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PostPosted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:41 pm 
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So it seems getting off makes you last longer but not doing it seems to be better for the mind.


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Got a problem guys,
anyone got any tips on how to stop? I can usually go 3-4 days but more than that and it takes alot of will power.


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Got a problem guys,
anyone got any tips on how to stop? I can usually go 3-4 days but more than that and it takes alot of will power.

When the day comes that I want to stop - may I lose the breath in my body forever...

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I am new to this forum and have studied NLP, some of the gambler, and Strauss, and I have got to say I like porn. It's free and exciting, but doesn't replace the real thing I know.


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Holy shit, Mystery was right.

Officially decided to try and give it up now. Is this referring merely to watching porn or fapping as a whole? Cos I remember giving up fapping a couple of years ago for about 3 weeks and by the end of it I was dying for one. It came out like bloody yoghurt ha.


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Is this really being discussed? Because honestly it is quite pathetic.

This is not an issue of do or do not.
Take it in MODERATION. I know the word moderation is hard to understand /sarcasm.
Instead go out and find a few fuck buddies.
Do not bother wasting your time reading useless shit like this.
That being said I do have days where I would rather masturbate instead of calling a fuck buddy because sometimes it just works better for me and fits my schedule.

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Is this really being discussed? Because honestly it is quite pathetic.

This is not an issue of do or do not.
Take it in MODERATION. I know the word moderation is hard to understand /sarcasm.
Instead go out and find a few fuck buddies.
Do not bother wasting your time reading useless shit like this.
That being said I do have days where I would rather masturbate instead of calling a fuck buddy because sometimes it just works better for me and fits my schedule.
I symphathize with the stop using porn bit, but I believe this is seriously like the 4th and 5th post I've seen on the subject. As for moderation, for some guys taking things in moderation works (average guys). For guys who maybe mentally addicted to it it may not be that easy. They may have to kick the habit all together. The equivalent of what you are saying is for an alcoholic to take his drinking in moderation. For the average guy, drinking in moderation makes sense. To a guy who is an alcoholic those words seem empty and full of malice. For guys who pork it 5 or 6 times a day, I say kick the habit and move onto to new ventures. Addiction is no easy thing to come over. Your over simplification of this matter does not change its reality. Just my take on your comment.


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I symphathize with the stop using porn bit, but I believe this is seriously like the 4th and 5th post I've seen on the subject. As for moderation, for some guys taking things in moderation works (average guys). For guys who maybe mentally addicted to it it may not be that easy. They may have to kick the habit all together. The equivalent of what you are saying is for an alcoholic to take his drinking in moderation. For the average guy, drinking in moderation makes sense. To a guy who is an alcoholic those words seem empty and full of malice. For guys who pork it 5 or 6 times a day, I say kick the habit and move onto to new ventures. Addiction is no easy thing to come over. Your over simplification of this matter does not change its reality. Just my take on your comment.
First and foremost, comparing a drug addiction and a porn addiction is just a fallacy in itself.

Secondly, any person who masturbates five to six times a day needs something to do with his life besides women.
He/she should consider taking up hobbies and finding interests in their life.
Hell that alone can and will get you laid if you take opportunities presented to you.

Thirdly, masturbation is a normal thing.
However more than once a day is not.

It is not an over simplification, just common sense.
But I do understand not everyone gets that.

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First and foremost, comparing a drug addiction and a porn addiction is just a fallacy in itself.
No its not, there are addictions formed from actual stimuli and then there are addictions formed from compulsive subconscious habit. In other words they become obsessions because of the good feeling they give off. While it is impossible to be physically addicted to marijuana, it is not impossible to be behaviorally addicted to marijuana. Trying to separate the two shows me your lack of knowledge on the subject, feel free to use Google and search up addiction any time.

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Secondly, any person who masturbates five to six times a day needs something to do with his life besides women.
He/she should consider taking up hobbies and finding interests in their life.
Hell that alone can and will get you laid if you take opportunities presented to you.
Where in my post did I say he should not pick up another hobby? Of course, staying busy is one of the best ways to beat any addiction regardless if it is a physical or behavioral addiction, this is proven fact. Regardless, not masturbating and putting that energy onto women would yield great results over time. Part of overcoming addiction is rechanneling that old energy into something new. The habit never truly goes away; it just becomes transformed into something new or healthier. In other words it’s substituted by something else.


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Thirdly, masturbation is a normal thing.
However more than once a day is not.
Yes and yes, more than once a day indicates lack of impulse control, something that has to be built and established overtime in small amounts. Again, it's a behavioral addiction. An addiction by no means has to be a physical one. It can just be a routine behavior that over time causes harm.

