Hey, in a previous post, I mentioned a current friend with benefits that I am still deciding on whether or not to drop. If you haven't read it, I'll give you a brief summary. My girl is debatably the hottest one on this trip, and she is also hooking up with this other guy who doesn't know about me. I also mentioned that since she is kind of crazy, the other girls on this trip are too afraid to hook up with me. As of last night, I broke that barrier and hooked up with this other girl.

The other girl told me the day before that she would be down to hook up so right there I was feeling less shitty about my FWB hooking up with this other guy because apparently I did have options. Right after hooking up with her I number/FB closed a native, and I FB closed two others who want to take me out soon. I would say that last night was a success.

As solid as my situation sounds, I am very concerned with the consistant nature of my game. Last night was just a good night. There was a party, and usually the people on my trip are horny (or insecure depending on how you look at it) as fuck, and are pretty much down for everyone. A part of me feels that the only reason I am able to get any is strictly based on my looks. I was voted the 5th most attractive guy on this trip and as "validating" as that is, it says nothing about my nature, goals, and personality.

During meals, I can be the only guy sitting at a table with seven other girls, and say literally nothing. In return, the seven girls around me will also say nothing, making it easy for another AMOG to take over. The problem is that I'm not fun, but thats mainly because I'm not having fun. Due to security reasons, I have to stay on the compound making this a very enclosed environment, and I grow bored of the people and surroundings very quickly. Did I mention that alcohol is banned? Utter bullshit.

I'm tied for second in getting the most pussy, and I still feel very beta. The other guys have waaaaaay more charisma, which in the long run will get them farther than looks ever will. There is only one other person on this trip that I have any connection too, and I am freezing her out currently as a punishment for being a bitch. At any moment I could end my self-induced isolation, by walking over to my peers and sit with them, but the second I get in set, the other guys prove more alpha, and I lose all motivation.

Before I came on this trip, my only goal was to experience a new culture, and slay some poon. Now that I have done both, I am very unsure what to do with myself, and am desperately looking to connect. The good news is that I have learned how to come off as not-needy a long time ago, making people feel comfortable around me. I get approached on and off throughout the day, but unless I am generally interested in someone, which I'm usually not, I cant hold a conversation for longer than 2-3 minutes at a time. *right after I typed that sentence, I was approached...for about a minute...

I honestly have no idea when I'm going to hook up next. For all I know it could be tonight with a girl on the compound, or not for another few weeks until I get clearance to go off with the girls I closed last night. The truth is, I really dont care about that anymore, I just want to learn how to make it so I can hold a conversation with anyone I want for as long as I want and keep them coming back for more. Alas this is a pick-up forum, and strictly about our interactions with women, I'll spare some of the personal details and keep you guys posted on my (un)successful conquests.

Peace.

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-Moody

It's all about options. Keep your options open. Be cool. You are on the right path.

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What you sow is what you reap

Last night I was successfully gettin' some poonani. Shirts completely off and an hour long makeout session. I am then told that she reeeeeeally wants to have sex with me, but she wont because she only wants to have sex with one guy on the trip, and that she wants to keep her options open. Then she tells me she is starting to have feelings for me and that we shouldn't be hooking up anymore. Then we stop hooking up, and just lay in bed together. Then she says she was only kidding (right), and starts hooking up with me again. Before she lets me leave, she violently shoves her tongue down my throat.

All of today, she is in awful-bitch-mode, and everything I say/do enrages her. Neither of us are speaking to each other. I cant tell if this is a good sign or bad sign. I have no idea nor do I care if it was something I have done. She is too much work and I'm tired. My motivation to find a new girl has never been stronger. Sadly, my lack of motivation to go for another girl on this compound is also growing stronger.

My future nights out are the only things I am looking forward to. I am much less interested in theory and way more interested in field testing. So far, everything I've field tested has worked exactly the way I was told. Its amazing and yet it is depressing. I see people less and less as people and more like little games of what will and wont work.

And then there are the alpha's. I carry myself as strongly as they do. I walk with as much purpose as they do. I look just like as they do. I have the same mannerisms as they do. I lack the charisma. Its the missing piece of the puzzle. I gain charisma through new experiences. My options for gaining new experiences have become very limiting; however, I have found a proper host and can get clearance to leave in a couple days. The major concern is that my host is 20 years older than me and the only contact I have in the city. He is a family friend and I have never met him. I have no idea how I am going to get him to take me out, if he will take me out, or if he will even be cool if I try bringing a girl back to his place.

Life Lesson: learn patience, because anxiety is unattractive.

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-Moody

The last few days have been weird to me. I fucked that one girl I had a thing with, and we haven't talked ever since. Actually, the night after we fucked, she hooked up with another guy and I was about to tell her that I am not okay with that and that I wanted her to myself, but she said that she wouldn't talk to me because she doesn't respect me. I decided that she can go fuck herself, and that I should drop her and hook up with other girls. I have three girls that I'm working on at the moment. Sadly, I haven't hooked up with any of them yet. One of them is sitting to my left, but she is on her laptop, and I am too drunk to try and do anything at the moment. She doesn't know that I am drunk, and I am having a hard time keeping my shit together.

The girl I fucked is constantly hitting on natives in front of me to try and make me jealous. I don't let it show that it phases me, even though I want to beat the shit out of the guys that she is with. It is whatever though because I understand that she is not mine. It is still an awkward situation because we literally see each other everyday, and never make eye contact, yet its obvious that we acknowledge each other's presence. As I type this I realize that I should probably ask the girl to my left to go get some coffee before I lose all attraction, but I am honestly way too drunk to run any good game. I was the first guy to get laid on this trip, so I guess I'm not doing to bad for myself, but at the same time, I feel lost. Bitches aint shit guys, bitches aint shit!

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Good news. I hooked up with one of the 3 girls I have been working on. We were on a trip visiting an old church, and I pulled her aside from the group, pinned her up against the wall, and we hooked up for a solid five minutes before we had to go back. The best part was that her family is actually visiting this week, and right after I had the pleasure of looking her father dead in the eyes and shaking his hand.

Later, her best friend approached me and told me that the girl thinks I'm really awesome because I can stay casual about hooking up afterwards. She also told me that what I did was super hot. I'm beginning to become more confident in my seduction skills. Now I'm going to try to get her into bed after her family leaves. At the same time I feel like a dick, because I have no idea what this girl wants from me in the long run, and I dont want a relationship. The sad part is that I miss the last girl I was with, but at the same time, I am trying to get with other girls. I think its safe to say that I'm kind of fucked up right now, but there are worse problems to have.

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