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PostPosted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 6:17 am 
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I hadn't been on here for a while... I hadn't been home for about 3 weeks until yesterday. My roommate looked surprised and asked me the same question you're thinking right now.

So I explained to him the situation that I had been sleeping with 2 girls, staying at each one's house few days at a time and going back and forth.
I had great time with the FwB I met end of June, doing all the sweet couple things; walks in the park or by the old port, ice cream, milk shake, festivals, side walk sales, house parties, cooking together, picnic of just the two of us...etc. She told me that I made her happier than any other ex bfs ever did and the sweetest guy that she's ever met.
But she knew it wasn't exclusive which she didn't like.

It had been only about 3 weeks in our "relationship" and finally "she wanted to talk" as girls always say when there is a problem. (that we don't want to hear about)
She gave me an ultimatum to go exclusive or stop sleeping because it would hurt her so much that whenever I'm not with her, she feels like I'm doing all the sweet couple things with other girls (which I was)
I thought about it a little while, she's a gorgeous girl, and we share a lot in common too but soon we'll apart since I'll probably move away from Montreal end of the year, but before then she's going to England for a year end of summer. So I said to her "what we have is very special but long distance won't work with us too well since we don't know each other that well yet. If we were to live in the same city, there won't be any better girl to go serious with." kind of things but she said it was over between us as FwB.

Of course I could have bull shitted to her and said it will work out but that would be cruel when she finds out so I couldn't do it.
If any of you have good advice how I could have handled the situation, I am all ears by the way.

Tomorrow I'm going out on a second date with a girl I went out with like 2 months ago who I had been in touch almost everyday on texts. She was never on the top of my list but since my FwB kind of cut me off for now, I have more time. I'll see how this one goes...

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 8:07 am 
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I know it's been such a long time.
Life is keeping me busy.
Especially end of summer...You want to do anything and everything that you can't do once it gets cold. Or once the girls you game gets busy with school.

Actually I had spent September toning my body. Of course that's not all I did but I focused on getting back in shape more than anything which I succeeded.
I went on strict diet, which was actually not that hard to follow for me. Did go to gym to do weight lifting twice to three times a week, did jogging somewhere between 7-15km twice to three times a week.
Result? lost 12lbs in a month and gained a lot of muscle, nice guns and 4 packs (couldn't reach 6 packs ahaha) and shit load of confidence!
I didn't think it would give me this much confidence but it actually did.
Not trying to be cocky but it actually changed the way girls eyeing me. I get a lot more attention with muscular arms and thinner waist.

Guys, if you don't have enough confidence in yourself, getting in shape could possibly boost your confidence

Of course that's not all I did during September.
Met a lot of University girls, put a lot of non-targets into comfort zone and they love me and they always want me to meet their friends which has been great meeting new girls every week and possible targets maybe every 2 weeks?
Different small/big house parties to get to know new girls and dudes.
Always good idea to befriend guys so that they wouldn't back stab you. One of my wings...He's too young and tries to get whoever girl he wants, even tries to take away from other guys and he made too many enemies already.
He's not welcome in some of the groups that I hang out with already...I need to teach him a bit about how to behave but it's not easy since he's young and he wants to go wild all the time haha
Maybe he needs to learn that on his own

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 Post subject: October 26th 2012 Friday
PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 8:38 am 
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Birthday party

Location: A house of 4 girls
Member: xx and Baron

It was the first of Halloween weekends, so I went there with my badass police costume. I know it's not very original BUT it's always popular since you can arrest people.
Since it was a birthday party and the hosts didn't feel like dressing up, they told everyone that costume wasn't really necessary so only 6 people showed up with costumes including myself out of 30-40 people there were.
I arrested may girls, making up reasons why they had to be arrested, and some naughty ones asked me to arrest them since they've been naughty :D A good start!

