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PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2013 12:32 pm 
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Hey folks!

I will make this short now because I wrote a long post yesterday, but the forum deleted it because I wasn't logged in. SO here we go.

A couple of years ago I met Itsmyway and somehow we discovered the game together when we were 18/19. We had lots of fun with it but never really made fantastic results. At some point we had a dream to go to a big city in Norway and just sarge to live. Then we drifted away and lots of things have happened in our lives. I have spent mine traveling, working and doing some stuff. This summer I tattooed my entire back to prove to myself if I could do that then I could definitely pursue my dream (I attached a photo because here it is actually relevant).. The past month I have spent being stressed looking for jobs, finding a tiny 8 square meter apartment. Now we both have apartments and jobs that will pay for enough food to stay alive. It is game time.

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DAY 1 - goals and small talk

How do you believe you are perceived? How would you like to be perceived? Three characteristics you would like to get rid of and three you would like to adapt.

-I believe people perceive me as a boring/serious person. Not the people who really know me, they will say I am fucking crazy but when you do the maths most of the people I interact with at work would probably not say I am super open.
-I would like to be percieved as a totally open person with a deep voice - the deep voice coming from being happy, having more testosterone etc. I will be more confident and talkative. More socially active.
-I want to stop being a quiet fuck at work. Stopping being grumpy in the morning bus. Not approaching the HBs in the street.
-Be open, funny and talkative.

These are immediate goals. In the year that we will work on the game I want to become something like a pick up artist, a man capable of gripping the moment and walking up to that girl in the street. To have casual sex. Eventually having a girlfriend. I also want to have done a couple of successful stand up shows in a bar.

Our main goal within these 30 days is to have a day 2 with someone we met in the street. That is a BIG goal all things considered from where we are now.

We made lots of great small talk with strangers and truly forgot how fun it was instead of being introverted when you are in public. :)


DAY 2

Today the goal was to make small talk with 5 strangers and notice their eye color. At the same time going caveman - no shower, no shave, no deodorant... Eventually we noted something like 5. This turned out to be much harder to implement than we thought! It is hard to make it a habit to notice the eye color of people. :)

I also made us a bonus mission. I read somewhere on this forum about saying hi to 5 dateable women in the streets. Nothing else, just smiling and saying hi. If you couldn't do this then nothing Mystery, Style or whoever says will matter. This made sense to me so we did it. Initially we were actually somewhat nervous but in the end after walking around in the streets for an hour or two we thought it was fun saying hi to the dateable women. None of them really said hi back, some smiled and raised their eyebrows greeting us so it turned out the AFC fears were not relevant. I loved this mission :)

So far we are on our way! I will write more thoroughly every day. Although I admit now I will NOT buy any new clothes, haircuts or whatever. This is because I don't have the money for anything like this and I have already experimented with this in my life before a lot.


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DAY 3

We spent around 1 hour trying to talk more effectively. We tried talking slower, faster, with more passion and relaxing the voice. The most important thing I noticed was how relaxed I become in my body when I lowered my shoulders and projected my voice properly. It became deeper. Also got 3 dinner recommendations from strangers. Was a little nervous at first but got the hang of it after a couple of calls. :)


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Food for thought #1

I am planning a little over my game here. I was reading a bit into the Mystery Method book and the bodybuilder/cheap ass awoke in me. After the 30 days have passed I want to go out somewhere 4 nights a week for 4 hours, on average 20 minutes between approaches. I also plan buying minimal amount of props during this time and ideally no alcohol. I will try to keep a bag to stay hydrated and have some smart meals for in between sagging. This will cope well with the wallet and bodybuilding plans for the future.


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DAY 4

Shower, shave, get clean. This was a really good experience. I was singing in the shower for the first time in ages. I told myself this wonderful sentence.

I am a god. People love me. I glow and radiate charisma and charm. I stand out from everyone else around me. Talking to me is a privilege. I deserve the best the world has to offer. It’s all out there, waiting for ME to take it.

