Well here's the thing. When guy's have hot girlfriends, women have a radar for it. You will not need to go looking for girls to flirt with, they will find you, trust me. Go out with your friends, but you will not need to try, I guarantee you that women will find their way to you. It happens all the time to married men and men in happy relationships. It has a lot to do with their lack of interest in meeting girls. Whenever I did have a girlfriend, they were always smoking hot.

I found throughout my experience, that whenever i went out with my boys, women always hit on me. The less interest I showed the more they would hit on me.

So when you do go out with your friends, keep the mentality that you have a girl. And let the rest happen as it will. It's the very "not interested" attitude that will make you irresistible to these women. I also noticed that because 95% of the women out there were not as hot as my girl, I had no interest in flirting with them, or at least chasing them.

Also be sure to not get any phone numbers, or give yours out. I never seemed to have a long lasting relationships, but i found the women i just talked to politely and told I had a girlfriend( when I did) they tended to be all over me when I became single again.

When talking to other women, tell them you have a girl, keep the flirting to a minimum ( you don't want to look like an ass) Your honesty and lack of effort will go a long way down the road if you ever do become single. Women will remember you being a worthy boyfriend and will jump on you when they get a chance.

If you must cheat, I suggest always going out of town. Try to minimize the amounts of friends that are around. ( I have been ratted out in the past by so called friends, that just wanted to hook up with my girl) < yes it happens, especially when younger and your gf is HOT.

I hope this helped.

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Thanks for the advice. I am not interested in cheating. But what you are saying makes sense and confirms my theory about what happens when you have a hot gf. Especially the part about not finding any other girls more attractive.

I have another question, my gf has an incredibly high bitch shield because she gets hit on so many times a day. In her job she is exposed to hundreds of guys that want to get into her pants. Now I was lucky with the situation I met her in as we have a mutual friend. But I would like to know for the future how to get around the bitch shields of girls that get hit on so much. As they are the only ones that interest me.

Ahhhhh! The infamous "bitch shield" lol. This can be a tough one and usually involve the "long hustle" the answer you seek is something you already know.

You mentioned that you met your girl through a mutual friend, it is basically the same principle. You have to approach without any indication of trying to pick up.

There is a couple of different methods you can use:

1) You have to approach in a "friendly" only mentality. Your present circumstance is ideal( you have a girlfriend) In your case, I would open up with a question seeking her opinion on something to do with your girlfriend ( ie: shoes/fashion/gift/dating advice) DO NOT show any signs of interest( do not hit on her in anyway, no compliments on her physical appearance. You have to seem genuinely not interested in her that way.

Women with a shield up are on high guard, Even if a man approaches with friendly words but still has the mentality of picking her up, a women can often still read the mans body language and will continue to guard, that being said, you must have the friendly state of mind only.

Think of it this way, if you become friends, she will have let her guard down, just as your GF did when you met her as it was through a mutual "friend".

2) If the girl is with friends, odds are they are less attractive then her. It is rare to see a group of 10's together. That being said, approach the group, but don't even acknowledge the 10, show no interest at all, keep engaging the less attractive women of the group, the 10 will let her guard down just to get " her just deserved attention" She will wonder why you're not trying to talk to her as she is the 10 of the group and used to all the attention.

Also if you engage her friend/friends away from her, her friend can bring you in.
Stay friendly, the long "pick up" is still warranted. Show no interest in her other then becoming friends. If you start a conversation, and it goes very well. You can attempt to remain in contact with her. but speculate friendship only. ( here's where the long hustle starts) She may still not want to give up the digits so be sure to stay in contact with her friends, its all about seeing her again( even if the friends are there too)

Ideally, you don't want to show any signs of interest till you are both completely comfortable with one another as friends. I found through my experience that the super hot chicks ( that are desired by most) given enough time will question why you are outside of the norm and eventually try to escalate themselves, to get the gratification/admiration they are so used to from men. By standing your ground you will become different then any other man and thus! more intriguing.

Two different methods, but the same path. Friends first is usually the only way to get through the shield. ( from my experience)

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Thanks, yet again some good advice. It goes along some of my own experiences. But I think I will defenatly try the advice thing. As her bday is coming up and I have no idea what to get her. Already got her an amazing Xmas present. Funily enough on my first day at trying pu I used the well known handbag advice opener. Some stuff just never gets old.