I NC 7 girls in the party very easy with 3 of them interested in hanging out with me the next day to go to another party.
If I rate them, I would say 9.5, 8, 8, 7, 7, 6, 5 (3 Asians and 4 Whites) so it was decent since it was a house party with limited number of people; no new people every 5 min like in clubs.
The White6 was actually very nerdy and she told me that she was nerdy and was probably not as fun as all the other girls in the party. But I chat her up and made her laugh so she was hooked to me, and sometimes she came to grab my arm whenever I was flirting with other girls. (and she didn't want to leave til she got my number lol) And poor girl, I used her as my photographer to take pics with hotter girls... 8)
There was a tall girl who was and 8, but since she was taller than most guys, I guess that gives her insecurity although she was really cute. Going to gym really paid off. She asked me to arrest her to take pics. Then she became all happy when I hand cuffed her then lifted her. She wasn't fat, she was slim tall but girls who are bigger get really excited when guys can actually lift them.
It's a good trick, but if you are going to drop the girl, don't even try ahaha. You should be able to do back squat of about 120lbs to be able to lift bigger girls comfortably on your shoulders (or about 100lbs for regular girls)

It was a birthday party after all, and I got cakes for this occasion so I got to take the cake with candles on to the birthday girl then I knelt infront of her and everyone just loved it.

Meanwhile my wing was an idiot, pissed off one of the hosts and got kicked out of the party...lol

I went out on dates with two of the girls I NC in this party within one week. Not bad. Not bad

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:25 pm 
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Halloween Party

Location: Some house in Gay village
Wings?: None!

I hadn't gone solo for a while. But it is sometimes more comfortable than going with Wings you're not sure how they'd act.
This specific party didn't have any girls I could call HB but reason I'm writing this is that it had effect on the weekend after.

Just as the night before, I was there with my badass police officer costume.
Most people were straight guys and girls, but there were at least 3 gay guys which I could confirm.
Since I didn't see HBs, I was so relaxed and it was fun arresting people dressed up in SPAM costume or Superman costume.

I was invited to this party by an Asian8 who was hesitant to invite me to another get together before because she thought I was hitting on everyone last time I hanged out with her and didn't even give her much attention

So my goal that night was;
-be a good friend and give her more attention
-interact with her friends so when they talk about how much fun they had later on, I'd be part of it
-win the gay guys over; girls have no shield against them and they chat up with girls all the time, so you don't have to even open sets while you're with them

Actually I thought 2 of the gay guys hated me because they didn't even talk to me much that night but at least 1 of them became very friendly which was good.

And since there was no remarkable HBs in that party, I didn't look like an arsehole only talking to HBs. I talked with guys and regular girls. Some ground work I had to do once in a while.

But since there wasn't much happening, I left the party by 12:30 and went to join 3 girls who were at some other place. But my mission was accomplished because when I was about to leave the party, I was invited to another party on Nov 3rd, which turned out to be the best party of past 2 years I should say...

Lesson is, even if you are not attracted to someone, they can still lead you to other cool things. I knew this group had a lot of hot friends, so this was an investment which had to be done

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 Post subject: Looking good
PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 6:59 pm 
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Tell me if there's someone who doesn't want to look good.
Guys, girls...the gender doesn't matter in this particular matter.

Fashion is easily adaptable, and so is hairstyle.
Those 2 topics had been talked a lot on forums for fellow PUAs.
Also getting toned is another topic which is talked about a lot.
Yes having good physique is important, and I had experienced it lately after going through a diet/exercise program I made for myself which actually worked.
I hadn't had rebounds so far to regain the weights that I've lost. Not bad not bad.

BUT I want to talk about something totally different!!!

Over the years, a lot of PUAs I've met, and my guy friends (who are mostly natural PUAs without noticing) had a talk about what features attract you the most in opposite sex.
And every time I convince them What is the most basic thing of looking good is.

It's the skin...
No matter how hot your body is, if your skin is not good, you'd never be considered hot. You'd be the ugly guy with hot body, or the girl would be an ugly chick with body like wow.
Tell me if any of you like the look of a singer/actor/actress with bad facial skin.
It's really hard to find good looking people with zits all over the face right?

Do you take care of your skin? How?
Many cosmetic companies are selling expensive face wash or facial creams that you can use. Yes they have some benefits.
But if you don't take care of your life style, you'd never see drastic changes.

