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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:02 pm 
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Yea, I was thinking the same thing. I'm just wondering why she would bother to reply.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:09 pm 
One way to find out. Shoot her that text and see what happens.


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Dear Tripp,

1) I'm sleepy and drunk. Awesome.

2) When I drink, my eyes get a bit red. You think chicks mind? 8)

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 6:50 pm 
Just paint your nose red and tell them you're rudolph, lol.


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can you follow my link..

here-vp73112.html#73112

thanks if you did

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 4:58 pm 
Done.


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Hey L.A.

What should I've done else in those situations:

1) Location: Bus

After a minute or so I stand up and walk to the girl, just for the sake of making a first approach or opening or whatever you guys call this.

Me: "Hey, do you want to drink a beer with my mate and me?"
She: "No, sorry"
Me: "Okay"

and I hop out of the bus...

2) Location: Pause of a classical concert (usually I don't go to classical concerts), they were three girls, we were 4 men.

Me: "Hey, do you want to drink a coffee with my friends and me after the concert?"
She: "Maybe, hehe, but we're here with our parents"
Me: "Okay shouldn't be that much of an obstacle?"
She: "We'll see"

I turn around again to my friends. After the concert she just leaves.

Soo I don't know whether it's appropriate to ask this questions here, though I guess it is, since the thread's called "ask L.A. Tripp" and it's in the noob section.

Please note that english is not my first language, so the openings wouldn't have sounded so clumsy, I just tried to translate the content. :)

I thought perhaps I just should have said to them something like: "Hey, blabla serious question. blabla... Would you ever sleep with a guy who still sleeps with his teddybear... blabla..." But I don't feel comftable with this stuff yet. Should I just try one of those? I mean, it can't get worse :) My thorough is though that someone already used such an opener with that girl, and this would be quite strange if two guys just say the exact same "mysterious" thing for an opening.

Actually I've got also a few other questions but I'll save them for later ;) If my post here would be total inappropriate or so, so I don't post even more bullshit. Shows how inconfident I am of myself, doesn't it? ;-)

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 12:12 am 
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Hey L.A.

What should I've done else in those situations:

1) Location: Bus

After a minute or so I stand up and walk to the girl, just for the sake of making a first approach or opening or whatever you guys call this.

Me: "Hey, do you want to drink a beer with my mate and me?"
She: "No, sorry"
Me: "Okay"

and I hop out of the bus...

2) Location: Pause of a classical concert (usually I don't go to classical concerts), they were three girls, we were 4 men.

Me: "Hey, do you want to drink a coffee with my friends and me after the concert?"
She: "Maybe, hehe, but we're here with our parents"
Me: "Okay shouldn't be that much of an obstacle?"
She: "We'll see"

I turn around again to my friends. After the concert she just leaves.

Soo I don't know whether it's appropriate to ask this questions here, though I guess it is, since the thread's called "ask L.A. Tripp" and it's in the noob section.

Please note that english is not my first language, so the openings wouldn't have sounded so clumsy, I just tried to translate the content. :)

I thought perhaps I just should have said to them something like: "Hey, blabla serious question. blabla... Would you ever sleep with a guy who still sleeps with his teddybear... blabla..." But I don't feel comftable with this stuff yet. Should I just try one of those? I mean, it can't get worse :) My thorough is though that someone already used such an opener with that girl, and this would be quite strange if two guys just say the exact same "mysterious" thing for an opening.

Actually I've got also a few other questions but I'll save them for later ;) If my post here would be total inappropriate or so, so I don't post even more bullshit. Shows how inconfident I am of myself, doesn't it? ;-)

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Hey Level. First of all, welcome to the forum.

Second, no your qestions aren't stupid, or inappropriate, or anything like that. Good questions. Obviously from your statement about your confidence, your inner game needs work. Your confidence. That's one point we need to work on.

Now, for someone to open a girl by asking immediately if they want to grab a beer w/a guy they don't know isn't good. And it makes it worse for someone that doesn't have confidence to do that. You may get luck from time to time with that, but overall it's not gonna be effective.

For the situation with the bus, that was over before it started. Nothing to do about that one except using a different opener.

With the second situation:

"Me: "Hey, do you want to drink a coffee with my friends and me after the concert?"
She: "Maybe, hehe, but we're here with our parents"
Me: "Okay shouldn't be that much of an obstacle?"
She: "We'll see"

I turn around again to my friends. After the concert she just leaves."

The opener obviously needs to be changed, as I've already mentioned. But, you had their attention, believe it or not. The first line from her was a test, to which you gave a good answer. When she said "we'll see", instead of you turning around to her friends, you should have been confident and direct and pushed her on it. Forced her hand so to speak. If she was of legal age, and if it was still possible that she could have been with her parents, then step up and tell her to introduce you. If she introduces you, great. Make friends with the parents. They are just obstacles. If she came clean and said she wasn't with parents, she would have likely thrown another test at you, to which you would have to blow throw it too.

Just don't ever cower down or turn away when they test you like that. Blow through the tests, unless you just aren't interested in the girl.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 12:52 am 
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Thanks.

I know by now what you mean when you say "test". One of those feared shittests. I also read/heard that they are overrated. "Not everything is a shittest" (Joker said this, i don't know whether he's part of this forum-community, he puts I-TV Seduction coaching vids on youtube in german language and considers himself as the best one in Germany ;) ). It didn't seem to me like a shittest when she said "we're here with our parents". I shouldn't question your answer though, your probably right.

Edit: Yeah, she was like 20 or 21 ;)


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 2:12 am 
It's true that not everything is a shit test, but that was. Whether it was true or not, it should have still been taken as a shit test, because that IS what she was doing, testing you. And, you failed, so she moved on.


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Hey im really new to this whole pickup stuff so bare with me plz.

Ok heres my question. Im new to where i work and just recently a few of the girls have started paying attention to me. Like we have small talk and what not. My question is how do i go about making the transition from just co worker to like actually getting with them (couldnt think of another way to say it).BTW i work at a fast food restaruant.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 6:46 am 
Welcome to the forum Pool Shark.

Well, in a way, it's dangerous to game girls you work with, but at the same time, in some work places it can be done. If they are giving you IOI's, then you could game them and see where it goes. Just do it somewhat subtly. Push/pull with them and their emotions. That would be the safest tactic to take in the workplace itself to get their attention. From there, number close and take it outside the workplace. Then, build attraction with them.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 4:10 pm 
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Man the answer was so simple thanks for the advice.


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I need help becoming the class AMOG i explain it more in this thread
viewtopic.php?p=77665#77665
its alot about social proof

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 6:37 pm 
Done man. Hope it helps.


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