Your emotions are what make you into a man. Being a man means you feel confident in every situation whichever means you feel positive emotions in every situation. Your girl friend breaks up with you you're okay because you feel confident, you lose your job you're okay because you feel confident, a guy challenges you to a fight you're okay because you feel confident, you getting criticiZed you're okay because you feel confident. It's confidence that makes you into a man

Being a man also means you have self-discipline. That means you can deal with discomfort. You see your crush flirting with another guy it hurts but you take it. You just wrecked your new car it hurts but you take it. Your dad is an asshole but you take it. Being a man is also about taking the pain.

Also, being a man is about having a firm identity. Your identity is how you react to discomfort. A girl rudely rejects you instead of cursing her out you you say "I really think you're missing out but have a nice day." you're late for work instead of walking around with your head down you come in with an upbeat pace. You just lost a pick up game and you feel embarasses but instead of complaining and making excuses you congratulate your opponent and move on.

Most of the problems guys have with their game is not having confidence enough to over come fears, not having self-discipline enough to deal with feeling insecure but drill react appropriately. The game is all mental. There's no such thing as mental masturbation in my mind. That's why drill and drill and drill on emotions. Strategy means nothing without the character to execute it.

The problem with guys is they ignore emotions and think you're inferior for having them. The thing is this every one has fears and insecurities and feel needy buy everyone can't deal with them. Guys have these unrealistic ideas on what it means to be a man. They want to be this ideal of what it means to be alpha, when in reality you should just be yourself. Be all you can be give your experience. Your habits, expectations and feelings don't change overnight that takes time. If you are needy, insecure, and submissiveness you will have to work on that. But even if you are that way why does that mean something has to be wrong with you? Why can't a woman want a man that appeases her and compromises for her. Love yourself guys. Love yourself. You don't have to be alpha you just have to find a strategy that works for you.

They say they might ban me. I began gaming almost 10 years ago. I've approached thousand women maybe in different states and countries. I have so much experience and I have learned through trial and error. I am a Mack.

I can sum up your entire post by saying men are confident and have the ability to take bad things in stride and to overcome them. Pretty common sense stuff really.

What if, however, instead of stating the obvious you instead explain how to develop that deep confidence and ability to overcome.

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THERE IS NO WAY YOU ARE CONVINCING US THAT YOU ARE A MAN.

Confidence...blah blah blah. If you have a vagina you are a woman. If you have a dick you are a man.

You can have all.the confidence you want but you will always have a vagina.

It's no shock that you would deny such a concept

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It's simple, but it's not obvious. It's not obvious because most men ignore their feelings or think they don't matter. It's profound yet simplistic.

Confidence is a positive feeling. You build that feeling with a positive mindset, positive affirmations, mood raising activities, surrounding yourself with people that respect you and with positive experience. Experience being the most important because it has the stronger affect on you emotionally.

You build discipline by become familiar with more and more discomfort until you can accept it. You build your confidence to allow to deal with discomfort. This could be something simply as dieting. Most guys supplicate to women because they have no discipline.

Identity this comes from doing things habitually and from doing things habitually under pressure. It's like table manners. Everyone feels Hungry, but every cant eat like a gentleman.

The thing about you guys that ignore your feelings because you complain about mental masturbation... You are at risk for self-sabotage. You rationalize your emotions. So you make excuses for doing things you don't feel like doing and you make justifications for doing things you like. You can deceive yourself. A lot guys got endless excuses not to talk to hot girls and a million justification to talk to their oneitis. You can literally convince yourself.

I'm more of a Freudian. Most guys would tell you just do it. I would say you have to the drive to do it.

I am sure a woman in the military is more man than you. It's your attitude that makes you tough or weak.

This reads like a woman wrote this post. Well, the Relationships section troll DigitalSpy posts read like a dyke, but this one here, this one is written by a woman.

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Because women are emotional and men are emotionless? No everyone is the same. You are what you feel.

I'm sorry ma'am, I had no idea. Thank you so much for your service.


PS: You're right, I know some military gals that have killed men, can fly a c130, and dip Copenhagen original. Pretty manly. But you girls all still have a vagina and will never be a man.

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A woman can't ever reach the qualitys of a men in MOST aspects in life.
Men are just MUCH better in a lot of things.
Intellegence, Athletics, men can make decisions way better than woman, all of the great scientist are men, all of the world GREAT leaders we're and still are MEN.
Seriously i've never lost a discussion with a woman even if it was about I don't know, woman things I always know how to convince them that i'm right and their not. THAT'S how you get a pussy wet.

I'm guessing that English must not be your first language.