Then I went along to the postbox where there was a job offer letter to me. So I was VERY happy because of that. :D

Me and Itsmyway approached more girls than we could count (somewhere between 5-10), very few rejected us and most of them gave clothing store recommendations. It was a very interesting experience standing next to girls you would normally approach for a phone number. We ended the day with a high five after we approached two Romanian girls who we spoke with for 5 minutes. I asked them where they got their accent from, proceeded to tell them of my travels in Romania and we had some laughs. All in all a GREAT day :)

Personally I will skip day 5 because I already spent a lot of time in my life selecting clothes going through these things, as I also did in Stylelife.com missions. For example when I was traveling in Macedonia I spent 3 days in total trying out shirts and one day finding the best haircutter in all of the country, I showed him my best clothes (changed in front of him) and had him use his skills to give me his best haircut. And on day 5 I have work in the afternoon so I can't meet Itsmyway for this mission. I will move on to day 6.


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DAY 6 - COMPLIMENTS DAY

This is actually true.. I heard it on the radio that the same day was compliments day so we used this as an excuse on some of the compliments.Anyway the goal of the day is to compliment 5 women on some things they would like to be noticed. Nothing sexual. Examples would be earrings, bags, jackets.

To make it harder we had to get 5 normal compliments and a couple of bonus HB compliments. So we walked in the street and a mall, and we used our eyes and brains to scan for things to notice and instantly compliment a woman whenever we saw.

We complimented all we saw. I remember stopping a woman in the street to tell her her scarf really stood out in the street and that I noticed it. I remember putting my head on the shoulder to a HB-milf telling her she had a really good coat, and that I had to say it because it is compliments day. Those were the successful ones. The unsuccessful ones were the ones who either did not hear me because a badly projected voice or because it would not be natural for them to receive a compliment. A lot of girls just walked by when we gave them compliments when we walked by them in the street.

Itsmyway had some other luck today. As we were exiting one particular store I told him approach HER, that woman with a black hair. When she was a little closer (she was actually a black skinned goddess!) he perfectly commented her that he really loved her purse. She really appreciated this. Later that day he bumped into her in the street and she dropped her purse to get attention from him. The SAME thing happened from some other girl he approached on day 4. There is really some magic becoming this person we are becoming! Holy shit.

LESSONS LEARNED

-Complimenting old women (nothing you would put your penis in) is absolutely no problem
-Complimenting HBs are a whole other matter!
-A lot of girls have boring clothes… We passed a lot of girls who were VERY hot but there was nothing in particular to compliment with them. Good makeup? Good clothes? Yes, but there was nothing they wore which could be complimented.


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DAY 7

(I am always procrastinating writing the field report the next day… and it must be boring to read also ;))

The objective is to approach 5 women with an opener. This could be an opener you made yourself but you must also try a canned one. It doesn't matter if you get rejected. We did an opener I made a couple a days ago - the man bag opener. For the canned one we used the cat and dog opener (the topic).

For our approach we decided mostly to ask women we could possibly date.

Result:

Mission went fine. Every now and then we saw some HB9 and HB10s but we are not on that level yet. But we approached some hot girls though. :) Even a couple of sets. I also wasn't nervous when I approached a girl who was sitting in a bench and I sat next to her as I asked her about the man bags.

We still need to work on our body language a bit, but we are getting there. Asking a girl for a number seems closer and closer. We start to notice girls in the street we WOULD have approached once we become the men we become. For the moment we do whatever the missions throws at us. Overall its getting more and more natural to talk to strangers. Even got some candy from some woman who was waiting on the bus station with me haha. Getting ready for day 8 now ;)


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Day 8

The point of today is to add a time constraint and a reason to be approaching them. The reason for this is that according to the mission people will always think what does he want and how long is he gonna be here. I believe that during our practice so far we have been fairly good at conveying this, at least with body language. I believe we have spoken in an almost fast way to convey that we don't have much time and we are on our way. Today we will specifically try to improve this. We also gotta up our energy levels - and since this is daytime AND sunday beforenoon this shouldn't be hard haha.

