Alright, so i go to school and i have to say that even though i don't think i'm doing bad with talking with women and sparking attraction, i'm still not getting laid.

And i'm going to be honest, i'm not "under the radar" by any means, I don't consider myself smooth or discreet at all, and when i try to be subtle, i come across as aloof.

The truth about me is that I'm loud most of the time (I can be quiet too but only when i'm observant or another reason altogether.) I'm blunt, and I am ok with being bold, approaching and going for what I want.

BUT

I'm still not getting laid, perhaps it is because deep in my gut i think it is wrong ot want to tell a girl straight up "i'd like to fuck your brains out". I know this wouldn't be appropriate to do at all but you get the idea.

So... Is it ok to be more bold about sex when talking to women, and talking about sex indirectly to a woman or women to indicate a sexual interest.

Here is an example of what i was thinking i could do. When talking to a set (mixed or just women, whatever) and when the conversation got around to sex, i could express my sexual need without being "needy".

Such as "I enjoy pleasing a woman more than myself, nothing satisfies me more than to go inside of her until she starts to sing her sweet song to me, too bad it's been a while since i could please a woman and i want the opportunity to do it again".

Yall are the expert, is this an ok idea or would y'all suggest another idea?

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PUA Maxim: Leave the woman better than you found her.

You don't get laid by talking about sex. I'm not saying that being able to inject sex into a conversation isn't helpful - it can be. But honestly, sexual attraction is about %10 conversation.

You express sexual interest primarily by eye contact and touch. Tonality is also important, more important than the words, actually.

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RSDTyler

Agreed with this guy ^

Usually girls come back to my place for 'a DVD' and then I kiss her neck. So I haven't verbally told her that I'm gonna fuck her brains out. Probably does more harm than good and adds pressure to the girl. You don't to verbalise that shit.

I Don't really talk about sex till after sex.

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I honestly believe that most women who slept with me, had zero intention of doing so earlier in the night. Girls think differently when they're horny than when they're calm and in a normal mode. It's also why moving slower than I'm really inclined to do, works well.

Much like you, I like to kiss her neck, and run my fingers down her arm at first. It's fairly harmless, yet also effective. That gets her pretty turned on, so at that point she's coming from a different state of mind than she was an hour ago. And that is what leads to total body exploration, usually fingering and then sex.

You can't logically convince a woman to sleep with you. Sex for women is somewhat different than men, but they have more in common than differences. Imagine a 250lb war pig approached you and gave a great speech about how awesome she is at sex, and that you should fuck her, because you'll love it. Would it persuade even you? And men are generally more logically driven than women are.

You can tell who you want to fuck mostly by looking at them. It's more complex than that for women, but almost none of it has to do with logic. It's nearly all emotional.

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RSDTyler

war pig lol