| I want to try this pattern so I need to translate it to my language but I have difficulties...
This is the pattern:
"The basic theory of this pattern is to use it as a method to take the woman into a deep trance (she will actually assist you – isn’t that great?!?!) And put your picture in her place where she loves someone and then lock it in as absolutely true. Now, this type of pattern will create a real obsession and will lock in her feelings for you. The one problem is that it really shouldn’t be used in most contexts unless you are really sure that this is a keeper. So, use of this pattern is very very dangerous. Please use caution because you just might have created an obsessive person. This basically creates a strong compulsion via submodality shifts and locks in that change. My suggestion is to use this on your LTR or wife.
The setup for this pattern is to engage the woman in conversation. I will assume, for the purposes of this pattern, that you are able to get her into fluff talk. During the fluff talk, develop rapport, and ask about how sometimes you have a down day and feel bad. Then tell her you learned this great visualization exercise in a relaxation book. Now, women love talking about and doing anything related to self-help and improving themselves. Ask her if you could show her this exercise that will allow her to feel really great at any time (most woman will agree to this – if she doesn't, well... you're out of luck... and would you want her anyway???).
(Note: First, have her close her eyes and set it up as a visualization exercise to help her feel good... absolutely wonderful, at any time she wishes)
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You know, I learned this great visualization exercise that really helps you pick yourself up when you aren’t feeling that great. It really has helped me just perk myself up during the day and just make me feel wonderful. Would you like me to show it to you, so that you too can do this and feel absolutely wonderful? It will only take a minute or two and really will bless you with the things it can do for you.
Her: Oh yes. I would love that. Yada Yada Yada.
Okay. I would love to share this with you and really contribute to your happiness [notice the set-up for reciprocity]. Visualize a mental screen… much like a movie screen, in front of you. As you see this mental screen, allow yourself to see… your favorite flower. And, as you see this flower, allow the full sensory rich detail of the flower to be on the mental screen. See it in vivid color, each detail of the flower springing forth. Now, if I were to ask you which type of flower you are seeing, what would you say was the type of the flower? (Good way to learn her favorite flower)
Her: Roses (tulips, carnations, etc.)
Doesn’t it FEEL WONDERFUL to see the rose in such beautiful detail? As you see that flower, see the beautiful color of the rose. Allow the rich texture of it to become alive. While you see this color, hear the rustle of the petals as you see the wind blow slightly against them. And, reach out and allow the smell to become stronger, richer, and oh so beautiful. You can notice that it makes you FEEL SO RELAXED AND COMFORTABLE.
Now, as you look at this beautiful rose... if you were to visualize a picture of someone or something that you love most dearly, like say a child, parent, someone special, or favorite pet where would it be on the mental screen. Allow yourself to notice the location of where that picture WAS (notice presupposition here). Point to the area of the screen where that picture was. What would really make that rose wonderful would be to place that rose in the same location as where you saw the picture of the special something. As you now see the picture of the rose in that special place, let each petal of the rose represent some aspect of a goal.., dream…, or wish… you want to have in your life. Allow YOUR UNCONSCIOUS mind to place those goals, dreams, and wishes in the flower. As you do this, see ME in that picture smiling as you hand me that rose to hold for you. Allowing you to FEEL WONDERFUL at the knowledge that you can ask for the rose at any moment and I will hand it to you and making you FEEL SO WONDERFUL.
Now as you feel these feelings, see that picture becoming more clear, more focused. As you see me handing you the rose… STRIP AWAY… all distractions. CLOTHES OFF… YOUR MINE… to outside influences. The picture is full of rich texture, rich three-dimensional detail. Allow the smell to grow, smell the sweet scent of the flower. Allow the picture to grow larger, with each breath, it grows larger. And as you see it grow, the picture comes closer to you…becoming more clear. Moving closer to you. See the color becoming more vivid, more detailed. And, it becomes sharper, and becomes more and more like a movie... with movement.
Now, allow YOUR MINE… to take this image within yourself. Sometimes, the conscious mind gets in the way of your growth. Allow YOUR UNCONCIOUS mind to find that special place within you. That special place where you hold everything to be ABSOLUTELY TRUE. You know where that special place is, and as you feel and sense that special place, allow the picture of me holding that flower to GO DEEP INSIDE within that
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special place and lock in there. As that picture of me holding the flower locks in, hear the clanging sound similar to the slamming of a gate. You know that the picture is now locked into your place of ABSOLUTE TRUTH.
Now, it might surprise you how your unconscious mind will allow this picture of me holding the flower to pop up during your days to remind you of these wonderful feelings and allow you to FEEL SO FABULOUS. And, during your sleep, your unconscious mind will allow this to become a dream….helping you to FEEL SO GOOD. Whenever you need those feelings, ask and I will be there in your special place of absolute truth to hand you the rose of all those special feelings.
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At first, I would like to know the explanation of '' as you see this flower, allow the full sensory rich detail of the flower to be on the mental screen.
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