When you say, "show no interest to the less attractive girl out of the group and ignore the hb10" What do you mean by showing no interest? What do you talk to the her about to make the hb10 think "why isn't he talking to me?? I just don't get it... idk what to say at all, could you tell me what you usually talk about when you find a group like this "A ugly chick and a hot chick"

Tell me from start to an end what you usually say..

Thanks.

I said, show no interest in the 10. Meaning show all your interest to the other girls. Ignore the 10. She will eventually seek your attention as she is used to being the one that gets all the attention.

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In case you forgot, the persona you've been fabricating in this forum is that of a:

Non-retarded alpha male massage therapist bull who has intimate knowledge of over 800 women and has never read any pick up material.

*I don't know which commercial pua came up with the bright idea of asking for fashion/dating advice from chicks but like the OP, I'm quite certain he lost track of the persona he was fabricating and thought he was giving advice to gay hair stylists seeking to earn higher tips. To the newbies reading, if you befriend a girl by turning yourself into a eunuch, there is no point.

DUDE GO AWAY ALREADY...are you that hard up for attention? It's not my fault all your game is learned from a book.

If I didn't know any better I'd swear you have a crush on me. Stick to your style or lack of and I will stick to mine.

If people want your opinion, they will seek you out and ask themselves.

I noticed how you didn't answer any of the questions I addressed to you. from your last post on this thread.

Keep living in your dream cyber world kid. you're not even worth my time. so Piss off already and get a life.

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Nice, you've added another wrinkle to your self proclamation. So you're a non-retarded alpha male massage therapist bull who has intimate knowledge of over 800 women and has never read any pick up material . . . who picks up women by turning himself into a eunuch.

^Very stylish.

*You're not very clever and you don't seem educated but it wouldn't hurt for you to brush up on some basic debate skills.

1. Statement
2. Reason
3. Assumptions

Here's an example.

1. My statement: You're a plagiarizing buffoon.
2. My Reason: http://www.google.com/search?q=pua+igno ... =firefox-a
3. Assumption: One who copies/pastes redundant crap (even though he claims he never does) regardless of how inapplicable it may be to the discussion is a "Plagiarizing buffoon".

Now you try:

1. Your statement: Kasabi learned everything from a book.
2. Reason.
3. Statement.

Good luck with that.

You're pathetic. This isn't a freaking school. You're not my professor. Are you kidding me? Do you want me to make you an essay? Who are you? You're nothing to me. I don't owe you anything. If you want to continue to challenge me, how about we have a battle. With REAL WOMEN. I am sure we could arrange a neutral female party. Perhaps she could have a 5 minute chat with both of us, without even know who we are. We can both sign in as guests, I am certain people from this forum could help us arrange this.

What do you say kid? We could even find some people from this forum that may live close to us....we can make an arrangement to both go out on a certain night. And the person going out with us can give an honest report. Then we can see just who's full of shit and who isn't...........

I am sure with your "superior" intellect you can think of an idea in which you and I can have an actual competition, rather then this meaningless shit.


You seem to be full of talk. I'd love to see you back it up. I am more then willing to do my own, but not to explain myself to an egotistical little shrimp of a man with Napolean complex. LOL

By the way, you are the only one participating in a debate. Good luck with that.

I can't help but think, your childish attacks are nothing but a cry for attention. You know that there is alot of readers on this thread. What's wrong Kasabi, are your posts not giving you enough loooovey wuvey.

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I realize copy/pasting is a habit of yours but "Good luck with that", is the phrase I came up for you. . . and you really need it. Why not try creating something on your own?
In real life and in an online forum, it's a bad habit to LOL when there is nothing particularly funny going on and especially as a punchline to a self-mocking rant. YOU ARE explaining yourself to me; you just suck at it. You are participating in a debate. you just suck at it.

Hmmm. . . 'childish' . . .
^Remember . . . you're 38 year old alpha massage therapist! . . . Not a 12 year old retard.

Where do you live?

if youve had sex with that many women, chances are youve had sex with a man. dont believe me, read tucker max sometime. haha

well i have a buddy who's 24 and claims that he's slept with 200 women. so maybe it's possible? haha

The possibility of sleeping with 800 women in 20 years is not whats being debated (its totally possible). What seems to be the topic of debate is if SexAddict911 is "legit" or not.

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cool story bro