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| Mr_International | PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2014 3:00 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Mon Feb 17, 2014 9:29 pm Posts: 282 | | I've heard that the less people know about you, the more they will want to find out. I've always been a pretty honest person, and proud of myself/achievements, so I normally wouldn't hesitate to answer any questions; but knowing this, I tend to wonder if I'm selling myself short by revealing all there is to know about me.
I have tested myself before, and failed miserably. Of course, I'll try again, but I'd like to know if any of you guys work a mysterious angle, and if so, how do you handle questions from women? Are there certain things you do answer vs things you don't? _________________ "You ain't accustomed of going through customs. You ain't been nowhere, huh?"
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| Snarg | PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 2:05 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 08, 2011 11:55 pm Posts: 1273 | | Try to trickle information slowly. If she asks you a question, don't give her some massive life story, but answer the question vaguely in a way that makes you look good. Regardless, don't over-analyze this too much because it's not that big of a deal in the long run.
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| bartm | PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 2:08 am | |
Joined: Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:51 am Posts: 994 | | in addition to the above, dont be afraid of giving a ridiculous answer, the more ridiculous, the better.
what do you do? "I am a gay porn star"
where are you from? "I am from Uranus" _________________ I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison
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| alxbkr | PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 5:04 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Mar 08, 2014 8:00 am Posts: 172 | | Only reveal little about yourself. I've failed when telling too much about myself
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| hugge | PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2014 6:43 am | |
Joined: Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:06 am Posts: 596 Location: Gothenburg, Sweden | | Just don't let "mysterious" become "quiet and unsociable", but you probably already know that. During a conversation, either talk about her or something not quite related to you as a person. Movies, music, travelling, food etc. When she asks a question about you, you just give a very short answer and change the subject.
There is a downside to this. The less you tell her about yourself, the less she will trust you. You have to make a good balance, as ususal.
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| Jay (Majik) | PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2014 3:08 pm | |
| Offline | | The Coach |  | Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:44 am Posts: 4170 Location: Chicago, IL | | Look up what it means to be "vague"
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