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I don't NEG on purpose. NEG-ing is like trying to lower womans value.... why lower their value ? why not let they build they value higher so they can be my value ?
Your idea of neg is really wrong.
Understand that a neg is just a way of teasing the girl, and it is definitely not a way of lowering their value..
Many people see neg'ing like the opposite of giving compliments and therefor it is not nice at all...
The way i see it is, that you are having plain fun with the girl, it allows for her to tease you back, and in some way it opens up for many things between you and the girl you just met and already having fun with. in general it is a great way to get really personal with a person really fast. And it allows you and the girl to having fun. it shows her that you are a playfull person which in almost every case is a benefit.
And it is a DHV...
yeah... lately I'm lost. readed to many stuff had so much experience but still not sure which is which. being myself didn't gone great :lol:
cant really tell wether you are being sarcastic or not...

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lol...no ! im not being sarcastic... im serious..... excuse my awful english.

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lol...no ! im not being sarcastic... im serious..... excuse my awful english.
haha yeah alright :) im not to sharp at english my self, so i am not to judge! :D

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Negging is a total turn on.. it creates really strong sexual tension... love lines line :
Is she always like this
How do you guys hang with this girl
You look like trouble
You’re already back to square one with me

These lines are really standard but awesomee . I am a real negging fan ! because without negging conversation is boringggggg


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Tbh I will never compliment a girl that I like, but at the same time I don't feel the need to neg a lot either. Just mess with her a little bit, maybe throw in a neg here or there, but make her chase you. I still think that kino is the biggest part of your game. As long as you don't act like an AFC, are cool, and escalate, you should be fine.


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I think I misunderstood the idea of negging. I think I am starting to get it now. I hung out with this girl at work and she invited me to hang out and mentioned why I always gave her shit (negging) I didnt even realize I was doing it but I liked messing with her and she knew I did it for fun and not to be mean. I think there are different types of negs two. And I agree that you can take it too far.I negged this blonde at the party I was at and then I told her she was cool and that I was messing with her then she hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek good bye when she left. You just have to be playful and confident if you use hard core negs.


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negging can def help put a girl under ur spell - the hotter they r the less they get negged - the only people in there past to neg them would be ex-bf's and there daddy ;)

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negging can def help put a girl under ur spell - the hotter they r the less they get negged - the only people in there past to neg them would be ex-bf's and there daddy ;)
Wow, never thought of that, that is awesome.

I'm not a fan of the Neg but I've realized as its described I do neg. It really to me is just teasing, joking around, having fun, making a conversation talking about nothing but fun to be a part of. Teasing is fun. If you are using it to lower someone a peg, you need to work on your confidence, at no point should she some how think she is the higher value. You should have a presence, an aura.

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negging can def help put a girl under ur spell - the hotter they r the less they get negged - the only people in there past to neg them would be ex-bf's and there daddy ;)
Wow, never thought of that, that is awesome.

I'm not a fan of the Neg but I've realized as its described I do neg. It really to me is just teasing, joking around, having fun, making a conversation talking about nothing but fun to be a part of. Teasing is fun. If you are using it to lower someone a peg, you need to work on your confidence, at no point should she some how think she is the higher value. You should have a presence, an aura.
exactly negging is no more then teasing

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I think that neg's are very important. A neg is use like to get her ego down, most women act a little bitchy because they thing the're so hot that the only guys that can get her must be rich and handsome. There are a ton of guys that when a women passes they just go like "You're so beautiful" women hear this shit all the time and they find it really boring, but if you can complement her by saying "hey i love how your shirt matches your shoes, great" and even use a neg like "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" you my friend, will achieve a lot. This is the famous push/pull tecnique who will help you create tension.

