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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 12:54 pm 
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ok here is what I do

1. I look at the target but make sure I dont break the 3 second rule
2. The girl must be in my line of vision
3. I just pretty much say whaterver crap that comes to mind; u can try to be funny then be direct but if u cant be funny just be direct or pretend that u are interested in what she has to say but srsly bro u got to be direct if not u may get the number but u will also get friend zoned

I think the whole say "hi" to girls first is also good when u are comfortable with that try this

p.s u got to be real confident to try this shit dont care about what happens afterward and always say to urself that its all a game the good Lord will one day provide one for u ..lol!!!


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 5:50 pm 
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ok here is what I do

1. I look at the target but make sure I dont break the 3 second rule
2. The girl must be in my line of vision
3. I just pretty much say whaterver crap that comes to mind; u can try to be funny then be direct but if u cant be funny just be direct or pretend that u are interested in what she has to say but srsly bro u got to be direct if not u may get the number but u will also get friend zoned

I think the whole say "hi" to girls first is also good when u are comfortable with that try this

p.s u got to be real confident to try this shit dont care about what happens afterward and always say to urself that its all a game the good Lord will one day provide one for u ..lol!!!
ye not breaking the 3 second rule is a good point, i don't want to seem like a creep... saying something funny is something i could potentially do in particular situations, but i think if she's coming towards me i better open her direct because she'll pass by in like 2 seconds... ye you're right about considering this a game, that's what makes it easier for me to approach in bars and night clubs... just need to learn to extend that attitude (but with different game) to the street!


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 6:51 pm 
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My favorite is to let them pass about 10-20 feet and then run up and get in front of them, Then open directly.
Daygame in my opinion should be done directly, unless you can go situational then that's okay too.


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 9:16 pm 
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My favorite is to let them pass about 10-20 feet and then run up and get in front of them, Then open directly.
Daygame in my opinion should be done directly, unless you can go situational then that's okay too.
Are you by any chance talking of the 'Yad run'?... I've seen his success with that in his videos and think its a great idea if you have the confidence to pull it off


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 1:10 am 
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That's exactly it. I first started doing it after seeing Sasha daygame then I seen yad later on and that's where it became my natural approach it's quite fun and most of the time she will stop and listen.
Only had one actual rejection from it but it was just not a good set to begin with.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 5:24 am 
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General street approach of mine started as:
Hey how's it going?
-they usually respond with good or ok or something bland and generic
Just ok? (or whatever else they answered with) That sounds really boring I'm sure you're not -that- boring (possible neg imo)

*At that point she usually smiles and I'll bring attention to it with: Hey! There's a smile, see, life's not that dull*

Definitely helped get rid of some approach anxiety


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 11:58 am 
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That's exactly it. I first started doing it after seeing Sasha daygame then I seen yad later on and that's where it became my natural approach it's quite fun and most of the time she will stop and listen.
Only had one actual rejection from it but it was just not a good set to begin with.
ye that's cool, do you only use it on single hbs or sets of 2 or more? That's something i'm definitely going to do in the future once i've forced myself past this street AA stage... how did that rejection go if you don't mind me asking?


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 2:41 pm 
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I think my major weakness is approaching more than one hb on the street am not too sure how I can do it especially if it s day game man...is direct or indirect approach good in that instance...


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 28, 2013 9:59 pm 
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I think my major weakness is approaching more than one hb on the street am not too sure how I can do it especially if it s day game man...is direct or indirect approach good in that instance...
ye i'm not too sure with that one... maybe having a wing might help in that situation, my instinct would tell me go indirect because i can't imagine how it would be if you opened her directly with her girlfriend right there... i mean it's day game so bitch shield is down but still... unless you tried to get the number and bail without building any rapport... what do the MPUA's on the forum think?


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 9:00 am 
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Really good ideas. I want to try. But i have some questions.

If i say the girl on the street; "Excuse me, i am new in this city. Which restaurant do you recommend?" is this good for opening?

After her advice, can i ask specific question? For example, "I need to ask something. What do you think about my shoes? Because everybody looking my shoes. I really wonder." or something like that.

And finally, should i ask "How can i contact you again?" for take her contact informations?

Is this suitable to meet alone girl on the street?