So here we go.

Here, I am writing this on day 9… and a lot of things have happened. Met up with Itsmyway in the centre of Trondheim, warmed up with the bus driver and speaking to anyone I found anything interesting to say to. :) We both got our 5 sets.

Learned that it is actually a challenge to squeeze in a sentence you have to go and I am asking because xxx. I prefer to illustrate with my body language that I am leaving, speaking in a half fast tone so it seems proper and not saying "I am asking because" rather expelling "me and my buddy were discussing this".

I remember approaching a double set with about 6-7 people in it (1 set with 3-4 people men and women and 2 women). My voice projection here was pretty awesome. :)


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DAY 9 - review day + group approaches

In todays day game we had to approach three groups with at least one woman in them, specifically addressing the males. I approached two sets where two went well (asked each when is the last time they listened to the Beatles). Both of these times I was able to keep them standing there, addressing each turn by turn and laughing with them. It feels natural. On the third set I think I spoke too fast because they just looked at me and walked away. But that is cool, I approached them. And I actually didn't have this shitty feeling I used to get early in the game when I get rejected. I just logically thought what could I have done better.

We also tried speaking to each other at various distances in public.

How has it all come down so far? Pretty damn good. We have abolished approach ANXIETY. There is no anxiety before approaching. HOWEVER we can still be more relaxed and cool when approaching. Speaking slower for example. Leaning more backwards. Smiling more - we still catch ourselves not smiling when approaching. But at least we now know this and try to fix it. :)

Have become really good at making small talk. Only today I have spoke with the bus driver for many minutes, said congratulations to another bus driver, spoken to some old woman in the bus about my sleeping rhythms because I felt like it, mentioned to a woman crossing the street if she wasn't too old to buy toys, spoken to people when I wait for the buses… +++ I say hello to people more often, compliment people.. I don't feel anxiety doing this. It is my thing now.

However.. I still don't make an awful lot of small talk with the dateable girls. This has gotta come soon.

Rock on so far :D


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Day 10 - disqualification

Todays challenge is to approach three girls, open them somehow while smiling, pretending to be walking off somewhere, stating your reason for asking and at some point disqualifying the girl.

The first thing I think when I imagine this mission is SHIT. I think we have been doing it all wrong. How the h*** are we supposed to disqualify a girl in the streets with our current openers? Previously we have used the man bag opener, the Beatles opener and some others simply because they fit the purpose of the missions. But I don't imagine how I go about disqualifying someone in the STREET after doing this. I can imagine begging someone about their clothes or something before I am going, but that is as far my imagination goes. Without a different venue, I would love some advice how to do this.

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This is what we did. :)

Approached 3 sets/girls each and negged them a bit.

Girl #1

I stopped her in the streets and used the man bag opener. I managed to keep my posture so she had to turn herself towards my straight bag. She had her headset on, and I gave her time constraint and reason for asking. Engaged her in the conversation, laughed with her and spoke with her for maybe a minute. The disqualification was that my sister had the same glasses.

Girl #2

Nice blonde girl. I stopped her and said I just had to ask her something real quick. I had just listened to this song played in a bar outside and I really wanted to know what its name. I went on to confidently singing the song. She didn't know what it was, and just on the end of the conversation I told her again I had to go, and over my shoulder I mentioned that my sister cut her hair the same way. But my voice was a bit cracked, I wasn't nervous but I didn't say it with confidence either. But it still counts because I know I will do it better next time and I DID disqualify her.

Girl #3

I hardly remember this one because I spoke to so many people today… Spoke with one girl in the street about man bag and nagged her jacket or something.

BONUS BONUS BONUS

We had an idea to say to a girl that she was really beautiful but we had a boyfriend. This was a HUGE barrier to break. Itsmyway did three of those - far from as handsomely as he expected it, but he did it. At the end of the day I decided to do one as well. As we were walking along in the streets I said to a passing girl over the shoulder "You know, you are really cute. Kind of like my ex-girlfriend". She smiled to this and walked onwards.