Most important things are;
-Add a little more fruits and vegetables to your diet for all the nutrients
-Sleeping well; your skin recovers the most late nights, so try to sleep latest by 1 am
-Avoid too much potato chips, chocolate or deep fried food
-Do exercise; sweating actually helps to get rid of things which are stuck in the pores of your skin

Find yourself a few kinds of fruits you like and have some lying around your desk or where you see and you'd reach.
Of course supplements also helps but lets admit that our science did not discover all the nutrients/benefit there is in actual fruits/vegetables. (same goes to meat too)

And you thought the term "Beauty Sleep" was a joke?
Actually based on studies by cosmetic companies, it is said that 10pm to 2am is the period considered as the "Golden Sleeping Hours" for your skin. (Although I am not sure how credible the study is)
More nutrients are delivered to your skin cells during your sleep.
And there is no UV to damage your skin while you're sleeping
Since we guys don't use cosmetic products like girls, probably we have more effects from UV on our skin too, so have a good sleep every night! (unless you're getting laid! lol)

Unfortunately I love potato chips, chocolate and deep fried food.
Darn those food which are unhealthy but tasting good! :lol:
What I want to remind you is Moderation
Enjoying a little bit is ok but eating too much will cost you later...
As you get older, your basic metabolism goes slower which means if you get used to eating a lot of these food, you'd end up fat in the future.
No need to remind you about all the skin problems you can get from that as well.

Do Exercise!
I can't think of negative effect exercises can have on you.
Good for losing weight and staying fit meaning looking great.
Get rid of the things blocking your pores on the skin surface which allows your skin to breath better.
Women love sportsman.
Doesn't matter whether you're a genius scientist, do exercise!
It increases the male hormones like testosterone which helps your sex life as well!

By the way, I'm almost 28 but even young girls are very jealous with my skin lol
Keeping the good skin keeps you look younger too. They never think I'm more tha 23 haha

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Good stuff !! keep it up!!

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RE: Skin Tips

Besides doing hot yoga which has a ton of other benefits besides opening blocked pores, drinking a minimum of three litres of water a day & taking fish oil supplements will make a big change in skin care.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2013 8:13 pm 
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Spending past few months for self-improvement, I've started going out more often again.
The winter in Montreal can be rather depressing but if you're out to have fun, it'd lift your moods up!

I've been going to gym for the past 5 months, and I tell you the way girls look at me is really different.
I had 24% body fat but now it's about 12% with more muscles on the arms and abs almost revealing but seems like my abs are more shy than I expected.
After all, the first impression is decided by the look; before you approach a girl and start talking, you've already given the first impression with your look (hair style, body shape, body language, clothes...etc)
Of course with your master talking skills, you could still reverse the tides in case you didn't do well with first impressions but if you can give a good one and have a head start, why not?

Few weeks ago, went to a bar in Old port Montreal with Heartnet and Wildgunns

Heartnet had been a machine opening different sets. It was my birthday that day and it was easier to open sets.
Heartnet opened a set with Blonde7 and a Latina6 and he left me to talk with the Blonde who only spoke French. I struggled but she was interested so my poor French was rather a charm for her.
After chatting with her for a while she went to bathroom, meanwhile I joined Heartnet chatting with 2 cute blondes and a brunette and we had so much fun talking, a lot of kino (although the 2 blondes were both engaged so there wasn't much expectations) which made the Blonde7 really jealous when she came back from the bathroom. Then she did things to get my attention.
That was textbook move; giving attention to other girls to get the girl jealous and want you even more.
She said lets dance, then she starts touching my ass, kisses and bam!
I ended up going to her friend's house and ended up fucking her.
She had really nice tits with tan lines which was better than expected.
This was a good example that the language barrier doesn't really stop you from fucking a girl.

We found another PUA from Milan while we were in the bar and we talked for a while as well. Pretty cool guy. He caught us red handed in our crime scene. He left with a girl quite early.

Getting girls jealous was definitely a textbook move but it is very effective. (of course you need to assess the situation first)
Cold weather shouldn't stop us from having fun guys!

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 31, 2013 5:46 am 
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Place: Panda Bar (a local bar, not too big, not too fancy but a good crowd and vibe)
Members: Baron & Narkissos (19yo wing) and 2 chicks

So I hit the bar with my good wing who's been learning a lot recently, and 2 girls who are in comfort zones.
They are definitely attracted to both my wing and I, but we just keep them in friend zone.
Before going to the bar, I was with the girls and we had "girl chat" and they even opened up a lot more than ever. That was actually a good thing to do because it helped the rest of the night...

