Than break up with her and say your done for good. If she wants you, she will come back crying etc... don't just accept her apology though... say you have to think about it

Bro - how hard is it??? Just call/text her first.
Don't be so bashful and be a real man - SHIT!

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SOUL, you do that every day for 3 months and tell me how long you last with her.

berettagtz; as someone previously mentioned, girls might be afraid of break up because theyd rather be with some AFC loser kid (I'm not saying this is you) than alone. The worst thing they fear is being alone, and would do anything just to make sure she feels in company. Thats my only reason, because from what her responses are, even though she tells you differently, she doesn't really care.

After all, you should judge a woman based on her actions, not words. They are known to be very good at lying and faking, and her "love" may be faked.

I was once in a relationship where I was feeling I was investing more and I did not get what I want.So what I did,first thing : no contact for 1 week.Result : no contact forever(she dumped me)
First thing that crossed my mind after that break up was i shouldn't do such shit,as they are obvious and against me.I am forced to do things that I don't like.
When you ain't getting what you want you either break up or you talk about it.From my experience this pua behaviour only generates new games in the relationship in an endless circle

Any update , topicstarter?

that since you have already established that you HAVE emailed her texted her called her first then why should she initiate?

Just create a little more space between your contacting if you must, or otherwise just take a break from contacting her. If she doesn't respond then there you have it. if she does then you have an opportunity to begin the training.

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Are you wanted by other girls?

Women are much more inclined to text / initiate contact and show affection when they are in a state of perpetual competitive anxiety. If other girls are texting you / showing you affection, she will try harder to keep you. It's one of the differences between the genders, women WANT a man who is WANTED by other girls.

On the other hand, if she believes that she is to only source of intimacy you have / want, it creates a breeding ground for Oneitis and dying passion. The drive to impress you or keep you to herself isn't there.

PDA is beta, you shouldn't indulge in it either.

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UPDATE:

So I messaged her on facebook chat on the 30th. I waited 12 minutes with no response and I signed off. Then the 31st I texted her to say happy new year. No response. Called a little after midnight to say happy new year and she didn't pick up.
Today, I sent her a text message: "Just to let you know. I hate playing these mind games. Call me if you want to talk like two adults. And if you don't want to talk then consider us done."

This was five hours ago.. and no response. I am getting back in the game pretty soon. Now I just need to figure out how to get over her. . .

Fuck a hotter girl. Important tip to those in relationships. Always be gaming until and only until you are exclusively dating.

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blah, what a waste of effort and time i call that!

Hopefully you learned something from the experience!?

else it was a complete mess!!

My rule is tough, i txt her, if she doesn't answer to that txt she aint getting more from me untill she shows there's a healthy amount of balance!

Good luck, please keep us updated, i'm checking!

I feel sorry for you man, but actually it was exactly the outcome i was expecting.

However this girl doesn't even has the balls to talk it over with you.

hey man we've all been there and all went trough it, the hard part is getting over it

Seriously the only way you will forget her is to surround yourself with NEW women. Not old friends or flames, new girls, invest some time and mind into them and find out what makes them special. You're a smart kid, you'll be fine.

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UPDATE:
So after I texted her, I went out with a couple of friends. I had fun drinking and talking to people. Then around midnight she calls me to talk. So I told her that I was busy and that I will call her later. Then I called her around 2 am and went over her place to talk. She said that she was mad at me for not talking to her for about a week. That's why she didn't respond to my calls and texts. So after the conversation, she realized that she shouldn't have done that. . and that it takes two, not one, for a relationship to work.... So overall, this was just a communication problem...
The next day we had some amazing make-up sex.... she said it was by far the best sex she's ever had. .
Anyways, that's where it stands now... I just have to be cautious next time something similar happens. . .

any update, berettagtz?

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Apocalypica is right.

just because she has "always been that way",

doesn't mean "that way" is acceptable.

from the beginning, almost in a MORE CALCULATED fashion than apocalytica's girlfriend, your GF made a conscious decision to be more detached, more standoffish, more aloof, etc.

your GF is manipulating you through her taking predefined steps to maintain her POWER in the relationship.

which basically means you are dealing with an emotionally-cold psycho.

you say:

- she SAYS she loves me
- she SAYS she likes me
- she SAYS this
- she SAYS that

it doesn't matter what a girl SAYS...

it matters what she does.

and your GF has a fundamental disconnect between her words and her actions.

that makes her a liar and a manipulator.

LOOK

if you "love" someone and "like" someone and want to "be with" someone...

then you don't PURPOSELY NEVER CALL THEM FIRST,

OR TEXT THEM FIRST,

OR SET UP A MEETING FIRST,

etc....

you are being played by a psychopath-in-training.

FREEZE. THE. BITCH. OUT.

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