Hey guys,

Earlier tonight as I was waiting for the bus back to my dorm, I started talking to this cute Asian. We just made some regular small talk, I was making her a laugh a little bit and got her smiling a lot. As we continued talking, a friend of hers came along, and we all got onto the bus together.

They started talking about some event called Asian Night. I asked what was it was exactly. Then she asked if I was going, with a smile on her face. (Since she had already asked where I was from, what year I was in, and what I was studying, I took this as another IOI. ) I said I was thinking about it, and she said I could get cheaper tickets in advance.

Soon, we got off the bus together. Before we were about to say goodnight and go our separate ways, I asked her if she wanted to exchange numbers and get lunch sometime. Up until this point she was smiling at me a lot, but at this question her demeanor changed greatly. She stopped smiling, said her phone dead, and that I could add her on Facebook instead. So, she gave me her full name and I put it into my phone. Then, we said goodnight.

I'm not sure where I stand here. My guess is not so good because she just could have given me her number, so I don't have high hopes when I message her on Facebook for much of anything to happen.

My question is: where do I stand? What did I do right, what did I do wrong, and what could I have done differently to improve the situation?

Also, in general, is it always a bad thing if a girl gives you her Facebook instead of her number?

Thanks.

Always say "I don't have Facebook". Girls usually do this because they want to check your Facebook to see how high value you are, check how many friends you have, maybe even to check your occupation (=$$$).

If you refuse facebook, she will be forced into giving you the number. If she won't give you her number, good. It means she was only gonna waste your time anyway.

Phone # or nothing. "I'll give you my FB." "I don't do FB whats your #." Also your calm non-pushy persistence is a male trait. Use it and watch the results.

It's usually not the best sign when a woman wants to give you her facebook instead of her phone number.

But definitely still hit her up on facebook and see if you can setup a date or get the phone number on there.

I've had much crazier situations than that turn out good that I thought were going nowhere initially.

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phone number is more personal - you can still get her number off of facebook if you set up a date - try that then ask for the number

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I think you hit blank on what to do in that situation by reading your story it sounds like she was shit testing you on this one. I agree 100% with Hunter_Foxe he is spot on there. You can do this in future if you get this again.

I know a guy who added a girl to FB then he banged her. But I never do that. I always go for the # fuck the Social Media crap.

I'm not saying it's impossible. But for every fuck you get from a "Facebook Close" you will waste your time with 100 girls who are not into you. Time is money.

Tell her you're old fashioned and you're only on Bebo and myspace

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good replies so far...

generally if a girl is only willing to give her facebook to you, that means she is not comfortable giving you her phone number...

at the same time...facebook can also kill a lot of mystery about you, but...you can properly manage your facebook impression which can reverse her unwillingness to give you her phone number...

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