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Yes, they often are more career oriented. They are ALSO being told they should focus on having kids, especially by many of their elders. Mixed messages, you see.
Just like men get messages that we need to be bold and go after women, but ALSO get told by extreme feminists that approaching a woman is tantamount to rape.
Basically the entire world is fucked, and everyone is arguing with each other because the most vocal retards have gotten a voice through the internet.
There does seem to be a variety of inconsistencies in societal narratives. I think people need to bang the gunz. Follow their own journey in life assuming it is not hurting anybody else in the process.
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Honestly, right now everything is a mess for everyone. We all get mixed messages and I don't think anyone really knows how to act.
Its chaos. Like I said before, I thought I would be married with children by now if you had asked me a decade ago. As more time passes, I question it but, I feel like something will resonate at some point. Women are taught they do not need men. When they want children in their mid to late 20s, suddenly they need a man. My fear is being conned into a situation. My approach is to value women beyond attraction. What qualities, talents, character does she have and provide? What resources does she have? Is her shit handled? Does she have a great career? How is her financial health? Despite being attractive, does she workout? does she eat well or treat her body like a dump truck?
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But you probably only learned to "go for what you want" through PUA, right? Because through most of your childhood you saw messages telling you to just wait and hope your woman came to you, right?
A combo of a variety of things from Tai Lopez, Schwarzenegger's autobiography, PU, David Deida, Anthony Robbins, and a number of resources. You are correct that, it was something I had to learn rather than an innate routine. Likely, for us all, it is a innate routine however, we shut this part off in us. We lacked taking action. Lets put it this way, does cat call videos inspire men to take action? Does feminism? Does "you can't say or do that" inspire man to take action? There is so much psychological warfare going on. Its embedded in everything. Its a form of population control. Keep society orderly. As I got older, I realize how things are set so that people do need succeed. Tyler made a video on poison drops. It accurate describes what is being done to the male and female dynamic.
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I don't even know what you're talking about at this point... what does that have to do with everyone fucking everyone or Versalis' natural eugenics argument?
Nullified by the "equality" rant we have in society. It would suggest that everyone is of the same value, quality, talent, and that opportunity is readily available to everyone. This is not the case. Sexodus is a example of men that are so far gone from the equation, they have upped and left. Women they would normally be able to acquire are dating up. Women above and below average are using the passive dating role but, technology has provided a means of access to a audience they never would have had before. This also plays into that old argument that 10% of men are banging 90% of women (or something similar).
Versalis has a point. There is something to sexodous. Taking your ball as a man and going home is fucking stupid. These men typically hate women for years of rejection and social and physical intimate isolation.
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On the contrary I constantly see advice about screening women and being selective, getting them to qualify to you and such. Many men probably ignore that advice to an extent because they'd rather get laid, but it's still being advised.
This is the issue with man and the lack of evolution. PU could be viewed as a form of men evolving but, very few are good at it in the first place. Men are trading resources to acquire women. Men are handicapped having been taught to buy women with money, pay for dinners, buy her diamonds, get her free drinks, wait for sex. Again, with more of the inconsistencies.
Quite frankly, I would essentially like to see harmony amongst the sexes, and a solution to repolarize the sexes.
MGTOW and Feminism nor sexodous offers a solution. They point the finger at problems. I want solutions. I am working on a solution of my own. I am not there yet. The negativity really sucks guys. It is not what I wanted.
I thought by now I would have settled down. If I had, I likely would be divorced or in ruins. Its not that time yet. Maybe one day. I am still working away on my journey. I wish you guys all luck on yours.