haven't been on here in a while. i'm loving seeing this topic, as i got into it from a spiritual perspective, but immediately noticed the effect it has on women!

i started celibacy as a means for preperation for an ayahuasca ceremony. for those not familiar, check this vid: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid ... =1&theater
there's plenty more online as well. anyway, i'll continue...

i'll skip the story that led me there, and lead to what i learned; when you ejaculate, your body thinks it's creating another life. i feel the act drains you of your life energy, your spiritual energy. even if you're not a spiritual person, you have to agree, creating a life is a big deal! why do you think we're drained after sex/masturbation? Your body is tired from an attempt to reproduce. Cutting out the habit leads to a build up of energy. And great energy is a very attractive quality. You'll be more yourself, more the you that you want to be, when your energy levels are high you'll be more focused, more alert.

Its tough up until around the 3rd week, from there its easier, you dont think about it as much. That said, I've never lasted longer than a month, though I know people who have gone many months. This isn't to say you can't have sex, either. "Sex with conciousness" is how it was put to me; sex without ejaculation. Some of the best sex I've ever had. One time it actually seemed like the girl was trying to get me to break my celibacy, like she wanted to be make me ejaculate, because she knew I didn't want it, I'd told her about it. Had some seriously intense sex as a result!

And as for not lasting longer; sometimes this is true, but when I think I'm about to come, I pull out and tease her, start going down on her for a little bit until you feel safe to get back in there. Sex with conciousness.

I also strongly support this notion.

I'm a newbie who can't get success to save his life.

I happened to go 13 days by accident and I was on fire. Got a woman's number for the first time (2 of them), had 3 dates with different women lined up for the same weekend.

If I could stop myself from deeding ever again, I'd do it in an heartbeat.

would you rather fap and not be able to get women? or not fap, get women, bust a nut real quick and you can keep going round 2 for 25 more minutes?
for me nothing has worked but no faping. i've tried to get laid for a year after my last intercourse and nothing worked. i tried this one for 6 days and got 3 dates and 1 f close. i came after 2 minutes and went for a round 2 for about 20 minutes. i felt secure about giving up that nut so quick so that's all it matters.
when you really wanna fuck you don't give a fuck about the little bullshit excuses like, omg she's busy? she's not my type, she might be a bitch. all you wanna do is give her that dick.

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I tried it and I have to say it really freaks me out...
IOI from everyone but also really horny and needy for sex and increased anxiety.
Not my dope..

So I allso tried. Day 7 I think... I noticed something that doesnt happen to me often.
I am allways late to class, and today there were no sits left. As I entered the professor came to me right away, giving me all the options after I allready pointed out that I can just go if there are no sits left. But there I saw a realy cool chair and went to take it, so I grab the chair and a girl says come sit next to me. Not realy used to girls being motivated to actualy say what they want me to do. I kinda noticed she was into me, as I was reading the topic "Body Language the key to Natural Game" a day before.
Later I noticed a lot of girls looking at me as I walked to the classroom. I took a seat and later, as one of the girls started to answer the professors question I looked back and as did others, but I did not look to see who was answering I just wanted to see if the girl that lost her marella was in the class but what I noticed was 80% girls looked at me, not others and 2 of them stared for more than 3sec, a thing that I never experienced before.

Allso, a few days ago a friend had a birthsday party and we went to a club. We did alcohol, weed and xtc. So my body was completly relaxed but my mind was sharper than ever. So I sat leaned back, allmost sitting position, and danced while in the mean time looking around and meditating. I went into a deep trance, I was there for 2 to 3 hours, just sitting, dancing and thinking, time passed quickly. And what I noticed was no guys were around me, there was this space about 1-2 meters around me and only girls were comming. But before I looked at them I had that weird feeling there was someone I could be interested in close to me. I had the feeling I could smell them wanting me, as if they knew I was the alpha male they seek.
The majority of the girls that came closer to dance was when I had only my T-shirt on. When dressed fully, it seemed like the effect lost its potential.

I am still a sceptic. Maybe it is only my body wanting to have sex that is noticing all of this through my mind, or it could be the sexual tension that is giving me that relaxed state of mind that girls want in guys.
I dont actualy know much about how hormones like pheromone work but there might be a connection with how much we produce while abstinent from sex.

I will continue to do so untill I find out more about the effect it actualy brings, so far logic tells me this may not be far from a placebo.

Woah this post has really taken off and I'm glad it's helping other pua's
Anyway I just thought I would share an update with my experience of NO Fap

I have tried 7 days, 14 days, 1 month, 2 months (my longest)
I found once every 7 days to be the best and I truly believe any longer will be bad for you
Research shows prostate cancer and lower libido are the risks if you go too long without fapping
Research also shows testosternome levels are at optimum once every 7 days
I found edging too often killed my buzz and or resulted in me failing
In the begining I had what I believe to be porn withdrawl symptoms (thinking about girls in porn videos I had watched at random times e.g eating breakfast or in work or at the gym)
All girls/woman in general became more attractive.
I found it alot easier to sleep and my strength went up in the gym.

Recently I started fapping again as a test to see what would happen.
I noticed my strength in the gym went down but girls still find me just as attractive and I still have confidence.
Which leads me to the conclusion that you shouldn't think of this like some sort of magic pill but more like a supplement to your game.

If you haven't tried yet I would recommend giving it a go and experiment for yourself, and I appreciate all the reps from you guys for posting this I hope it helps you achieve your pua goals..

This is extremely intriguing i'll definitely try no fapping, for a week. I just fapped so I should start now haha ill edit this in 7 days with my results in the meantime ill be finding random shit to do haha.

Started the challenge , imma give you report , after some time

I did this for a week and Im not sure if it had positive results.

I did get a large amount of approaches in one night but that was always going to happen.
I started fapping less frequently anyway, more for mental health than anything and I think its had a fairly positive effect.

For one thing my day requires more filling because if I stay in I get the urge.

Buddy! try not fapping for a month. I can't explain to you the power and energy you feel. My advice, Quit fapping its bad for our health.

Does this also include not watching pornography? I hope it doesn't. :p

EDIT: 'Cause I'm 3 days in already. I've seen this thread before and I believe it worked (it really did.. tried it before too) like.. would watching pornography ruin this NF thing? I personally think it boosts you even more because you resist even more, thus your tension is building up twice as much. But I could be wrong, couldn't I? Once again, I really hope it doesn't have any effect on this "challenge".

umm i fap every chance. But u guys maybe gay

I would strongly advise never watching porn again this will reset your brain to become aroused by average women and keep dopamine receptors working. So no more erectile dysfunction and lack of motivation!

Note: I say this because it was the advice I read and it worked for me not because I am some sort of religious anti-porn guy.. I used to enjoy watching porn a LOT but I feel more alpha since quitting. I now only fap to the thought of fucking girls.

I have done some tests... This actualy helped me overcome AA. I realy have none. I still lack motivation.

When not masturbating you seek more females. For example you start making eye contact more often, so you gain confidence. Masturbating again, it seems I lost some sex drive as a motivation. So I talk to random girls out of fun or just learning how they respond. My standards of beauty have risen. My ego is bigger.

After some time of not MB you get more sexual freedom. You wish to show the girl you are interested. A week if enuff. The first week is the hardest in my experience but it doesnt get much easyer with time.

I did have orgasms, 1 per week in awerage. The longest without an O was allmost a month.

Try it out, the real difference depends on the individual.

I'm on day four and reading this makes my balls hurt. They're tingling but I'm fighting the good fight. Hope this works. Lol

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