Who cares? I can get drunk, go home and beat my wife. Is it a valid excuse if I blame the alcohol? Moreso, in what world would it be acceptable for her to ever use "Oh maybe it's because he was drunk" as a valid reason to justify those actions?
Same shit. Who cares? It can be either of those things. Is it painful to see her with him? fuck yeah it is. But it's irrelevant. She already made her choice.

All your posts revolve around the same pattern. You're trying to find some sort of solace either by rationalizing excuses for her actions (aka pill thing) or finding motive for her actions (new guy thing). Stop avoiding reality and take it at face value. She's gone. That's all there is to know.

This behavior comes from neediness and fear. You're weak or predisposed to weakness. That's most likely what pushed her away in the first place.
This is what you have to understand. It's not about any one girl. It's about you. Unless you become that rare symbol of masculinity that women need in their lives, this same story will repeat itself with the next girl, and the next, and the next.

Just take a look around this subforum. Same story, different title.

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RC is spot on

Every single post about her, every single thought about her is going to manifest in your head and make you more and more needy

If I was you, get the thread locked, quit being a chode, channel this anger and energy into motivation and drive to be good with women.

You probably read the game whilst you were in a relationship and haven't fully immersed yourself into the ladies man you want to be. Man the fuck up and get hotter and loyal chick this weekend. This game stuff works as long as you're you're not a mental case like redstar

Enough about your girlfriend. Upwards and onwards

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I think I'm just too emotional, how I'd like to be an asshole who does not care.

I suppose I can close it now, or maybe wait a few days to share any recent outcomes. One last request, I've been out of PUA for some time. I'm working on night shifts and have a lot of time after duties. I started reading something like ,,Relationship Rewind" but I must say even for me it's a crap. Give me some title, some up-to-date PUA bible so I might learn something and remind myself how things should be. Any shot is better than shooting blindly.

Thanks guys

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It takes a lot more than just wanting to not be emotional anymore for you to get out of the emotional state.

You've thought yourself into this situation. So you have to THINK yourself out of this situation. You have to BECOME someone else the same way an actor becomes a character. Mental repetition. The mind will begin to believe anything you say to it enough.

You tell yourself "I'd be better with a new girl." "This was just a learning experience. Theres a greater woman out there for me" " I'm completely focused on myself and my future."

You've mentally poised yourself with your thoughts of the girl so you have to give yourself the mental medicine to get yourself out.

It'll be tough at first, the thoughts won't be congruent with your current emotions. But every time you repeat it it becomes more and more connected with your subconscious. Its not going to be fun, it'll be work, but its not suppose to be fun. Its a topic I discuss in my book. It'll take you some time, may may have to say these things 100,000 times until they stick.

You can do it anywhere. Any place. Anytime. All of this only exist in your head. No one feels for her what you do. Pebble could have a one night stand with her and think nothing of it. He may not see anything in her. It is your thoughts that have created it.

Thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habits, habits become character, and character becomes destiny.

Think yourself out.

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I found my shelter in my passion - Xtreme Martial Arts Tricks and when I redirected this anger and frustration towards it, I feel much better.

On the other hand, I now think that she actually may have some personality disorder, a while ago we had such a text conversation of (H)er and (M)e.

H: So I want my stuff I left at your place, but you're such an asshole that I fkn must pick'em myself!
M: Hah, am I? I can bring them to your place tommorow after work.
H: No. I'll be back late today and sleeping till late tommorow.
H: Or come and threw'em through my aunt's fence!
M: pyjamas?
H: Pyjamas, sweater, pillow, blanket, pillow
M: Nah, that's too much stuff.
H: Noooo, but I want my blanket My cute blankeet!
M: Or you know, fk it, your stuff will come in handy, excluding sweater
H: For sure -.-

Ok, now I was an asshole little bit, but she definately has some change of moods. But don't think all of your advises went to nothing, after this convo I'm not gonna text her ever again. Today I've started rebuilding my inner self, fingers crossed!


EDIT: Jesus sometimes I'm such a fkn asshole I don't even notice it. She wants to kill me now so I think I got rid of her for good (and good). This is probably my last note here:
Well, she suffers sexomnia, quite a funny but sometimes annoying thing, that she uncounsciously masturbates during night sometimes, hm. Little annoying, so when we were sleeping together she was wearing pyjamas and everything was ok. Now, with this argue about her stuff, she told me that ok, I can keep the blanket and pillow but to return the rest. And pyjamas! I replied. And after a while added ,,nah, just kidding, without somnia pyjamas aren't needed" and that's when the heavens broke down.
- YOU F***** MOTHER******!!!!!!!!!!!
- I'll bring ur stuff Monday after ur fitness
- GET THE F*** OFF!!!!!!!!!!
- Ok

So... I belieave it does it. Funny, how a word or two can sometimes bring up such a reaction. Maybe now it'll be easier to move on, oh, and I know, I'm an asshole huh

Wish you all more luck than I had!

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I would've packed her stuff and currier'd it to her on day 2.
With payment on delivery.

You're still seeking validation and some sort of emotional stimulation from her dude.
Just like 99% of everyone who posts here, you ignore our advice and letting your emotions lead you.

There's nothing we can do for you.

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Where the hell are you guys meeting these chick's?!

You aren't allowed to feel sorry for yourself. Doing so excuses you from taking responsibility. Time to get off your ass and make some positive meaningful change for yourself and nobody else.

Don't insult me dear R.C. Thanks to you guys right now I'm in far better mood and psychical condition than like 2 days ago. I can't blame my emotions for being curious about her behaviour thou. I started talking to girls again like a cool, chilled guy, I've been flirting with some must be the music finalist today. I came back to my sport, stopped crying and being a puss about that situation. In fact, emotions are what they are, but after everything I've heard I no longer think she is kind of a girl I'd like to be with. Despite all changes and emotional attachments, I was still K.O'd today by her mentality, which now I believe, may not be completly healthy. Girl saying that she has a new BF, when you tell her to get her stuff she says no because I'm going for a concert with my BF, and when you slightly suggest that you may have sex with other woman she explodes like a bomb, screaming, kicking and describing you as the worst human being ever. That was kinda funny for me. Actually you guys've opened my eyes, so don't say I don't care what you say or reccomend.

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Chances are the more you work on yourself and evolve as a human being, the less likely u'll want to be with your ex.

Who we attract in our lives is directly correlated to where we're at. If you're in a sh*tty place, that's what u'll attract and believe you're worth.

I didn't. I just pisses me off when guys half ass it.

You say we've opened your eyes, but they would've been twice as widely open if you'd taken our advice to the letter.

Could be worse don't get me wrong, but could be better too.

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A lot of problem-laden guys and a girl or two come for advice in the Relationship Section and yet ignore good, high quality advices that are based on real-life experiences.

Then after several months or years, they come back again for the same advice which they again ignore. I think it is more of a need to be heard and emphatized or sympathized with rather than fixing the problem or working on the best solution to live a happier and healthier life.

Realize this: Masculine men with healthy levels of testosterone fix things or solve problems. They take action. That's what the testosterone is for-- taking action. On the other hand, women and feminine men with low testosterone and high estrogen levels just want to be heard on their whining and complaining; they don't want to fix things or solve problems.

If I may add to the good, high quality, based on real-life, solid advices on here, I would say: OP you need to work out and have a healthier diet to de-stress and boost up your testosterone to a healthy level so you can steer clear of your need to whine and complain; and instead, live a happier life by fixing the things that make you sad.

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