People feel confident about different things in all different areas and that confidence comes through experience. I feel 100% confident with women because I've done it so many times where as I'm not confident jumping out of a moving vehicle because I've never done that. Confidence doesn't mean shit. You can make yourself "feel" confident any time you want if you know what that feeling is. The only way to develop confidence is by gaining COMPETENCE which comes through EXPERIENCE.
It's not about how you just take the pain. Life is always going to hit you hard... It's about being able to stand back up and hit that mother fucker right back. Women can deal with discomfort too. Just because you deal with discomfort, doesn't make you a "man."

[quote}Also, being a man is about having a firm identity. Your identity is how you react to discomfort. A girl rudely rejects you instead of cursing her out you you say "I really think you're missing out but have a nice day." you're late for work instead of walking around with your head down you come in with an upbeat pace. You just lost a pick up game and you feel embarasses but instead of complaining and making excuses you congratulate your opponent and move on.[/quote]

Like all of your other posts... About 2 or 3 paragraphs in is when you start rambling about EVEN MORE retarded bullshit. So it begins... Wtf is this even about? Frame Control? Congrats dude... You're posting more rehashed garbage that is ALL OVER this forum already. Instead of just writing short novels about shit, why don't you teach the other thousands of posters how to implement this in your own way instead of talking about street basketball games.
Actually, the problem most guys have with their "game" is limiting beliefs or success barriers. There is such thing as mental masturbation... Read, for example... Your own posts. Actually, I wouldn't even classify those as mental masturbation. You just use the word confidence over and over again. I consider myself to be a pretty open minded person and I can't even read through the whole thing because it all seems so retarded.
Cut some of the garbage out of this paragraph because I was so tired of reading it...

Yes. You should just "be yourself." But if "being yourself" doesn't work time and time again, there comes a time when you realize that you suck, what you are doing is wrong, and you should change. You admit that "YES, THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME! I WANT TO CHANGE!!" and you fucking do it. You don't sit around and look for the "perfect strategy" you pick a way and go. You figure it out along the way. Some women do want a man that appeases her and compromises for her... I call those guys DOOR MATS.


I could honestly give a shit if they ban you. Would I prefer it? Sure. Cause that way I won't sit here debunking all the bullshit you post misleading people who don't know the difference between garbage that sounds like you're high on opium vs useful information.

And bro... You aren't a "mack."

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1.) Confidence doesn't mean shit? That is a ridiculous statement.
2.) You are not confident jumping out of a moving vehicle because you are afraid to. You are afraid to because you would expect to get hurt.
3.) Confidence comes from expecting something good to occur. Fear occurs from expecting something negative to occur or (for anxiety) being unsure what will occur. Confidence is all about mindset. You can build confidence with a positive mindset and with words of encouragement. However, experience has a stronger affect on your mindset than mindset and words of encouragement.
Did you get this from Rocky Balboa?

"It's at the borders of pain and suffering that the men are separated from the boys" Emil Zatopek. This is almost self-explanatory to me. Yes women can deal with just as much pain as a man, but traditionally a quality that defines a man is his ability to deal with discomfort and keep going. The ability to deal with discomfort is discipline.
-Everyone has feelings, but character is how you react to them. Your Identity is your character under pressure. Your identity is the specific way you react to pressure. This means when something hurtful happens to you like you loss your job, your gf of 3 years cheats on you, or anything emotionally overwhelming happens to you instead of doing something incredibly ridiculous you behave rationally.

Never cry. Never complain. Just work.

1. The number one problem guys have with the game is the inability to deal with their emotions effectively. More specifically, fear. They either don't have the confidence to remove their fears or the discipline to accept fear.

2. Guys don't talk to girls because they are afraid. When guys do bring themselves to talk to girls they do it in a nervous and shaky way because they are afraid. Guys take disrespect from girls because they are afraid to stand up to her. Guys get Amog'd because they are afraid of confrontation. Guys get clingy because they are afraid the girl won't like them. Guys try too hard because they are afraid. Guys can't deal with rejection because they can't deal with shame.

3. The game is 70% emotional. If you can get past your emotions or deal with your emotions all this shit is easy.

4. chaning your emotions is all mental. That's why I don't believe in mental masturbation. However, I do believe in wasting time....
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1. At the end of the day everyone has values and values are relative. What you like ain't what I like. There is no good or bad way to be. Just be what makes you happy.

2. This way of thinking is a recipe for insecurity. You don't start thinking something is wrong with you just because someone doesn't like you. Some girls like BMWs, some girls like hummers, and some girls like a prius understand that.

3. Compromise is the only way to get women sometimes. If you push to hard you will lose her altogether. You push the line as far as you can and then when she likes you more then you push further.

Being sensitive and being a tough guy are not contradictory. Its not how you feel that makes you tough its what you do, its how you respond to it.



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