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PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 12:02 pm 
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Really good ideas. I want to try. But i have some questions.

If i say the girl on the street; "Excuse me, i am new in this city. Which restaurant do you recommend?" is this good for opening?

After her advice, can i ask specific question? For example, "I need to ask something. What do you think about my shoes? Because everybody looking my shoes. I really wonder." or something like that.

And finally, should i ask "How can i contact you again?" for take her contact informations?

Is this suitable to meet alone girl on the street?
Alright mate, you're in a unique position of not having a full grasp of the language, which maybe some girls will find cute, but at the same time, you probably can't game as well as most people with that language barrier... not sure what your transition to conversation could be but it seems like a bit of a jump to then ask about your shoes... unless you said something like "Am I dressed OK for this restaurant?... How about my shoes are they OK?"...

If your feeling confident you could attempt an insta-date and say something like "You seem nice, I don't know anyone in the city yet, want to get some lunch?" If she says she has things to do maybe say "OK, i need someone to show me around a little, give me your number and we'll go for coffee"...

Little tip when a girl gives you her number... read it back to her but change one digit... if she corrects you game on... if not then forget it, you didn't build enough attraction and she's not keen


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PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 12:55 pm 
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Really good ideas. I want to try. But i have some questions.

If i say the girl on the street; "Excuse me, i am new in this city. Which restaurant do you recommend?" is this good for opening?

After her advice, can i ask specific question? For example, "I need to ask something. What do you think about my shoes? Because everybody looking my shoes. I really wonder." or something like that.

And finally, should i ask "How can i contact you again?" for take her contact informations?

Is this suitable to meet alone girl on the street?
Alright mate, you're in a unique position of not having a full grasp of the language, which maybe some girls will find cute, but at the same time, you probably can't game as well as most people with that language barrier... not sure what your transition to conversation could be but it seems like a bit of a jump to then ask about your shoes... unless you said something like "Am I dressed OK for this restaurant?... How about my shoes are they OK?"...

If your feeling confident you could attempt an insta-date and say something like "You seem nice, I don't know anyone in the city yet, want to get some lunch?" If she says she has things to do maybe say "OK, i need someone to show me around a little, give me your number and we'll go for coffee"...

Little tip when a girl gives you her number... read it back to her but change one digit... if she corrects you game on... if not then forget it, you didn't build enough attraction and she's not keen
I got it. Thanks your reply.

"Am I dressed OK for this restaurant?... How about my shoes are they OK?" is good idea. You are right. My style is look like "jump another issue immidiately." (:


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 7:52 pm 
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May i ask you 1 more question?

In USA, it's ok to ask about your clothes, to suitable for restaurant or not. But if you ask this in some European countries, you look very silly. Because restaurant is restaurant. Not special thing. What should I ask any logical question to the girl on the street?

PS: Of course your first opinion is very good. But i wanna learn different meeting conversations. Because it is not suitable for every country.


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Sun May 12, 2013 11:59 pm 
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May i ask you 1 more question?

In USA, it's ok to ask about your clothes, to suitable for restaurant or not. But if you ask this in some European countries, you look very silly. Because restaurant is restaurant. Not special thing. What should I ask any logical question to the girl on the street?

PS: Of course your first opinion is very good. But i wanna learn different meeting conversations. Because it is not suitable for every country.
It's cool ask as many as you want, i'm sure some other guys will give you their ideas too... i'm british so my advice is mainly aimed at women here... Problem here is it is more unusual for strangers to talk to each other than in other countries... however that can also work to your advantage as you are unique!...

Well a lot of guys earlier in this post suggested opening directly, in the day time women are more open to this than in a club at night... I think some women may find it charming if you stop her and say you think she looks cute,
ask her for her name,
shake her hand (search kino escalation on the forum),
try to chat to her and find things out about her (avoiding the any type of interview style exchange by making statements about what she just said rather than repeatedly asking questions),
then eventually say you are going for a coffee, would she like to join you (you are doing it anyway, you're allowing her to tag along rather... than you are going for her)...
if she says no use the line "ok, well i need someone to show me around a little, give me your number and we'll go do something :)"


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 Post subject: Re: Street Approaching
PostPosted: Mon May 13, 2013 7:53 am 
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Thanks a lot. :)


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