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 Post subject: Being Mysterious
PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2014 3:00 pm 
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I've heard that the less people know about you, the more they will want to find out. I've always been a pretty honest person, and proud of myself/achievements, so I normally wouldn't hesitate to answer any questions; but knowing this, I tend to wonder if I'm selling myself short by revealing all there is to know about me.

I have tested myself before, and failed miserably. Of course, I'll try again, but I'd like to know if any of you guys work a mysterious angle, and if so, how do you handle questions from women? Are there certain things you do answer vs things you don't?

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 Post subject: Re: Being Mysterious
PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 2:05 am 
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Try to trickle information slowly. If she asks you a question, don't give her some massive life story, but answer the question vaguely in a way that makes you look good. Regardless, don't over-analyze this too much because it's not that big of a deal in the long run.


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 Post subject: Re: Being Mysterious
PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 2:08 am 
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in addition to the above, dont be afraid of giving a ridiculous answer, the more ridiculous, the better.

what do you do? "I am a gay porn star"
where are you from? "I am from Uranus"

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 Post subject: Re: Being Mysterious
PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 5:04 am 
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Only reveal little about yourself. I've failed when telling too much about myself

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 Post subject: Re: Being Mysterious
PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 6:43 am 
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Just don't let "mysterious" become "quiet and unsociable", but you probably already know that. During a conversation, either talk about her or something not quite related to you as a person. Movies, music, travelling, food etc. When she asks a question about you, you just give a very short answer and change the subject.

There is a downside to this. The less you tell her about yourself, the less she will trust you. You have to make a good balance, as ususal.


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 Post subject: Re: Being Mysterious
PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2014 3:08 pm 
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Look up what it means to be "vague"


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