OTHER COOL APPROACHES

I stopped this girl spontaneously and asked her if she was Spanish. She said YES and I told her I asked her because she looked like my Spanish friend (she did). Anyways turned our she thought I said Swedish which she was. When the hell did I become a person who spontaneously stops a girl in the street for the fun of it? Something has changed in me. :D

I approached three of the bartenders from the bar that was playing music. I did this completely confidently and even sung the song to them.

Also made lots of small talk with people today.

Ready for tomorrow, over and out ;)


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Day 11

First thing is first paperwork.

What are your current jobs, hobbies and/or courses of study?

I love working out, healthy food, getting enough sleep, reading books about everything I want to know, I love the social arts, I love some TV-shows, I love what Americans call foreign movies and working with disabled people.

Pick one of these. What are the most interesting, adventurous thing you will be working on that affect people the most?

Becoming a comedian. This will affect people by getting, in the sense of the word, really fucking high by letting their brains combine really surreal, outrageous and funny things.

Imagine you are a recruiting agent. Write a sales line for this job

Become a comedian where you can get people fucking high.

Shorten this

I get people high.

Do the same thing with something else

Become a personal trainer who helps people enjoy life, fix their nutrition and get in shape.

= I help people get happy and healthy

Now, I am not a personal trainer OR a comedian. Thats just what I can imagine myself being some time in the future and something I have ambitions for.

So what will I say when people ask me what I do?

I am starting on my dream

What will I say when people ask me what I actually do for a living?

I take care of people who can't take care of themselves

Todays field mission: Approach three sets with at least 1 girl, open them.. After the opener take a step back and ask how they all know each other.

Set 1

After Itsmyway opened an awesome set it was my turn. We went to the supermarket and the first 3-set I spotted was three black people so I figured they were immigrants and I wanted to make an opener based on that. I walked around for a couple of secs before I thought of one. Told them I just had to ask them real quick.. Asked them something about how long they had been in Norway or something like that and I was asking them because I wanted a dinner from where they were from. This all sounds pretty messy but it went very well. I spoke slowly, was laid back, smiled a lot and they were laughing too. When I took a step back and asked how they knew each other they asked me what I was doing. I told them I had a dream to become a comedian so I moved here. Very good set.

Set 2

Finally found another set with 3 second rule. Saw 1 woman and two men not facing me in one cafe. Approached them with the banana opener. Turned out it wasn't a real set, it was a mother with her two boys. So I asked them if they were a family, which they of course were. Still counts for me because I THOUGHT they were a real set when I was approaching them.

Set 3

After we were walking for maybe an hour looking for 3-sets with at least 1 girl in we finally spotted one and it was my turn. However, because I was very sleepy and tired for whatever reason my approach reflected this.

Approached three women who were sitting enjoying a nice meal in a cafe, I guess they were in their 30-40s not dateable. I didn't see this beforehand though. Asked them and showed with body language I was leaving.. Asked them about the bananas. I got my answer but the ones who weren't facing my direction ignored me and just the woman who was sitting facing me bothered talking to me. Got my answer and asked if they were friends and left. It was a shit approach but I wasn't nervous or anything, but mission complete.


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Day 12

A list of 10 qualities I want people to know about me

-I love travel
-I love learning how people live in different cultures
-I love reaching new heights in things
-I love working out
-I love having bizarre new sights
-I love getting high (naturally)
-I love laughing
-I love eastern europe
-I love cooking
-I love looking good with fashion/hair etc

Three experiences that made me who I am the past year

-Getting more serious about life… Deciding to rock on this year… Walking around the beach every morning in Barcelona, eating all them oranges and imagining how the year in a new city would be like
-Getting stoned high with this 70 year old dude in Amsterdam who paid my ticket and thinking what the fuck am I doing now
-Working out with my buddy in Eastern Europe just thinking this is the life

Haha, that is a funny list of some stories I could make. Just three random things I remember doing the past year.