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negging is natural amongst normal conversation. Think about it, u dont kiss the ass of a guy u just met, why treat a hb any different? she knows this and will know the only reason ur kissing her ass is cause shes pretty and u want to fuck her. this is why hb's mess with and turn down a lot of "lovable losers"

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Negging is good, but I don't think a lot of guys truly understand it. You're not putting the girl down... you're just not sucking up. It works though... Just the other day my gf texted me "Oh you're good at teasing me.... get's me turned on" so it's definitely important


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Negging is good, but I don't think a lot of guys truly understand it. You're not putting the girl down... you're just not sucking up. It works though... Just the other day my gf texted me "Oh you're good at teasing me.... get's me turned on" so it's definitely important
A really good point and something that also happen to me, this girl i'm with doesn't last with guys because she just gets bored, but we were talking and she said "you know what i like about you? Is that you never kiss my ass or beg me", like us guys women also like men who play hard-to-get

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I think that neg's are very important. A neg is use like to get her ego down, most women act a little bitchy because they thing the're so hot that the only guys that can get her must be rich and handsome. There are a ton of guys that when a women passes they just go like "You're so beautiful" women hear this shit all the time and they find it really boring, but if you can complement her by saying "hey i love how your shirt matches your shoes, great" and even use a neg like "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" you my friend, will achieve a lot. This is the famous push/pull tecnique who will help you create tension.
You don't seem to get the point of a neg. If most women act bitchy with you there are some things you need to change. There reaction to you is directly related to your behavior with them. It isn't used to get her ego down, it's used to joke, and flirt. If you have issue with women placing themselves above you there are things you need to work on. I never need to knock a woman down to size, she needs to be raised to my level. If a woman thinks she is higher value then me, its momentary, or I just don't care to talk to her. I'm good at building comfort quickly.

If you think women want rich and handsome men you are way the fuck off. Stop spread bull shit, you are clueless. I knew one kid who slept with easily over 50 women in a year, he lived in an basement apartment he rented for 500 bucks, no car, shit job. Grow up man attraction is a long list of shit not just looks or money. If that was the case I wouldn't do better with women then all of my friends. Yes I'm the ugly one(good looking guy NOT a hot guy) yet do better than all of my much better looking friends.

You also need to learn to grant a compliment, you seem to have no clue about them. What the fuck is wrong with you? Using a neg with a compliment? Using a compliment is a good open you don't need to add something to make yourself look like an ass. Your goal is to open the woman in a comfortable manner, how is adding "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" helping her achieve comfort? This almost sounds like you are trying to get rejected.

"Dude those are nice kicks match your shirt, not bad since you got them at Walmart."

Really? That is rude not an opener, I'm not saying I couldn't get away with it but I seriously doubt 98% of the population has the personality to get away with saying shit like that regularly and getting women. I know the tone, body language, and I have a laugh that would make it work.

Sorry to be a dick but stop teaching and start reading, you are giving horrible advice.

And yes you can open a woman with you are beautiful, I now understand when you can and can't. There are certain moments when you can get away with it and other moments when you will get destroyed, however your body language directly relates to the message received. So if you say it "You are beautiful" to a woman, you better have the confidence to not place her above you. A perfect example is Ryan Phillippe in Cruel Intentions when he tells a woman "You are Beautiful, let's go to lunch." His confidence and his mindset were obvious, he was able to do it because she considered him higher value than her.

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Your goal is to open the woman in a comfortable manner, how is adding "not bad for a girl who buys in the market" helping her achieve comfort? This almost sounds like you are trying to get rejected.
When reading this, it seems to me that you express that game is only about making comfort with a girl. Your game might be builded up on comfort, and it even sounds like it goes very good for you, which is awesome. however i think it is wrong that gaming is only about comfort, though it might be that case for you, for me and most likely 90% of PUA it is not that case, therefore i think it is wrong for you to express that comfort is the key. it could confuse someone who is very new to this.
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And yes you can open a woman with you are beautiful, I now understand when you can and can't. There are certain moments when you can get away with it and other moments when you will get destroyed, however your body language directly relates to the message received. So if you say it "You are beautiful" to a woman, you better have the confidence to not place her above you. A perfect example is Ryan Phillippe in Cruel Intentions when he tells a woman "You are Beautiful, let's go to lunch." His confidence and his mindset were obvious, he was able to do it because she considered him higher value than her.
This however, i could not agree with you more! i personally think that way to many people is worried about what to say instead of how to say it. My personally opinion is that is totally the same as yours on this subject, i could not put what you just wrote better my self! and i think that this is the key to gaming! so beautiful written!

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