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I think that neg's are very important. A neg is use like to get her ego down, most women act a little bitchy because they thing the're so hot that the only guys that can get her must be rich and handsome. There are a ton of guys that when a women passes they just go like "You're so beautiful" women hear this shit all the time and they find it really boring, but if you can complement her by saying "hey i love how your shirt matches your shoes, great" and even use a neg like "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" you my friend, will achieve a lot. This is the famous push/pull tecnique who will help you create tension.
You don't seem to get the point of a neg. If most women act bitchy with you there are some things you need to change. There reaction to you is directly related to your behavior with them. It isn't used to get her ego down, it's used to joke, and flirt. If you have issue with women placing themselves above you there are things you need to work on. I never need to knock a woman down to size, she needs to be raised to my level. If a woman thinks she is higher value then me, its momentary, or I just don't care to talk to her. I'm good at building comfort quickly.
If you think women want rich and handsome men you are way the fuck off. Stop spread bull shit, you are clueless. I knew one kid who slept with easily over 50 women in a year, he lived in an basement apartment he rented for 500 bucks, no car, shit job. Grow up man attraction is a long list of shit not just looks or money. If that was the case I wouldn't do better with women then all of my friends. Yes I'm the ugly one(good looking guy NOT a hot guy) yet do better than all of my much better looking friends.
You also need to learn to grant a compliment, you seem to have no clue about them. What the fuck is wrong with you? Using a neg with a compliment? Using a compliment is a good open you don't need to add something to make yourself look like an ass. Your goal is to open the woman in a comfortable manner, how is adding "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" helping her achieve comfort? This almost sounds like you are trying to get rejected.
"Dude those are nice kicks match your shirt, not bad since you got them at Walmart."
Really? That is rude not an opener, I'm not saying I couldn't get away with it but I seriously doubt 98% of the population has the personality to get away with saying shit like that regularly and getting women. I know the tone, body language, and I have a laugh that would make it work.
Sorry to be a dick but stop teaching and start reading, you are giving horrible advice.
And yes you can open a woman with you are beautiful, I now understand when you can and can't. There are certain moments when you can get away with it and other moments when you will get destroyed, however your body language directly relates to the message received. So if you say it "You are beautiful" to a woman, you better have the confidence to not place her above you. A perfect example is Ryan Phillippe in Cruel Intentions when he tells a woman "You are Beautiful, let's go to lunch." His confidence and his mindset were obvious, he was able to do it because she considered him higher value than her.
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