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I often find shy girls attractive.
What I do is to listen to everything they say. Then I use it to validate them later on. My experience, is that it works a lot better this way, then to give them validation right away. Because you might come across as needy or trying to hard.
An example of what I did a last time:
Arn: what would you wanna be if you could choose whatever you wanted for a career.
Shy-HB: hmmm, maybe an actor.
Arn: why aren't you?
Shy-HB: I don't have the looks.
Arn: ok, bla bla bla... next routine...
----- Later ---- conversation drops silent, I look at her and smile.
Arn: I think you could definitely become an actor.
Another thing I do is; physical escalation, while still holding a normal conversation. We might be talking about cats or whatever. For everyone else around it looks like we're having a nice conversation, but simultaneously I will be stroking her thigh or back. This satisfy both her shy and comfortable "nice-girl" and her inner "bad-girl"(believe me, all girls have this side to them).
Good luck!
/arn
Thanks but regarding the first routine she's still a student and says she's not sure what she wants to do yet another problem is if I stroke her or do kino to that extent she's quite conservative and part of my social circle.
Anothing problem I get is that when talkng to her it feels like I keep asking questions and am carrying the conversation.Any thing to fix that?