I think pebble did a pretty good job in his last post elaborating this point, but I will make it concise and to the point.

Sex will allow you to get to the know the girl better because:
1. The investment is higher, she will think "This is real." Thus allowing her to drop her guard more and open up to who she really is.
2. A women feels incredibly vulnerable through sex. Take her through that experience many times and she will trust you and have a comfort of incredible quality with you.
3. The investment that I referenced earlier will likely stay higher than if you continuously hung out and not had sex. This will give you a better chance at keeping her around and getting to know her more.
4. Pillow talk after sex is an incredible way to get to know a women. Far better than being in the friend zone for months and talking about stupid shit.
5. Through sex and experiencing that together, the two of you have shared one of the things that bring men and women closer together. Everytime I have hooked up with a girl, I have felt connected to her. Even if it was a one night thing or whatever, sex does bring people closer together.

Through sex, I also get a vibe and energy with women. Something that you can't really get the full experience of getting to know someone in other ways imo.

Let me know how you would dispute these or how you better to get to know a women. There isn't one other than sex.

Each to their own... I just prefer (if I want to actually get to know a girl) to get her to open up emotionally through conversation... nothing to do with the friendzone.

You build attraction first, then comfort. A relationship is no different, it's just spaced out more; moments that build attraction followed by moments that build comfort. As the relationship evolves you have more comfort moments and less attraction moments, which is normal and healthy.

This is getting to be too much theory.

A quality woman does not because she's been through it already and understands how most guys work.

Point being is that women react differently to sex.

I think pebble did a pretty good job in his last post elaborating this point, but I will make it concise and to the point.

Sex will allow you to get to the know the girl better because:
1. The investment is higher, she will think "This is real." Thus allowing her to drop her guard more and open up to who she really is.
2. A women feels incredibly vulnerable through sex. Take her through that experience many times and she will trust you and have a comfort of incredible quality with you.
3. The investment that I referenced earlier will likely stay higher than if you continuously hung out and not had sex. This will give you a better chance at keeping her around and getting to know her more.
4. Pillow talk after sex is an incredible way to get to know a women. Far better than being in the friend zone for months and talking about stupid shit.
5. Through sex and experiencing that together, the two of you have shared one of the things that bring men and women closer together. Everytime I have hooked up with a girl, I have felt connected to her. Even if it was a one night thing or whatever, sex does bring people closer together.

Through sex, I also get a vibe and energy with women. Something that you can't really get the full experience of getting to know someone in other ways imo.

Let me know how you would dispute these or how you better to get to know a women. There isn't one other than sex.

My overall opinion on how to get to know a girl...Time. Or any person for that matter. Sex may get her to be vulnerable and say some nice stories over pillow talk, but you dont really know someone until a significant amt of time has passed. Whether you screw a girl every night for 6 months, or you talk to her deep stuff every night for 6 months, you still dont know her. Now, sex is good to make a girl invest and stick around, and tell you deep things, but for the first few months its really all just bs anyway. It's called the honey moon period for a reason. Yes, go for sex early, just dont fool yourself that either through sex or conversations about what she wanted to be when she was 5, that you're really getting to know someone.

Words mean nothing, especially from girls...you gotta watch someone's actions when things are good, and things are bad, to even have an idea of who they really are.

And then you get into more theory based on judgements: What is a quality woman and to who?
This is very true however the vast majority are more towards the side of getting to know you better rather than shutting down and the ones who do typically shut down because they feel vulnerable. If you can take that for what it is, it is in fact is a positive side of getting to know someone better. She is guarded because she cares. Show her the same affection and she will blossom in my experience.

I think we can all agree that getting into a relationship before you have got to know her emotionally AND physically is the worst idea in the world.

But to clear up what I'm saying for you is that a quality woman is a woman that is feminine, takes time to make herself attractive, has something going for her, and is grounded in reality when it comes to relationships. Inexperienced and less quality women are the ones that get dreamy after sex. These tend to be girls that are younger or not used to being pursued by men.

My overall opinion on how to get to know a girl...Time. Or any person for that matter.

I have been thinking a lot on relationships lately and I wanted to go into at least how I view them. Now I have had a few long term relationships since I have been in game 3 years now, both open and closed relationships, but I have found this to be an area of life where most non-PUA guys get crazy with.

First, I don't believe that you can really get to know someone well enough to make them your girlfriend quickly. She has to earn this privilege with me. The one girl I dated exclusively in the past three years, she had to wait 5+ months for that opportunity.

When you start dating someone, I leave out any expectations. She may want me to be her bf and I may be so attracted to her I want the same at some level, but you don't know she is of the quality to even consider that at the start. Plus, what if the sex is terrible? Yes some girls are absolutely awful lays.

The first goal is to have sex with her. Then you can see more into who she truly is and what she is ever after. Most things are not communicated with words, it is all actions.

I move then to see her once a week. It should be a meet leading up to sex. If you see her as an FB then no date. If you are still considering her for an MLTR then go for the date. If there is no sex after the date I will give a soft-next, not talking to her for three days.

Soon she should be fighting to be the only girl in your life and you should be dating several women at a time. How are you going to decide on the one girl if you had no basis for comparison, or no options?

At about a month she usually brings up the relationship topic, IE "Where is this going?" I avoid this one because I still need more time. Usually it is some smart ass comment followed by changing topic. Then I am communicating that we are not discussing this right now.

Then at two months she will bring up the topic again. At this point you have to address it. If you don't want a girlfriend you tell her, but state that you really care about her and would like to see her still. Alternatively if you want to make her your girlfriend at that point, do it!

Of course all of this goes without saying that finding relationships and such should go with your current life goals. If settling down isn't something you don't want to do or something that doesn't support you in your life, don't do it!

I don't ever lie to my girls. Honesty is important and it is not just about what you say, but what you do. If you know how to communicate really well in these ways, you can form relationships that others think are impossible.

"The first goal is to have sex with her. Then you can see more into who she truly is and what she is ever after. Most things are not communicated with words, it is all actions. "

Only a small percentage of communication involves actual words: 7%, to be exact. In fact, 55% of communication is visual (body language, eye contact) and 38% is vocal (pitch, speed, volume, tone of voice)