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and if you failed with mystery method then that my friend is your fault, you were not socially calibrated enough to know what adjustments to make and when to use or drop a technique.
yeah, and neither are most guys who join the community. guys don't come to the community because they have amazing social calibration, they come because they are shy, nervous, not sure what to say around girls, need guidance in how to relax and get used to the process of meeting women.
the paradox is that if you already have the social calibration to use MM ...then you don't need to use it.
my point is that it is not an effective tool for anyone wanting to improve their confidence socially and sexually. it just bogs you down with too much useless and irrelevant information and creates retarded minsets like 'i need to have a really cool opener to impress this women' this is bullshit, your delivery of your opener even it its 'hello' is what makes the difference, not the line.
or 'i need to tell her stories to show how cool i am.' this is bullshit, you need to become relaxed and cool, and every time you tell a DHV story you are telling your inner game 'i am really a poser, i am a loser who isn't actually cool but if i tell them this story they will think i am and it will 'trigger' their attraction'. not a very powerful inner game to be running, it just rots your self esteem at the core and makes you worse, and women you meet can sense it. for any guys who have been trying routines for a while and struggling...this is why you're not getting results or improving.
out of interest mad.genius, how has mystery method worked for you? how many girls have you fucked using it? have you managed to create any lasting relationships from it? you speak from a place of authority so i;m curious what your personal success with it is. most guys who actually have game and get laid realize that MM is useless because you get to a point where you can drop the theory and realize it's pointless.
because for 99% of guys that i have met or coached through the community, the answer is that MM has done nothing to help them or sometimes made it worse.
im not saying that it doesnt work....but...it doesn't work. as a personal development tool. for 99% of guys who try it, because they lack the social calibration to use it properly.
btw im not trying to convince you about any of this you've clearly made up your mind, this is for anyone else reading who's unsure what method to try and wants to hear about the limitations of MM. i wish someone had told me what a crock of shit MM was back in the day and given me this guidance. then again it's good to have experienced it because it makes me a better coach with a wider understanding of what works and what doesnt in terms of personal change and lasting results.
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