We hit the dance floor, not a big floor but almost everyone in the bar was dancing. And the 2 girls we went with love dancing, so we danced together and we looked like we were having more fun than any others in the bar.
First I saw 2 girls dancing together, I said hi to them from front and started talking to them.
They were lesbian, I felt it before opening but opened anyways, Because they were the hottest girls there at that moment. I wanted them to get in comfort zone so they'd stick around to give us good social value (which they really did)

Lesbian1: You know we're lesbian right?
Baron: Yeah I could tell, it's cool though, it makes me sad because you're both definitely the prettiest ones here.
Lesbians laugh: Thanks
Baron: Let me tell you something. Don't get offended please, but I used to live in gay village and I saw a lot of lesbians, but most of the time they're really fat and not pretty like you two.
Lesbians: haha thanks. Why did you think we'd get offended with such a nice compliment?

They stuck around the whole night til they left dancing with me. My wing Narkissos later asked me if I knew the lesbian girls from somewhere else and when I told him I just met them there, he was really surprised. That comfortable they were with me.

After having those 2 lesbian girls around us, we became the center of attention. Even before then people were looking at us because we looked like a fun crowd, but so many guys started hitting on those 2 hot lesbians not knowing they were lesbians, and other girls were dancing around us trying to get our approval.

I grabbed a few more girls and danced with them, Narkissos did an even broader move;
he grabbed one of the girls who kept following us around the dance floor, put her in front of him, didn't say anything and kept looking into her eyes for like 10 seconds then BOOM they were making out. (later on he took her home for SNL)

I made out with a petite Asian8 who was obviously interested since she didn't leave around us for the whole night.
And at the end of the night the conversation went like this;
Asian8: Where do you live?
Baron: I am homeless, I live on the street.
Asian8: You're bullshitting. With how you're dressed, nobody would believe that.
Baron: Where do you live?
Asian8: ----xxx----
Baron: Alright that's where I live for the night. Lets go
So we went to her place...

I was pretty well dressed that night so a joke like saying "I am homeless" worked. Also got a lot of attention in the bar and compliments.

Can't say this enough, fixing how you look (hair style, clothes, shoes, accessories...etc) will really affect the first impression even before start talking to them.
So do what you can to look good.
But at the same time, don't be one of these guys who are only good looking and empty inside.

Lesbians, gays or straight girls, they're all good wings. Don't treat them bad just because they're not your targets

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 9:02 pm 
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Part 1

Place House Party

I arrived there, apparently a birthday party for 2 girls, where I knew just one of.
I went there with a gay dude, 2 girls who had always been my good wings (although they don't know), only knowing about 5 people out of 40 people in the party. Not bad not bad, a good chance to meet a lot of new people. I'm up for it.

Since it was a birthday party, we brought a cake, I have a good gay friend who can supply me fancy cakes from the hotel he works at anytime so I got one for this evening and they were all so happy.
The birthday girl I know is a really hot brunette 9, (this one I friend zoned her a while ago) she was really happy and she introduced me to many of her girlfriends, and I just introduced myself to others.
Got along really well with the guy whose house we were using for the party which was a good thing since I'm invited again this weekend.
Always befriend the guys who know cute girls and besides, he's a cool guy and he can definitely be a good asset which he proved later on...
Surprisingly I was attracted to an Asian girl this time. She was tiny but full of energy like a Pomeranian puppy and after a few talk she never left my side the whole night.
I joked how we were the 1 and half of only 3 and half Asians in the party and that was just enough to get her hooked.

I almost always use circumstantial openers because I'm not really big fan of canned materials...
Not that canned materials are bad in case you're not sure what to say but you need to know when to say them so they'd sound more natural than other cases.
Also friend zoning a hot brunette 9 boosted my value in eyes of the other girls since all other guys were hitting on her and I was just being the cool friend.
Also the 2 girls I went there with kept telling the Cute Asian 10 how cool I was, which is really good when you're not the one telling someone how cool you are yourself ahaha. They ended up being really good wings.
Having good female friends in friend zone...A big plus!!!

Got along with a lot of people in the party, NC'ed 3 hot girls which was totally worth the night and I was ready to go to a gay/queer event that my bisexual wing girl was hosting but since everyone kept saying I should come along with them to outdoor event instead so I went there with them which was not a bad idea.

