah.
7 pua/balls of uranium.....maybe.
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Wrong because I'm talking in the looks criteria as well. Your 10 will be different than my 10. My brother's 10 is different than my 10. My best friend's 10 is different than my brother's 10 and my 10. All of this based on looks alone. A 10 is subjective when it comes to looks.
Appreciation of female beauty is hardwired into the male brain. Whilst there will be some subjective influence according to a guy's "type". You both "know" a beautiful woman when you see one.
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I get it. You don't know what direct is.
The same thing it has meant the last 20 years since the term was first coined by the then fledgling pua movement.
Approaching a woman and making your intentions clear.
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I was thinking the same thing. Especially since his example was a girl that was so hot that she pawned him off on some friends. And then again he used the benefit of being direct as the hot girl would introduce you to their friends.
The law of unintended consequences. It was an anecdote. Think of it as an exaption on the methodolgy.
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10's get approached 1000's of times, but luckily few real direct approaches.
Exactly.
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When you say you're beautiful, she can tell like some jedi stuff than you're outcome dependent, the last 3 dudes who just said the same...well she picked up they would be upset and they didnt get the confident label.
Indeed she did...but what....what if you really are outcome independent? What if you're a pua who knows exactly whats coming? The probationary "confidence" label she gives you gets a barrage of tests, takes them all and shrugs them off. Your confidence is "approved". The frame is held.
Take it from me guys: Approaching a 10 with no confidence won't get you anywhere at all unless you look like Brad Pitt.
Approaching a 10 with balls of steel will get you further than you think. If you're a 7 or 8 in looks then just do it but you have to walk the walk. The direct approach got the invitation, she wants you to succeed but the rest is up to you. The ball's in your hand so don't drop it.
Have a great xmas guys. M
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