What´s really important with goal setting when it comes to pick up is to know, that you can not set a goal outside your controll.
For example: Setting a goal of getting 8 phone numbers in a night might sound good, but it´s not within your controll, because you have conditioned the success of your goal on the other person.
But when you say: I am going to use the phone technique on 22 girl from 10pm to 2am with an intention to exchange phone numbers than that is a completely different task.
If you really use the phone technique on 22 girls, chances are that you are going to get a few phone numbers. So your goal is achieved indirectly, and you can measure it.
Focus on the ACTIVITY that will bring you the success you want. Focus on numbers of approaches- not number of phone numbers.
Focus on creating attraction- not in getting a kiss close.
Focus on advancing kino and amplifying attraction- not on f close.
The point is to focus on the activities that will get you there inevitably, and not on the outcomes.
But keep your overall outcome in mind when creating the activites.
"I want to be able to kiss any girl I meet within 20minutes of talking to her"
- Who would I need to be to be able to do that?
- What would I need to know, what skills would I need to have in order to do that?
- What activities will get me to the skills I want?
"I want to be able to have sex with a girl withing 2 days of meeting her"
- Who would I need to be to be able to do that?
- What would I need to know, what skills would I need to have in order to do that?
- What activities will get me to the skills I want?
etc.
Create a plan for yourself, a step by step plan.
Meeting
Phone number
Kiss
Touching
Having Sex
Than specify who will you need to become, and what are the skills you need to develop.
Than do the activities that will bring you to that skills. In about 6 months, you are a master PUA
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