This has been driving me crazy. In the past two weekends, I've had 3-4 DFMO's of over 15-20 minutes. Built up great rapport, the interest is clearly there.

How do I get them into the bedroom from the dance floor? The thing that kills me every time is that they have large groups of friends with them and because all the friends insist on leaving, they want to leave as well.

I haven't been totally unsuccessful, as I have #-closed all of them as well and text them, but I'm trying to convert this into something more.

Any advice is welcome.

Firstly, you need to isolate her from her friends. This doesn't mean you have to take her away from the group, but even if you can get her to turn away from the group, you've isolated her.

Then, qualify her. For example: "You know what I like about you? You seem really independent and you don't seem to be ruled by your friends, not many girls are like that." That's a bit cut and dry for an actual conversation, but I'm sure you get the idea. Anyway, she'll most likely agree, and it means later on, she'll be far more inclined to come with you. If she disagrees, which she almost certainly won't do if she's interested in you, I'd say something along the lines of: "Well that's the way you've been acting all night, I've noticed how you act compared to your friends." Obviously the friends will probably get a bit offended by this, so make sure you've isolated her properly before you do this.

Finally, making sure she's at buying temperature, go for the full isolation.


Hope this helps,


Vicious.