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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 1:07 pm 
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Hey Guys,

Ask you a question that I cannot seem to resolve.

So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 months now,

It feels like I am always the one that needs to call her. And that she rarely, if ever has called to check up on me.

Is this normal? I mean it seems that most girls I know have a reason to never/rarely call the guy unless the guy asks her to.

In addition, I am always the one that wants to meet her, never the other way around.

Is there some logic behind this? Or is the guy always suppose to be the one to checkup on the girl?

Thanks again!

In my experience, and straight from the mouths of HB10's whom I've discussed this with, the answer is a solid "Yes."

We are the men, we are meant to take the lead, where no obvious choice presents itself.

You call when you want, with high energy, you're envisaging a good time with her, this comes out in your voice. If she's busy, that's cool cat, we all get busy. If you've been doing well, she'll be very apologetic for being busy. If you still get her at a bad time, you can straight up ask her when is a good time for her, no games. If she's into you she will do her best to make a time for you. If she's vague, you know she's not interested. Move on.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 3:17 am 
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Is this normal? [...] I am always the one that wants to meet her, never the other way around.
Is there some logic behind this? Or is the guy always suppose to be the one to checkup on the girl?
This is completely normal, and in my opinion YES, the guy is always suppose to be the one to call and checkup on the girl- unless you're in a LTR.

If there's one post here that I agree with, it's Conker's:
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We are the men, we are meant to take the lead, where no obvious choice presents itself.
If it helps to know, I never call the guy, unless I'm calling him back. Why? Because that's his job. I also have the same mentality when it comes to approaching guys- he saw me, so if he likes me, he'll come up to me. And this isn't some old traditional piece of advice my mother told me one day during brunch. It's just something I believe- the guy should be the pursuer. If he wants to talk to me, he'll call me. That's the way I see it. It is not that (i) I've been raised this way, (ii) I don't like him, (iii) I'm not thinking about him, (iv) I'm taking him for granted.

So don't always believe theories like:
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if a girl really likes you, she will make an effort to be in contact with you, always.
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She clearly feels like she can take you for granted
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If she doesn't [call] then something is up, or rather her interest level has gone down.
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If she's not calling to tell you about the funny thing her cat just did, she's not thinking about you.
^Because although they may be true in some cases, most of the time you'll find they're not. Bottom line? If she's accepting to see you, she likes you. And contrary to popular belief, some girls really are too busy, or just don't like spending a lot of time on the phone. That's right, not all girls like talking on the phone! So don't take it personally if she cuts your phone calls short. Don't call her more than is necessary, and be the one to call her when you want to set a date- preferably at least 3 days in advance.


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My opinion takes into account certain brain chemisty. Bottom line is girls are more sociable than men. They talk to their friends about the most pointless things at times, just checking up on how each other are doing. Girls are highly social animals, you may be on the girls mind at those times when she isn't talking to you but she's unlikely to call you when this happens, most likely she'll speak to her friends about it.


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Seems she try to act non-needy and contented, So dont call her. I usually call such women if I need to get my pipi wet in their punani. :)


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