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For Day-2's I am usually trying to build comfort through rapport. After 20-35 mins of testing to see what I can get away with, as far as kino, I will go for the kiss.
If I can get the kiss then I will start messing around with grabbing her buttocks. I may also feel on her boobs here and there. I also like to see how comfortable she is with moving my hand around her vagina.
I will usually stroke her legs in areas around her vagina. If she allows this then I will attempt to finger her through her pants.
Once she has passed all of these tests then I will tell her I want to go somewhere else. Once we are in the cab I will say the cross streets around my place and go there. Usually, from my experience, she will be alright with going to my place; as long as I was able to get to the point of fingering her through her pants.
I have never had a date that was not willing to go to my place; however, she may not have full out sex 100% of the time once inside your room. If she is willing to at least let you finger her and feel on her chest; then she will most likely put out the next time that you choose to go out.
For me, I will only see them again if I am able to get a hand job. I don't waste anymore time on them unless they choose to text me on there own. If they text me then I will propose seeing a movie at my place; this way I can continue where I left off sexually.
Day-2's are one of my strong points and this advice is all from my personal success and experience.
Anyway, good luck and I hope it works out.
Go with what he says.
Wallie