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This seems very reminiscent of Tolle's work (The Power Of Now). Anybody interested in this koan should probably read that book too. It's fantastic.
When the monkey gave you a question to answer, your ego told you that you have to answer it. That you have to analyse if the monkey is telling the truth, when each parent would die, if there's a loophole, so on and so forth. Your ego is trying to find the right answer to this test so it can feel good about itself. What it isn't revealing to you is that you don't have to take the test. You don't HAVE to be paralysed by the monkey.
Yeah, you'll either kill or not kill the monkey. It's always going to seem like you're responding to the monkey's question. But the difference is: are you making that decision on your self's terms, or are you making it because the monkey has influence your ego to demand that of you?
Even if you ended up making the 'right choice', your ego has still won, because your ego has controlled your thoughts and your decisions. This isn't about what is the right choice and what isn't. It's about getting rid of that fucking ego.
When you accept that you do not need to make that choice, then you may make it.
The monkey is the ego/mind.
The boy is the self.
The monkey poses questions, tells the boy he has to think.
The ego/mind poses questions, tells the self it has to think.
The boy doesn't have to play the monkey's game.
The self doesn't have to play the ego/mind's game.
Ah.
EDIT: I assume the reason this was posted here (above other koans) was because of the massive potential it has to help you with pickup - especially as you can apply what I've written above to not just the mind and ego, but to your emotions. Approach anxiety kicks in. Your mind starts giving reasons why it won't work, and you begin to feel nervous. You're being given the choice: What do you do? Do you approach or not?
Once you can answer 'No', and understand that you do not have to listen, you will be able to make that choice on your own terms.
DOUBLE EDIT: Just reread the koan and noticed something. It's interesting how as soon as the boy sees the monkey he aims his arrow. It's true, he went out to hunt, the explanation may end there. But I wonder if the author meant this as an implication that as soon as the monkey mind appears, the self typically pays immediate attention to it?
You can't get a better explanation than this.
and The Power of Now is awesome, I only bought 4 books in my entire life and that one is one of them.