Stories to tell about my life

--When I was 18 and I stripped down in front of my school ending up on the back page of the newspaper (I didn't know there was a reporter there though)
--When I was 18 and my dad died - not going into details here on a public forum
--When my back tattoo got infected
--When me and my friend were heating chocolate to the point of liquidation and mixing this with underwear and putting it in public elevators
--When I wrote to this guy on eBay that I never thought I would buy an used electric shaver for my pubes… And told him this is the life of eurocrisis ;)

Todays field mission:

I was actually feeling pretty shit today when I went out today and met up with Itsmyway and one of his friends. Luckily they had brought a full plate of cake and we decided to have some fun with it.

Approach #1

I approached two immigrants asked them if they wanted some cake. I walked along with them and made some small talk. Then I asked them to tell a story from their life - anything I didn't know. The they told me how Ethiopia was like and how its the worlds oldest country per definition.. I listened to this then I told them how I every day woke up in the Barcelona hostel, ate an orange, walked on the beach, listened to an audiobook and decided to move to this city,

Approach #2

I approached a guy who was selling cell phones and gave him a cake because this cell phone company just has awesome prices. Then I asked a guy who was standing in the line if he wanted some cake as well and asked him about his small tattoo on his hand. He proceeded to tell me all about how he tattooed hit himself 40 years ago or something and I made some small talk. Then I proceeded to tell him the story about how my tattoo was infected 3 times and how cool I was going to the doctor for the third time.

Approach #3

I went to a saleswoman in the book store and asked if she wanted some cake.. I asked her to tell me her best experience reading anything in her life. She told me how moved she was from one of her books. After that I told her a story about how captivated I was reading Harry Potter in the nights when I was a kid.

BONUS approaches

I told Itsmyway and his buddy to wait just outside the store (while still visible) while I approached a woman inside the store. I told her Itsmyway had come out of a relationship because they never had sex and yesterday we were out and he finally lost it. So today we are giving out free cake to all the women in the city. I also got her to give a thumbs up to Itsmyway who was standing over there. Itsmyway gave her a huge thumbs up back, not knowing why. When I told them why she did so later we had lots of laughs :D

In the supermarket I said to a woman "I have to say it, you are the most beautiful woman I ever saw today" .. She said thanks to this. Didn't get the tone right on this one, but it was much better than the last time.

Day 13

Because life is short, and this is a shit and boring mission, I decided to do this today.

The task is: find out what is happening in your local area. Read something from a woman's magazine and ask some woman about it.

I took a couple of pictures of events that are happening in this city.

The three of us then moved into 7-eleven and were reading some of the women's magazines. We found out women were interested in the break up of a famous celebrity couple here.

I then approached two women in the street to ask what was up with that. I think they perceived me as a bit needy for this, or none of the women actually cared about this breakup. Anyways, mission accomplished. Two times.


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Day 14

Today is the day for cold reading. The mission told us to go to a phsycic, but I decided fuck it these people are full of shit and got really good brains for reading our body language. So instead I decided our mission to be to approach 2 dateable girls and get a cold read on them. Todays cold read would be the 4 questions game.

So I spent the morning working out and doing some business I had to do in the city. I felt pretty great all day. At some point I had to go to pee and I entered a hotel.

Girl #1

I asked the girl in a cool manner if they had a toilet here. She pointed me inwards, I walked around there and couldn't find it. So I returned to her to ask where she pointed again. I thanked her and finally found the toilet.

When I returned from the toilet I thanked her,and just as I was about to leave I told her, over my shoulder, that I had learned a cool game today and asked if she wanted to try it. She said sure if it was quick. So I ran through the 4 questions, wrote her answers down on a paper and joked a bit through the interaction keeping it positive. Handed her the note with a smile, explained everything and told her to have a nice day when I left.


