You seriously don't get it, do you? It's like talking to a tree, EVERY SINGLE TIME you FAIL to LISTEN to people's advice.

Sorry man you need to make your own mistakes now, guys like you never get it until they learn the hard way...
I also think you are very selfish. Crying about your ex how she's such a cheater and horrible person, then helping your new chick to constantly cheat on her boyfriend. Why do you have to be such a tool?
She tells you everything you want to hear while f5cking you both, yet you seriously believe everything is "mutual"??

For your own sake, I hope that NO ONE will reply to your questions anymore.

Shut up, I am selfish? Is this a joke? I am doing what any guy has done and continues to do. It happened to me, and now I am on the other end. I am really discovering what girls are about and as I joined the PUA to game all types of girl, I am doing what the FORUM is teaching me to do.

I am learning and updating people about my progress, if you dont want to comment on my shit then get out of here but I dont need you telling me stupid bullshit and trying to get other people to stop giving me advice.

When I go on the relationship thread I literally see 5 other posts about guys getting oneitis over a girl with a boyfriend, are they selfish too? Back off bud.

That's exactly what I'm talking about... you are very selfish. It's ok you'll get there 1 day. Instead of NOT following any advice, maybe it's best to make your own experiences.

While I really do wish that no one gives you advice anymore, you don't need to cry about it because there will always be a good soul to try to help you out UNFORTUNATELY.

You don't do what the people tell you, that's what makes you different from the majority.

Selfish was related to you not wanting to share your slut with anyone else and get her to "constantly" be on your dick...

Everything you have said so far I am laughing at. Not sharing my "slut" with anyone else is ridiculous bexause I'm sharing her with her boyfriend.

And look at my last threads, and see how far I have come, from doing what a lot of people have told me. Don't mistake my plenty of questions as me not doing what people say, I'm discovering what people say and asking as much as I can

Keep on laughing, I've got some more jokes:
Ok, I actually did that. Posted by you in Feb: Your most recent cry for advice from 2 days ago: You have learned nothing. You have made no progress whatsoever. You are still needy as fuck, you are selfish and immature.
Since you have been through the pain of being cheated on, you know exactly how it feels and you have been "as low as it gets, no joke, counselling and everything", to quote your own words...
Despite all this, you are showing no consideration whatsoever for her current boyfriend, all you think about is how to steal her off him. How selfish is that?Any more questions?

Here is some of the advice you have been given 3 months ago, it still applies today:

Broseidon55: "You come to us with a needy question -- "How do i get her back to how it was"
We tell you you are needy and to stop being needy. You recognize you are needy and act "non-needy" towards her for an interaction or two. But then you go right back to acting needy. Why? Because you are needy. So the crux of the issue is that you ARE needy. Not that you are ACTING needy...Why do guys start acting needy around their girlfriends or seeking validation from anyone? Because their self-worth doesnt come from inside, it comes from others. You are "needy" because you need that validation from others"

Rough Operator: "You're overthinking everything, over-analysing everything and living inside your head. You need to let go and stop obsessing over this girl! Follow the advice properly, not just for a few days and then go back to being her bitch."



Still laughing?

Laughing very much fag, I can think of better things to do on a Friday night then go over my old posts haha. Enjoy brotha

You're welcome, I knew u'd appreciate the help.. At least you can laugh about yourself

Thanks bud, let me reply after I fuck this hb9 bro

What the actual fuck is going on here? cmd is trying to help you, why are you flaming him? And he still insists. Not everyone here is such a good guy, so I suggest you be more respectful if you want any further help...
^This method is bad... Let me demonstrate.

Do NOT think of a pink elephant!

What are you thinking about now? See your mind ignores a negative pretty easily. The correct way would be to tell yourself: "I have other options"

How are you following people's advice?
Maybe...

It has been told several times to you to game other chicks or you will fall for her. Yet all you kept updating about was how many times have you fucked her a day. People were trying to help you but you were too busy bragging about your excellent sexual performance(which is btw completely avarage... 5 times in a row is like every other guy in their 20s) and whining about how could you get this chick ride your dick constantly.

I think you hate this girl. That's the only reason I could come up with for why are you trying to make her feel miserable. She is your fuck buddy, yet you are trying to get more out of it but only from her side. You only care about her being all over you, while you're trying way too hard not to get attached. Ironically, this will result in the exact opposite...
Absolutely no comment...

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Thanks man, apologies for yesterday, I go out once every two weeks if that and I got ahead of myself. Apologies CMD. Game other girls, got it.

