Dear Tripp,

1) Why is it Pickup sites contain more nuts than a can of salted Planters?

2) If you could be any nut in the can, what type and kind would it be? Personally, I think I'd be an almond...smooth, delicious, cyanogenic.

3) Attraction is not a choice. But I think I've learned how to control my attraction to beautiful women. Now, if I could master how to control their attraction to me...

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1. LOL, I wish I had that answer.
2. Haha. That's funny. I've always loved almonds myself.
3. Well, you CAN control their attraction to you . . . it's all in the switches

Quick question. Should i pay for a girl that im taking with me to go see a play. I plan on getting dinner afterwards but im not sure whether I should pay or not. If i dont buy the ticket and dont buy her food i think i might come off a little cheap. See last week she flaked on me, saying she was sick (Lie), and now she keeps saying sorry for it everyday. But since she is the one who keeps calling me and saying sorry I feel like its ok to give her another chance because im not making the effort.(yes i let her know that flaking on me is not cool). Ive known her for about 4 months, but stop talking to her for awhile. So an opinion would be nice.

Considering she's flaked on you before, with a lie covering it, no, she can pay. Unless you've already told her that you are paying, in which case you keep your word. She keeps apologizing, so just tell her this is how she can start making it up to you. Then, she can finish making it up to you by capping the night off.

alright so i'm on myspace nd this girl sends me a message askin if i kno her what would be the best response 2 that

Welcome to the forum.

The question is, DO you actually know her?

If you do know her, you could go with something like . . . "I'm not some help desk floating around my space . . . so anyway what do you need?" Said playfully of course.

If you don't know her . . . "haven't a clue. Am I supposed to know you? Wnat to refresh my memory of who you are? And please don't tell me we spent the weekend last summer out in Aruba, alone, in a hut. I"ll just think you're a crazy person then. And I won't be able to talk to you."

So what I’ve learned from gaming girls is that one of the worst things is to act needy or desperate (because I’ve done it too many times in the past!). Usually if a girl is into me I just hook up with her, but I like this particular girl more than a random person. From my experiences, I finally learned that I should learn back and act cool when a girl’s into me

Well, this situation happened to me last night. There was a special black tie event at a club. I knew this HB8 from before, but I saw her last night and she wanted to go to the club together. So we were alone going there, but after we got there she disappeared. I eventually saw her later and she was definitely into me.

*this is my main problem*
After I saw that she was interested I didn’t know what to do. I tried to play it cool and act disinterested, but may have done too much by talking to another girl at the bar when I was with the HB. Afterwards I think she wanted to make me jealous because I saw her hooking up with another guy. She may just be kind of slutty, but I’m not entirely sure. I know she is single though. Eventually I just acted too disinterested that she left with another guy that she knew!

So my questions are: 1) What should I have done when I saw that she was attracted to me. 2) Is there anything else that I can do to help my position now? I’ve done a good job working her until last night.

When a girl is into you/giving you IOI's, it's ok, and even good, to give them back to her equally. Just don't give her more than what she's earned. In other words, one for one, equally.

Now, you need to show her one or two IOI's. Obvious ones. Then, calibrate from there. Don't give her more after that w/o her giving to you, but that should let her know you're still interested. Then, go from there.

Hey Tripp, been reading your excellent advice to others on this thread.. I don't know if this kinda thing is "allowed" but could you please take a look here and advise me?

pick-up-artist-forum / here-vp85442

(they won't let me paste a link)

Thanks a lot,
Attraxion.

Welcome to the forum. And, yes, you can past a link to this thread. I tried what you have above and it didn't go anywhere.

Thanks for the welcome.. it's actually this.. the thread called "she seems flakey, how to respond best"..

she-seems-flakey-how-to-respond-best-vt16385.html

Done.

quick question. do you ever go sarging alone. If you do, do you ever find it difficult.

Yes I do. In fact, I've sarged alone 95% of the time I've sarged. Yes, it can be difficult at times, but there are advantages to it as well. For instance, no one to use as a crutch. Also, your learning curve, upon INTROSPECTION, can dramatically shoot up as well. If you're honest with yourself, which is the key.

The hardest part for me has just been the motivation some nights to get out there. But, upon getting out there, those nights turned out to be the best nights to go out.

Ok one more. If you go out sarging alone do you follow a certain routine or procedure. For example, walk in the venue, open up first set you see, then pawn that set off to another set and so on.