Hi,

I have recently come out a dark point in my life and have gotten much better with women etc. I have studied the game, David D etc in the past but found it almost counter productive as I would start to analyse a lot of social situations instead of having fun. Anyway, I eventually came to the conclusion that inner game was key.

As of recent I have been doing pretty well with women. They have all been pretty good looking and have been nice people (lets say in and around 7s). Why I'm writing this post is I want to be with hotter women, like 8,9, 10s. I know I'm good with with words and can charm pretty well, but there's an uneasy feeling of not deserving or something when I see a women like this.

Anyway, can anyone help me out? Anything that has helped you guys improve your inner game so make you feel more confident are the women you want?

Thanks,

H

Hey buddy.


Something deep inside you keeps telling you are not worthy her if you feel like this.
If you could find a way to work these deep rooted beliefs that are holding you back, you'll be able to score with them. You already have half of the game at your side, since you know how to talk and charm ladies. What I believe is lacking is more confidence.
I know some may say it doesn't work, but have you tried hypnosis, subliminals or stuff like that?
There is a good website that I came across that have lots of subliminals that works on attraction/alpha stuff. They even offer a free confidence program as a trial.
PM. me if you are interested.
I won't post any link here since I'm playing by the rules

I guess the first question is what you think gives a man worth. That is what will determine if you think you have it. Do you think a man's worth is determined by money or status? Or do you think it's character?

What do you think are the most worthwhile traits you have? What people do you admire that also have these as their main traits?

This kind of stuff is where your self-image is made.

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@Alpha man, yeah NLP I've studied David D's inner game programme.

@clearspeak. I never thought about it like that, off the top of my head I would say: Talented, good looking, ease around other people, financially and emotionally stable, a leader.

Just to point out that there are some things in your list like financially stable and good looking that are not necessarily in a guy's control. Do you think no plain looking, poor guys have any value? I doubt you really think that. There are people throughout history that weren't good looking or rich that I think you could respect.

Also keep in mind that even many guys that now are rich and have status at one time did not. Were they not worthwhile people until after this happened? That's a backward way to look at it. Many of them only got where they are now by finding worth in themselves before others saw it.

If your criteria for a man's worth is fleeting things like money you will not really be even talking about self-esteem. Self-esteem means valuing yourself for something you see inside yourself, not outside.

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