| Ill try and give you a rundown of my relationship with this girl:
Day 1: She comes to hang out with common friends at a bar and I was extremely fun talking to her occasionally with some small kino moves
Next day: She comes to hang out again with common friends, small kino, bought her a drink, walked her to her car
3 days later: See each other at work, she starts approaching me saying we had fun together the nights we hung out, I get her number and tell her we'll hang again
2 days later: Met her out at a bar when she was with her friend and her friends bf, not much kino, a little bit of a boring night but ended the night with a quick kiss. Then she texts me when she gets home saying she wants more kisses. I told her me too and we should do something fun tomorrow
Next day: I met her and her friends out at a bar and had my hands all over her, back rubs, waist grabbing, arms around each other, ended the night with an awesome make out session, afterwards she tells me I'm a real good kisser.
3 days later: I tell her we need to hang out again and mentioned hanging out tonight, she was very responsive but said she was watching a movie and she would text me later but never did.
2 days later: I tried making plans again but she was busy and mentioned going out just the two of us 5 days later
5 days later: Take her out to mini golf, ice cream, and the bar. Some kino but nothing serious, by the end of the date she was yawning and texting a lot. When I drop her off she was quick to leave the car so I said "wait, can't I kiss you goodnight?" She stares at me briefly then quickly gave me a peck on the lips and left. (I already know about all my mistakes on that date)
During the next month and a half I occasionally tried telling her we should hang but we never did, partially due to each of us taking vacations and having different work hours. Our flirting at work starts decreasing.
Then one day I approach her at work saying we should hang out again. She says, "yea we should! where have you been?" I told her I was out of town for a while and have been working long hours. I tried making plans for the weekend but she was going to an out of town concert and wasn't free.
10 days later: At work I see her and say "When are we gonna hang out?" She replies with, "Whenever you want man" So I said, whenever I want? I say tomorrow" She says she has to work but afterwards we can go for pizza.
Next day: We both end up working very late so at work I said, "We should just hang out another day" She seemed slightly disappointed so I said, "well I dunno I'll leave the ball in your court" She says, "no you tell me"
So I told her to just call me after work, she never did.
2 days later: I call her randomly, she doesn't answer but texts me 10 minutes later. I tell her to come meet me out but get no response after that.
2 days later: I text her to meet me out but she was at work and by the time she got out she texted me asking if I was still out but I was in bed and didn't respond.
3 days later: I speak with her at work and find out we both will be going out that night for my housemates birthday. She even tells me she'll call me after work, she ends up texting instead. At the bar we were with a big group of people and I only talked to her a few times during the night. This was partially because her and her ex were hanging together a lot and I was really wasted having fun with the guys. I end up going home and passing out, turns out everyone came over to my place and kept partying all night. I find out the next day that she was hanging around her ex and got a ride home from a different guy who someone told me she's interested in. I looked like a pussy for passing out early
7 days later brings us to today. We've only had small encounters with each other at work and I stopped flirting.
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