I just thought I would let you know Instinct, all this, a fuck buddy, trying to get approval, whatever it is, its just me trying to get over my ex, in which today I woke up missing her more and more. I dont want a fuck buddy, I dont want to gftow, I want a sweet girl that I can just be unreal towards, no games. I just want to be happy with the girl I can trust.

But everything, from my ex, to this girl Im fucking, to what ive been told, just shows I should never trust a woman.

Honestly, I dont know what to believe anymore.

I was going to write a harsh post about your replies to cmd earlier, but then I saw this, and honestly, I know your pain. Getting over an LTR is unbelievably hard... And I'm the guy that deletes a girl's phone number if she takes too long to respond to a text (even if we've hooked up already). Unfortunately sweet girls are hard to find, and are rarely what they seem. I've become pretty jaded by now. I honestly can't see myself in a serious relationship anymore. FBs are just FBs and gfs are just temporary arrangements in my mind now, since I don't trust/count on them anymore. Unfortunately I have little in the way of words of encouragement, its not a bright outlook. I hope you'll find happyness, but all I can say, is that it will almost definitely not be in this girl. She'll hurt you just as much as your ex did if you give her the chance.

This is the wrong mindset. There's no such girl. And the reason is... tadaaa... HYPERGAMY. As long as you act like a little insecure pussy you will fail in getting a girl. You want a quality girl,then you'll have to learn not to get attached.
Believe that. Women are not to be fully trusted. The only person in this world you can trust is you. This is the foundation of inner game. You're going to bury the FB thing into the ground if you don't let all your insecurities go. Force them out of your mind, that's how you do it. Not an easy task, but will help in the long run.

I too was about to write a few harsh lines about you taking a piss at Cmd. However, since the facts haven't really changed, I'll just have to ask you: why so needy, whysoskinny? Have some self respect, dude. And do respect others who are trying to help you. The way you took a piss at Cmd was an utter disgrace. You have to stop doing that.

The members here do not preach about abundance mentality because they want to create manwhores of us. It is exactly to avoid becoming too attached.

You can be attracted to a girl.

You can love a girl if you've been together for some time.

You can care about your beloved girl, and let her care about you too.

But you can not let a girl take over your entire mind. It just fucks you up, and the relationship too.

You see a lot of people here have a policy of fucking multiple women. Even if they have a girlfriend they would keep some on the side. Not because they don't love her but because they don't want to get too attached to a girl.

For me cheating is unacceptable. I'd rather take the risk. Because I think there is a deeper level than physically fucking other women. If you have a strong inner game and you don't just tell yourself, but truly believe that if this one leaves you right on spot, it takes you no more than a few hours to replace her you will never be too attached anymore, and yet you're still able to love your girl genuinely.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying a break-up doesn't hurt me, I'm just saying that I KNOW I can recover from a break-up in a month to the maximum, so I don't really fear losing my girl.

It took me a few years and girlfriends however to get to this level. You're going out once in a fortnight and that's just not going to be enough. Probably you don't have the money or the time, in which case I understand, but then try going out to cheaper places or try rescheduling your week so that you have time to go out at least once a week(the more the better)

Make friends. Start getting to know new people. Start rebuilding your life. Fill it with interesting, valueable men and women. Get a hobby. Start excercising. You will feel a lot better about yourself if you grow some muscles. See there are tons of things to do to improve your life and become more attractive. If you are more attractive, more women will be interested in you which will result in getting closer to the abundance mentallity, reducing your neediness, and increasing your chances to have a healthy relationship. Good luck, mate!

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Thank you all for the comments, CMD, sorry bruv, didn't mean to I honestly went out and tried to get as drunk as possible because I knew I wouldnt come back to a club in a while. It wasn't good and I was thinking about my ex and it says something about the night if I was on the forum...

All I am getting is, don't trust a girl too much, if any, just trust yourself and better yourself. It makes me sad. Really sad, because as you can tell, i wear my heart on my sleeve and just want to be the best I can be for her.

The girl just left with the bf, we are going to study later today, i see her for how she is now, a slut, she fucked her boyfriend yesterday and now me, it actually makes me feel a bit sick i dont want to finger her and i want to wash my dick really thorough right now.

I just found out one of my old friends committed suicide today, I got cheated on, im now fucking a girl who has a boyfriend, im skinny as fuck, can't put on muscle because 1) i have barely any money to get gym membership, buy mutant mass, protein, food, and 2) go out and sarge

I feel so down