I messaged this woman yesterday but she replied with a neutral ass response with no real way to reel from it, which always makes me frustrated. I can never think of a good way to respond while trying to keep interesting/wity/edgy. Any suggestions would help.
Me: Hey, happy belated birthday! Did you do anything special or just relaxed and enjoyed the fireworks?
Her: Hi , Thank you

I just stayed at home and watched movies , saw a few fireworks , lost a few friends recently so I was in mourning. I celebrate the whole month as my birthday so its all good . How are you?
All I really have for a response right now is something like 'Oh, I'm sorry to hear about your loss'...