SO


An hour later I met up with Itsmyway. A couple of minutes later he approached a girl with the man-bag opener. This worked out well and he spoke with her for 5-7 minutes, had great rapport and felt that he could have asked for her number. It was my turn again.

I got a little nervous because the 3-second rule fucked up all the time when they all walked in the wrong direction so the geometry would be bad for approaching them. This made me loose my mojo a bit. Went down to a mall and I made my first approach to a girl in a shoestore.

Girl #2 (FAIL)

Opened her with the man bag, made some small talk with her about my accent and some stuff. Then as I was about to leave I told her about a new game I had learned if she wanted to test it.. She was a bit yes, maybe, no as I told her about it. Then eventually she said maybe some other time. I told her to have a nice day and I left.

Girl #3 (NOT GREAT)

Approached the girl next door who was working in a women's underwear store. I told her I was thinking about the man-bags when I saw the store. When I got my answer I told her about the new game I had learned. She wasn't enthusiastic about this as she was folding the bras on the counter but she said ok.. So I went through the 4 questions, very slowly. It was all shit, she was giving almost no answers and many times I thought about just leaving but I decided to plough through this situation because I guess its better than not doing it. So finally I finished the game and left her a bit disappointed of myself. I felt as if I was needy and not being my best self.

So I eventually got the bus home feeling a bit shit. I wasn't tired or hungry, just not being my best self with the approaches. I guess better days will come in the game.

Bonus approaches through the day

I stopped a couple of girls to say they were really beautiful or the most beautiful girl I saw today. One of them actually was, a smashing slim asian girl who was jogging. I don't get nervous when I do this or wait for reactions, but I still don't say it Antonio Banderras style.

Was walking in H&M clothing store and I said to the girl "You know what, I look at this picture of David Beckham topless but I feel sexier than him".


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Day 15

Easy day. :)


Watched a video of Style where he explained how cool it is to make others feel good. So we set out our mission to make 3 people feel good, minimum 1 of those a stranger.

Person 1

Called my mom.

Person 2

I was listening to "Let it Be" by The Beatles. The first (old) woman I saw in the street I stopped, asked her if she knew the song. When she did I said it made me feel so good that I had to give her a hug. And I did.

Person 3

I spoke to a guy who was selling self made jewelry in the street. He told me about his problem with gambling, and to make him feel good, I agreed with everything he said. Even though he was a bit crazy I spoke to him maybe 15 minutes.

Person 4

Tried to give a free orange to some old woman who declined because she said she didn't like them.

Person 5

I told a woman who was standing next to the bench that I was sure that she was a great person inside and she deserved an orange. She declined because she was going to the store later. I am sure thats not the reason, she could have eaten it on the spot… But okay. She smiled and patted my back though.

Person 6

Told some teenagers who were giving out free waffles that because they gave out free waffles they deserved a free orange.


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Decided to take Sunday as an off-day as we did one day twice.

Rationale/weakonale/fucking excuses (however you see it)

It feels good to do nothing mentally or physically. My legs are still sore from Fridays leg-day in the gym. Normally a stay at home day would be depressive. Will read some books, watch TV-shows and eats lots of that healthy food to get bigger.

Next week will be damn hard. Tomorrow the mission is to do the ring routine on 3 girls successfully. In day game. Woah. Will be lots of work. And in general the pace is gonna get harder from day 16 so… Soon I will be able to talk up a girl anywhere in the street. Life will be cool :)


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Day 16


Okey, so I had spent Sunday doing nothing, just relaxing and reflecting on how to perform day 16. What I found out is that I just had to focus on the basics:

-Smile, be friendly
-Lay back
-Speak properly
-Try harder

Thats it. So without further ado, this is what I/we did.

Met up with Itsmyway in the city centre and I told him because he had the mojo last time we met I wanted to do the first now. We still had NO idea how to perform the ring routine in the snowy cold weather outside in the streets. But we just had to try. Somehow.