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It is not an over simplification, just common sense.
But I do understand not everyone gets that.
Not really it's pure blokery if you ask me. You’re the type to tell a crack addict, "Hey it's ok if you smoke a little crack. It won't kill you." I know you didn't say that, but that is the equivalent. Cool, masturbation is normal, I get it. However, not every guy can control himself the way you can, and you must respect this fact. What is common sense to you might not be common sense to someone else. You might come from a healthy and well functioning family. You might have much better impulse control than the guy in question. Another guy could have a mood disorder, or come from a family with a history of kleptomania, gambling addictions, and all types of behavioral related issues. Regardless, if he feels that cutting out masturbation is a necessary step to living a healthier and well-functioning life then so be it. I see no harm in completely rerouting his behavior.

Notice how my argument did not encompass all individuals, just those who have trouble controlling their masturbation habit. Notice how I don't over generalize everyones problems into one huge simply lumped solution? You should try that out some time. Again, you’re over simplification shows that you have little understanding of the topic at hand. This does not change the fact that the urge maybe difficult to control. For those who are truly addicted to the habit, cutting it out may be the best options at hand. Again, this argument was directed towards those who have impulse control and behavioral issues.


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Ah the stupidity of this forum.
My point being, do what works for you.
You don't have to stop masturbating just because some guy on a forum says so.
It's not like if you stop masturbating you magically get laid, because it doesn't work that way.
You get laid because you go out and you work for it.
Masturbating may kill your sex drive temporarily but within 20 minutes guess whats back?
Besides I never said you have to masturbate did I? No. Hell I don't give a flying fuck what you do.
My advice is do what is best for your life.
Having a life where you feel happy will attract women alone.
However, if you do choose to masturbate there is nothing wrong with that.
The majority of the world does besides kids obsessed with vagina because they think it get them laid and stupid religious fucks trying to stay "pure".

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I agree. Sex drive comes storming back the next day. Not doing this won't do jack-shit in the attraction phase.


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Ah the stupidity of this forum.
My point being, do what works for you.
You don't have to stop masturbating just because some guy on a forum says so.
It's not like if you stop masturbating you magically get laid, because it doesn't work that way.
You get laid because you go out and you work for it.
Masturbating may kill your sex drive temporarily but within 20 minutes guess whats back?
Besides I never said you have to masturbate did I? No. Hell I don't give a flying fuck what you do.
My advice is do what is best for your life.
Having a life where you feel happy will attract women alone.
However, if you do choose to masturbate there is nothing wrong with that.
The majority of the world does besides kids obsessed with vagina because they think it get them laid and stupid religious fucks trying to stay "pure".
:lol: I don't ever think I advocated against masturbation. I simply said that it may benefit some guys more than others. Some guys may need to kick the habit for a bit and retrain themselves to get constructive habits. I agree, masturbation is not a bad thing, but if it is becoming an obsticle instead of a help, let it go for a bit. Masturbation will still be there later when you find your self. To the guys who spank 62 times a day, they may have to kick the habit for a bit. What the hell is wrong with this? I like you defend masturbation often, but if the habit is habitually abused I see no reason to continue its use for awhile.

My argument was in no way geared towards normal guys who your advice would apply to. I did have a target audience in mind, and they shouldn't believe a guy off an internet forum, they should go to academic sources and confirm what I've said, most will learn that it is true. At any rate, I can sense that we both grow tired of this conversation so I will do the right thing and end whatever quarrel we have right here.


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Watching porn is deriving pleasure from another man getting laid or from a woman teasing. Using your own imagination puts you into the picture. Some parts of your mind can't tell the difference between fantasy and reality.

My point has nothing to do with sexual energy or performance. It's hard to explain but what I am saying is that when you fantasize about something you are instructing your subconscious to produce instincts that increase the likeliness of it happening.

If you are going to watch tha pron. At least watch the P.O.V shit and pretend it's you.

Fantasies are the minds way of visualizing a goal and allowing the subconscious to work on making it possible. We have evolved this skill for a reason because it's powerful and effective for accomplishing goals. This applies to more than just sex.

NLP guys will understand where I'm coming from. You focus on your goal as opposed to worrying about failure. Myself I don't want my goal to be for Ron Jeremy to bang yet another hotty.

As with anything though, positive visualization is useless without action. Positive visualization though will cause you to act in accordance to the goal.

Hopefully someone gets what I am saying because it's the secret to getting what you want in life.


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Im joining too!

I dont get horney any more from real girls. Its like im nowadays in love with porn chicks. Thats a bad situation.

Although i fucked my girl three times this weekend. But it took too long to make my dick hard and penetrate here. Frustrating....

Im gonna skip porn from now!!! :o


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I just discovered this "experiement" and I love it. Starting it NOW.
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