We took 4 separate cabs to go to Old Port of Montreal for an event called igloo fest...
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Part 2

Place igloo fest (Old port of Montreal)

It was very crowded there...
Although there were heaters everywhere, once you're outside it was very cold at -19C...
Well until you get in the crowd and start dancing that is.
After the whole group gathered (we were about 20 people at the beginning) we went to dance outside.
Over the time we lost a few here and there.
I didn't see the cute Asian girl I bonded with earlier but she found me after like 40 min and introduced me to her roommate, which I took as an IOI since she didn't really have to.
Then she was grinding on me for a while which I took as another IOI.
Not bad, not bad.

But another gay dude and I decided to lift the birthday girls on our shoulders and it was a pretty good chance to show off that I was quite tough, and later on girls said they were impressed how long I could keep the girl on my shoulders, lol. Working out paid off again.
But during that time the Asian girl went home with her roommate, darn those Asians. Good girls, lol
Anyways whenever we decided to move to different spots, I held hand of any girl who was behind me to see who responds well to kino.
And the other birthday girl just kept holding my hand even when we reached the destination which I took as an IOI.
So I danced with her and she was really close to me.
Later on when she said she was leaving before the rest of us, we did the kisses on the cheek like French way, and the guy who was hosting the party was looking then said, "is that it? no kissing?" so we kissed.
Thanks to him lol. He was a good wing as well.

Later on went back to that guy's house and we were 3 guys 2 girls. We had more drinks and had a lot of talk about different things including sexual experiences.
We got a long pretty well which was what I wanted out of this to extend my networking and so far it seems like I did well.
And guess what, One of the nice guys ended up with the Hot Brunette 9 I was pretty happy for him since we always say that good guys finish last. Not tonight, not tonight :D

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 22, 2013 11:56 am 
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Frankly, I should admit that there was something missing in my gaming for the past few months...
Although I had been getting some results i.e. lays, I should admit that I was somewhat uncomfortable while gaming girls. It's probably I got totally out of it while I had long term relationships for the past 5 years one after another.

But something has changed this past weekend...

I love reading books in general if it's well written (as long as it's believable so I'm not that into fantasy or sci fi)
This week I had read a book about self improvement which inspired me a lot.
To be honest, I was always skeptical about these kind of books, and I never thought I needed one. But came a recommendation from a good wing/friend (Heartnet) so I gave it a shot.

And the result was very obvious.
I have a lot more positive energy (and I can feel it!) which people seem to notice.
Feel less nervous talking to strangers/approaching girls.
I got hit on by 2 pretty cute girls in the past 2 days (not in a bar or a club of course) for god sake!
All the sudden the positiveness became really obvious, you can say it's an aura.
Making me look more confident as well.

It is important to remind yourself of positive points of yourself to lift your spirit up.
Then think about the qualities that you'd like to gain in the future.
I didn't do the second part but it is good to remind yourself how awesome you are.

Also over analyzing is definitely not a good thing to do.
Knowing too much in theory and not doing anything in action is probably the sticking point for most AFCs.
Although I had results constantly, I should admit that the AA returned which I hadn't had before having the long term relationships.
I wasn't feeling comfortable in crowded places like shopping malls or clubs/bars as much as before.
But to overcome that, I just went to shopping mall whenever I had time, and clubs/bars with people I feel comfortable with at least so that I wouldn't be totally uncomfortable to begin with.
And over time the I'm definitely feeling more comfortable.

Maybe if the AA is too big, first step should be getting used to the environment.
I'll probably share the experiences of past few days but for now, be positive guys!
Always remember This Universe has so much to offer

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 25, 2013 5:21 am 
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On Saturday after the Valetine's day, I went out with an old friend who I hadn't seen in 3 years.

She's a singer who sings in musicals and shows (not one of these pop singers you see in MTV haha) and she has very beautiful voice. Look? I would give 7 to be fair.
Sometimes all you need is someone who can inspire you. I'm writing this because this meeting with her is what changed everything for the past 10 days I can say.
She's very artistic, other than singing, she does painting, writing poetry, composing music and songs as well which is the kind of things I'm not really good at.
We've talked about how we both had been past 3 years, career, job and future prospective, dreams...etc.
It really brought my mood/mind/self/confidence whatever you want to call it really high up. I was really happy.
Of course talking with a girl, she wants to know about your past relationships too so we covered that too.

