hey Lover 6969
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How should I handle her remark that I should come over to her house after work next time before going home to my girlfriend... This is what she suggested last week.
I stayed cool and didn't comment this ... but how to avoid a trap here and get the highscore?
Okay from here, how I see it is.... if you go there because she told you to go, you will be in her hands and she can actually do whatever she wants with you, cause she got the frame, you are there because of her.
Ofcourse you want to go, I´m pretty sure of that

, so you need to reframe her invitation. What I would do is to call her and say something like this:
Pua: Hey "hbsister", I dont know if i´m right but do you have the dvd " Any movie you know she have"?, I think I saw it in your stuffs there in your home"
HB sister: yeah
PUa: Awsome!!!!!!!, we where talking about that movie with my friends and we just wanted to see it again. Isn´t that movie rocks!!!, so may I borrow it??
HBsister: yeah
PUA: Cool!!!!, So after work I just will pick it up at your home.
HBsister: okay
Pua: Wait......(after some seconds) hey I gotta go, need to do some stuff with myboss.
Its just an example. From here, you just have refreamed her invitation. Now you can go.
But be careful she dont try to come up and steal your frame while in the phone
"heeeeey so you are just coming because of the dvd´s .... okaaay!!!(in a sarcastic way)" just in case man. =), from her you have again to refreame it.... (maybe telling something suuuuuper cheesy that come up to the absurd, she will know you are not being serious.) " ofcourse not sweety, we will have best romantic dinner with candles, white tablecloth, red win and with all the stars above us…. Do you reeeeally have that movie??
Okay gotta go, see you there bye.
(using a cheesy line like this in a not serious way.... she will know its not serious but the cool thing here is that she actually is going to think about it in her mind, so its a win win)
Okay just to finish... If she opens the door with the movie (in case u use that line) and try to give it to you in the door, be prepeare just say to her. "Fuuuuuck Im pissing myself, may I allow to use your bathroom (Dont wait for her answer, before you finish that phrase you must be in the middle of the house for then)
Now you are inside from her its all yours... escalate slowly.... if there is opportunity, take it.... and use some pua material.
good luck mate
cheers
Not needy