I go to a gym with some ok looking girls and the occasional 8 but yesterday a bona fide 10 came in with her apparent co worker. Everybody noticed her the last two days with her coworker. I watched one guy crash and burn with his attempt yesterday. Today her and her friend were being trained by a trainer, afterwards the trainer and me who are cool are chatting with another guy and the trainer mentioned how tight she was, we , agree and he talks about ways to get her, it involves playing it cool, asking about a fun activity ( six flags, etc) to do and then wait for her to come to him. He mentioned they would be coming back all week for training, all the fellas know she is fair game to everybody, how would you stand out from the pack and land the girl?

Someone like you posted this same question awhile back and someone gave this link as an answer. I apologize to the guy who found this article and not giving him the credit, but this is truly your best route:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/player/36_love_games.html

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Really my man, approaching women at the gym is kind of different from approaching
women at a bar, because it's a place where people come to work out, not necessarily
to meet someone...

BUT, It's not THAT different.

The main difference is that in the gym, you don't have to do your "do or die" move
when you approach her, meaning "I either get her number today or I will never see
her again! Spartaaaa!! "

When approaching at a gym, follow these guidelines:

1. Remove the pressure

First, don't pressure yourself that your approach HAS to work. Remove all
pressure from yourself and the conversation. If the girl is hot, that's awesome.

Your pressure isn't going to help you get her.

Chill out, take it as it comes. If the approach works, that's great, if not - fuck it.

2. Say something CASUAL

Instead of the usual "Hey I saw you from over there and thought you look really cute"
say something more casual, like, "Had a good workout today?"

or even, "Leg day?"

Right?

Something casual, something by-the-way, something as-a-matter-of-fact

And then

3. Make the conversation

When she responds, just slowly continue the conversation. You can change the topic
with "So what else do you do besides working out? Do you work or go to school?"

And keep it going...

> Don't think about asking her out.
> Don't put pressure on yourself to get her number.
> Get out of your head and quit objectifying her, and see her as a real person.

Be more like a casual acquaintance, or a gym buddy.

Later you can ask her out, or for coffee. Don't go for the kill immediately.

Hope it helps,

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Don't let the fact she's a 10 in looks gloss over the fact that there are likely holes elsewhere in her armor. Don't get me wrong, still go for the hot chick, but don't be surprised when you don't think you're with a 10 anymore.