Been seeing her for two months, said she practically fell head-over-heels in love with me. Spent a considerable amount of time together. she admitted to never having been in a relationship lasting longer than 2 months, because she always gets dumped by whoever the guy she's seeing, all 8 of them. she told me she is still afraid I will hurt her and wanted to leave, I have no reason to do so. I gave her the ultimatum, make up your mind and let me know, otherwise syonara. Other than this there have been no real problems or arguments cropping up, great chemistry, great sex, and all around great times whenever we see each other.

Apparently this is something that cannot be fixed, reversed or rectified. and usually means someone else is in the picture. Though she still talks to me, she has seemed rather distant lately, said this weird feeling like the connection between us has been dwindling since last Tuesday, and it was on her end that it happened not mine. I'm sure I played my part in that, but oh well what the hell. she swears there's no one else, she just doesn't care for me as much as she used to. We clarified things and decided we'll take it slow from here. The last few days she's been in Orlando with friends at a theme park, so not even been home. Haven't spoken to her for a couple days, I decided to leave her alone for a while.

she told me she feels like we went way to fast, but that she has never fallen for someone so quickly before, and yes this would be the 2 month mark exactly. I don't believe I'm being needy, she normally can't go a day without speaking to me. Regardless it's true, we did rush a little. though she told me she loved me first.

There is probably nothing I can do but move on, my instincts tell me to pull the plug ASAP. Would this be the right thing to do, (for me)?

I'm considering waiting a few days, since my graduation is in a few days and she promised she'd be there, if she's not, then that's it. I know for a fact she's already requested that day off, so there's no excuses.

*Lebron James mode* What should I do?...

Thanks.

Sounds like you gave yourself the answers, and just needed to unload it.
Could be true, but it has the smell of BULLSHIT on it.
Yes it can, with the right amount of attraction. It seems as though she was smothering the budding relationship, and YOU my friend allowed it to happen.

She NEEDS to miss you in order to reignite the passion.

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There must be a reason for that. Trust your gut, my good man.
The ultimatum is not a good thing as it is perceived as coming from a position of weakness. The girl is confused about her feelings for you? Help her clear her mind: go ghost and date other chicks. Then she'll either know for a fact that she misses you or she knows she cannot be bothered. Either way, you win: she either crawls back and starts playing nice or you're already over her, banging somebody else.

Tough situation for sure. People, not just girls, tend to have a self-fulfilling attitude towards their reality. This is real and can be verified by reading psychology books. The fact that she says "all her relationships end after two months" and you're at the two month marker should be a BIG sign of her self-fulfilling prophecy. If she believes that all her relationships end at that point, she'll subconsciously end it with you at the same time. Not because she doesn't care about you, but because that's the state of mind she's in.

You can still be power through this and keep her. If you've been together for two months she obviously cares about you. That's a long time. At this marker in the relationship, she wants you to fight for her. Do some of what's considered to be AFC stuff. I'm serious. Don't hound her with calls or texts, but basically show her that she's your girl and you're not going anywhere. You won't take leave for an answer. If you do it properly, you'll make this girl fall in love with you.

Quite a few different points of view. Good luck !

Anytime you hear a girl say she gets dumped continually, you know its time to run.

No. You will grow a beautiful little mangina, and lose your dignity somewhere along the way on the long and painful road from "desperate" going to "dumped".
Trust me, I've taken that road, and done EXACTLY that, with a girl exactly like that. The more you try to fix the relationship, and the more you pull, the more she will push. DO NOT turn in to a mangina. I've done it. It hurts your self worth, your attractiveness, and your inner game. It is only after I let the girl go (ahem, she dumped me), and moved on that she came around and came back wanting to be together at any cost. Never cling. You may buy yourself some time, but in the end it makes the certainty of doom that much more inevitable. And trust me, the time you will buy, you will not enjoy.

So far I haven't done anything, no contact for a few days while she's out of town. I've filled up my calendar with various events to go to over the weekend, but I'm not inviting her unless she comes around. There hasn't been any dumping, just a "taking it slower" until she decides what she wants.

As it turns out, she is moving to Alabama due to inability to support herself living alone, she'll be living with her family up there, as opposed to currently living with them down here. Well, here's the convo:
I take it as she no longer loves me, and this is just her excuse to get out of the relationship. Not much I can do to build enough attraction to keep her despite her financial concerns. I had her from the start that hooked on me enough to stay living here, blew it somewhere along the line, wonder where or if I can get that back.

But then again, she did warn me from the start she may be moving to Alabama in a few months. Oh well, time to move on.