Alright this maybe long but I'm going to try and shorten it so ask me questions if need be. I'm sorta new to this stuff but I've read alot of this stuff and I've starting to internalize the pick up stuff but I'm a disaster at relationships I've got alot of problems I can see my self making hence this post is kinda playing damage control. So I've been freezing out my girlfriend four going on now three days because she has been "losing interest" in me. If our past is important ask I will iterate,anyway I am freezing her out because I've noticed she has started waiting for me to text her first and she almost never sends me messages with cute things any more its almost always short answers ( losing interest). Now I've been really busy this week but now I have nothing for the rest of the week so I will probably be tempted to text her tomorrow.. We have known each other for four years and we have been dating a month.. Advice haha? Im down for anything. I typed this on my phone so typos happen

As a female, I've gotta comment that this is the best guide there is, hands down! Would work for me anyway. Although 1 original date per week is a bit excessive don't you think(once you've been together for a longer period of time...)?


...Now...I wish someone would write a similarly awesome one on "How to keep your boyfriend" u__u (pwetty please, anyone?)

Supple, the best I can do is tell you why it's NOT a good idea for us to write a guide for women.

First, we don't date guys so anything we right would be keyboard-jockeying and not based on real life experience. Sure, I could theorize a method that would work on ME, but I would have no idea how it would work on other guys.

Second, the majority of women are not very good at taking advice, especially from men. Women tend to default to acting in accordance with their emotions.

Third, a lot of guys out there are relationship-impaired. Even if you were the best girlfriend in the world, it still depends on who you're dating because certain types of guys would still find a way to screw it up.

Fourth, I'm pretty sure monogamy is a flawed system for the majority of people. I wrote a whole post about it here, please take a look: drama-free-relationships-4-monogamy-vt126038.html

Okay, now that I've laid all that out, here's what I WILL do.. here's a link to my girlfriend's blog. She's a playette and a heart-breaker. She's also a high self-esteem good girl, like you, and she dates guys for very long periods of time. We're currently in an open relationship, going on a year and half. I'm sure if you asked her nicely, then she'd write something on up what works for her (although you may have to sign up on live journal and "friend" her): http://polygoodgirl.livejournal.com/

Also, here's a really good guide from well known playette (Hitori's Playette FAQ): http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 78&refine=

Hopefully that helps.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

To change the relationship and care less you need to be prepared to walk away from the relationship. You need to keep this in the back of your mind, don't threaten her with this, it will just sound insecure and I don't believe in ultimatums in relationships. Just keep it in the back of your mind and learn what her shit tests are and just stay relaxed don't react to her, even smile, hold your frame. Finally, another thing I learned when i was only 16 was don't tell a girl you like her, show her you like by kissing her in a dominant way fucking her like you mean. you get me?

-joeyjoe

I've talked about in other threads about a book I read, practical female phycology for the practical man.

It talks about being a lover and a protector. Now every woman wants a protector at the end of the day, but protectors are usually the nice guys and they lose interest for attraction as they want to be banged like a lover.

Is it better to be the protector but just show that you are the lover? Or can you get a good balance up to the age of old age really where you can just happily be a protector when sex is dead.

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Great post, all very true! As far as Oneites goes, a double edge sword. Having all your focus on one girl, is acceptable only AFTER you have won her! Because it sure won't WIN her!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Alright here's the complete guide:

1. Have nasty sex with him daily

2, Then make him a sandwich

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.