I could tell that she was attracted to me by this time although I was talking about stupid things including about fuck friends as well.
Then went to the movie which was also very nice.

After the movie, I was planning to hit a house party but since I felt the connection, we went for dinner.
Then she started opening up more and more, and made me listen to few pieces that she composed in her free time.
We were at the restaurant til they closed (sorry to guys who were working there but we were nice with you guys as well) then walked her to the metro station then she invited me to her rehearsal and opening night and kissed me.

It's not about getting a kiss close that I wanted to share.
Talking about your dreams with good friends will lift your spirit up!
And since that day, I should say that girls were more attracted to me than before.
Positivity is an interesting thing; it really affects your performance in any kind of things. Not only pick up.
I hope you have friends to talk to to lift your spirits up once in a while!

Do you have any rituals before going out for gaming?
Usually I don't listen to music too loudly but before going out to pick up girls, I love listening to music a bit loud. Your favourite upbeat songs would do.
Anything to lift your spirits up so that you won't look tired/depressed/unhappy when you approach girls!

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2013 5:37 pm 
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The second part of boosting up my confidence came in a house party I was taken by some friends.

They only knew a few people there but I socialized with many people who were present there.
So I was introduced to one of the hosts, another girl and the rest was up to me.
And in house parties, it's so easy to open people since they're all friends of friends. No need for cocky openers.

I started with a gorgeous European blonde who was taking pics, she was friendly and we chatted for a while and found out she had a BF so I didn't invest much time and ejected.
I realized that the party had 75% guys and 25% girls. Not a good ratio but shouldn't stop you from networking or actually closing girls... I told myself I can do it.
Chatted with some cool guys and they seemed like they were pretty good with women at least in a comfortable situation like that and got invited to another party few days later. Always good to find new things.

I started talking with a latina7 who was talking to my gay friend then a chubby black6 started talking to me from the side. She could've been cuter if she lost some weight. Turns out she was from France but made fun of her saying that she didn't sound French since she spoke English too well. Then she started to try to prove how French she was. I wasn't even trying to disqualify her to make her start that but it seems like it hit the spot for her. Wasn't really investing my time with that girl but all the sudden a hot blonde9 appears out of nowhere and starts talking to the black6 so I praised the lord! lol
Appears that the blonde9 was the roommate so I made sure to include her in the conversation and she stays.
Although I wasn't really into conversation with black6, I used the situation in my favour

I told the blonde9 to shut up because I was talking to her friend

After that she was begging for attention, lol.

After few minutes, I made eye contact with a petite brunette9 who was apparently drunk and she came to me and asked if I spoke Spanish and I said that I didn't. Then she asked me what languages I spoke, then I started from the ones everybody could speak, i.e. English, then said French then told her the other more exotic languages I speak then her eyes opened up and she said it was sexy and I was cute then she just left, lol
But later that night she was giving me a lot of IOIs but I couldn't tell if she was just drunk or horny.

Actually this Brunette9 who boosted my confidence this night...
Later on the guy she was chasing after left and she kept saying how sad she was that the guy was gone to the host of the party then she looks at me and says, "hey you're cute too"
Then started touching me and she was really DTF!
Although she was cute and I would totally have enjoyed to fuck her, I did something funny,
I told her to fuck off. That I wouldn't be some replacement for the guy she was after.
Boom, she was embarrassed, and she was so turned on.
By that time, most people were gone so she got wild.
She was grinding on me while I was sitting down on the couch, showed me her rack, grabbed my hand to let me touch her ass and boobs...etc

Then I still didn't give a shit so she was really begging at that point.
What did I do?
I didn't deliver it. Which boosted my confidence for the days to come...
Sometimes it's better not to fuck even if the girl is hot.
I just didn't want to be a replacement and if I did, probably I would have felt like a fucking cheap ass dude who would do anything for hot girls.
This experience gave me the mindset that WE CHOOSE THE TARGET and not vice versa

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You should post what happen last weekend, too funny.

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You should post what happen last weekend, too funny.
Indeed, I'll come to that as well for sure! But I want to go on the events chronologically to tell how it went there. haha

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