I warmed up by congratulating a parking ticket officer by telling him he did a good job and patting his back.

Approach #1

Approached two Swedish girls asking why Tarzan doesn't have a beard. After discussing it a bit they left. No transition.

Approach #2

I approached a girl and asked her the same question. First she didn't speak Norwegian so I spoke to her in English. She tried to leave but I tried to make more small talk how I always wanted to visit her country Belarus but visas were impossible to get. I asked what her name was (should have just introduced myself instead) and from the handshake I tried to introduce her to the ring routine. But this was a very shaky transition. She wouldn't lend me her hand, it was like she was almost a little scared of me. When she didn't want to do the routine I cut her loose and said have a nice day.

All of this was with a smile but I could definitely have done it better. I think I was needy here. Should have maybe talked slower.

Success #1


Approached another girl in the street asked her about Tarzan. This time I kept my back more straight. I don't remember the whole conversation but at some point she mentioned she was from Bosnia. I asked her about her ring and she was engaged. I congratulated her. Then I told her I had something really cool to show her on my arm because she was from Bosnia, if I could just show her something with her hands first… Something I learned from the Mystery Method book. I then successfully did the ring routine with kino. When I finished I spoke to her in Serbian a bit telling her me and Itsmyway were going to go to the city and told her to have a nice day. She loved this. Was cool conversation and we left.

Man it was fun doing kino and the ring routine on a girl for the first time in years. I felt great after this.

Success 2

I approached a girl in a bag store and first I opened her (does it count if you "open" retail workers?) with the man bag question. Did she think it was gay etc. She said no, because she bought her to her boyfriend. I then asked to look at the bags and to try them. I explained her which kinds I wanted and made some small talk about it. Then I pretended to spontaneously notice her ring on her finger and asked if it was her engagement ring. She said no, and I proceeded to do the ring routine. It was fun. Then I made some more small talk, shook her hand and said it was nice to meet her.

After this Itsmyway spent a long fucking time approaching girls. He had some AA or issues and I was in a great mood (I had the mojo, he didn't). But I forced him to make a lot of approaches, saying he would owe me 100 bucks if he didn't approach anyone within 1,5 minutes. This worked great. In the end we went to a food shop and he approached some nice hippie blonde. I walked around the store waiting for the results. Turned out he failed to transition to the ring routine. So I had a great idea.

Success #3

I found Itsmyways failed transition girl and I popped one to her and asked if she spoke with my friend. She didn't understand Norwegian so I told her in English that me and my friend were approaching lots of because because of ambition and bla bla. Somehow I managed to say this with enough confidence so that we both enjoyed the conversation. I asked if my friend asked her anything about the ring routine literally. She said she had no idea what I was talking about, so I told her to take off her gloves and I explained about my Greek friend. So I did the routine with kino. Afterwards I left, how awesome was that. haha


BONUSES

*Itsmyway approached some girl in the street asking if he could borrow her for a minute. Then she said loudly BANANAS? Apparently we had approached her with some banana opener and she vividly remembered us. I thought this was very funny, especially because of the way she said bananas. So I decided to confront her, I asked her how she perceived us when we approached her. Were we standing properly? Did she perceive us as confident? She answered ye to both of these questions. I then tried to DHV by telling her why we are doing this and that I was going to become a comedian. She was a bit baffled. I shook her hand and told her to have a nice day.

How great is that? Getting called out was FUN :D

*Saw like 8 women standing in a shoe shop in a circle and I told them - I just have to say it, I wish you were all men discussing shoes like that. They all laughed at this. I felt good because I delivered tho one-liner real swell.


So what is next?

We decided we definitely need more practice before we move on. Will not do anything tomorrow apart from working out and going to work because I can't meet Itsmyway because we have work at different hours. The day after we will make approaches focusing on disqualification, standing properly, talking properly, smiling properly and doing DHVs with kino. I feel this is the smart move. Not satisfied with our current skill so will need more practice. Approach, approach, approach.


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