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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:30 am 
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When you go on a 1st date, what are all the things you want to come across?

i.e. leader of men, cocky funny, family minded, ambitious etc..

What sort of % the time do you think you should be cocky and not answer questions.
What % of the time should you be talking.

I know this sounds very contrived and specific but there has to be a good strategy to nailing it every time.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 30, 2014 10:18 am 
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For Day-2's I am usually trying to build comfort through rapport. After 20-35 mins of testing to see what I can get away with, as far as kino, I will go for the kiss.

If I can get the kiss then I will start messing around with grabbing her buttocks. I may also feel on her boobs here and there. I also like to see how comfortable she is with moving my hand around her vagina.

I will usually stroke her legs in areas around her vagina. If she allows this then I will attempt to finger her through her pants.

Once she has passed all of these tests then I will tell her I want to go somewhere else. Once we are in the cab I will say the cross streets around my place and go there. Usually, from my experience, she will be alright with going to my place; as long as I was able to get to the point of fingering her through her pants.

I have never had a date that was not willing to go to my place; however, she may not have full out sex 100% of the time once inside your room. If she is willing to at least let you finger her and feel on her chest; then she will most likely put out the next time that you choose to go out.

For me, I will only see them again if I am able to get a hand job. I don't waste anymore time on them unless they choose to text me on there own. If they text me then I will propose seeing a movie at my place; this way I can continue where I left off sexually.

Day-2's are one of my strong points and this advice is all from my personal success and experience.

Anyway, good luck and I hope it works out.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 5:01 pm 
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Sorry for the late reply on this.. what about day 1's?

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 29, 2014 9:33 am 
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Sorry for the late reply on this.. what about day 1's?
Day-2 is the first date.

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PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2014 7:16 pm 
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Here is what you should demonstrate on the first date: Not a damn thing!!! All you are supposed to do is to offer value, give the girl a good time, have fun. It is so simple and so easy its almost embarrassing.


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PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2014 9:11 pm 
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For Day-2's I am usually trying to build comfort through rapport. After 20-35 mins of testing to see what I can get away with, as far as kino, I will go for the kiss.

If I can get the kiss then I will start messing around with grabbing her buttocks. I may also feel on her boobs here and there. I also like to see how comfortable she is with moving my hand around her vagina.

I will usually stroke her legs in areas around her vagina. If she allows this then I will attempt to finger her through her pants.

Once she has passed all of these tests then I will tell her I want to go somewhere else. Once we are in the cab I will say the cross streets around my place and go there. Usually, from my experience, she will be alright with going to my place; as long as I was able to get to the point of fingering her through her pants.

I have never had a date that was not willing to go to my place; however, she may not have full out sex 100% of the time once inside your room. If she is willing to at least let you finger her and feel on her chest; then she will most likely put out the next time that you choose to go out.

For me, I will only see them again if I am able to get a hand job. I don't waste anymore time on them unless they choose to text me on there own. If they text me then I will propose seeing a movie at my place; this way I can continue where I left off sexually.

Day-2's are one of my strong points and this advice is all from my personal success and experience.

Anyway, good luck and I hope it works out.
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2014 11:53 pm 
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During the first date, the girl is likely wonder when you are going to make a move. I beat them at their own game by going for it when they least expect it. I usually go for a kiss early on. (Sometime between start of the date and first 30min). The faster you go for the kiss and escalation will result in the following 3 things:

-Faster you go for the kiss/escalation, the more alpha you look
-Faster you go for kiss/escalation, shows a less calculation, which means that you are so overcome
by your attraction to the girl. (Girls like this, it makes them feel incredibly desired and feminine)
-Lastly, makes the interaction more natural, and prevents the awkward moment at the end of the date where you attempt to go for a kiss.

If she turns you down at the beginning, attempt kiss at the end.

-Do not invite her out again if you get denied twice, it is not going to happen, use your time better

-If you got turned down at the beginning but succeeded at the end, then you can invite her out again, though accept that you while have to put at least another date, two, or three of work in before things get hot.

-If you allows you to kiss her early on and goes along with your escalation, chances are good that you can sex that night or some good foreplay


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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2014 12:52 am 
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You guys really need step-by-step instructions for a date? That's weird.


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