DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU REALLY WANT AND KNOW WHAT THE FUCK YOUR REALLY WANT TO DO!

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Awesome is definitely an understatement

I really want to just tear off this one girls clothes on the dance floor and mount her on the spot while everyone watches. I want her boyfriend and the bouncers not to crush my balls and put me in a coma while I do this. I want to not ever have to approach a girl again and have various hb8's-hb10's line up outside and ring my doorbell for my sexual attention, but only when I'm in the mood for it. Everybody here wants women. Guess what? WANTING IS NOT ENOUGH. "If you want to f-close tonight, then just f-close." Great advice.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Lmfao brilliant response

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~California Love~!

I never said wanting something means your gonna get it. But it changes your personality to reflect your wants.

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Awesome is definitely an understatement

You know, even though I partly agree with you it is waaaay toooooo simple...

If someone is a little frightened boy and scared to take what he wants and shit like that this advice is helpful. Yes, he needs to toughen up and take action, which is basically what you are telling people here.

However, not everybody should do what they want. Some people want to do very bad things and that little voice that tells them not to is pretty useful.

I would say, before anyone attempts to use this kind of advice they need to do a reality check. Know what the fuck you want... Not enough.

You need to realize what things you want for what reason. So many people are in this to get revenge or show the world or to just treat girls like shit just because they have been rejected too many times. Those guys shouldnt be out there.

I would say that if your mindset is that old DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANT. Dont care about anyone else, I am the only one who counts... ME ME ME ME ME ME ME!!!! Mindset...

If that is your mindset you should not be doing this...

It is an attitude that is both immature, unrealistic and creates assholes. Its the kind of egotrip you should have gotten past if your inner game was strong enough.

People constantly think that inner game is about blasting others with their inner strength... When it is actually about not needing to.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Most of the questions on here start with "How do I". Your answer doesn't address the practical parts. Though I agree, the mindset is probably half the picture. Maybe, "I deserve X, how do I get X."

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31 and still figuring it out.

I completely understand where you are coming from. But, i don't think a lot of the people here have advanced there mind to that point, where they actually know what they want. It's hard for people with all the social conditioning to go back and find what they really want.

I think the best way to do better is to be disturbed and to change your ways. Thats how i think anyways.

and here are somethings you should want.

http://new-lifesupport.com/2009/02/09/8 ... ally-want/


1. People Really Want Freedom to be and do whatever they desire. Freedom however has a cost to it. It cost us doing all we can to be the best we can, therein lies the problem most people want the freedom to “not do all they can” some folks call it laziness.

2. People Really Want Peace in their heart, mind, body and soul. Peace comes from being at ease with what goes on around us. We worry about our feelings and what others think of us, we worry about not being the best at what we do, we worry about not having everything that everyone else has…We worry.

3. People Really Want Happiness which comes from being content or satisfied with that they have and with who they are. Too many people use someone else as the standard for their own happiness, measuring themselves against other people.

4. People Really Want to be Of Value The desire to be wanted because we bring something to the table is a strong desire in any person. Even those who seem to be loners want to know that their life matters.

5. People Really Want a Challenge that will demonstrate that they abilities others don’t have.

6. People Really Want Others even if they want them to leave them alone. We are social animals and need the stimulus that interaction with others provide.

7. People Really Want Order in their lives so that they can make sense of things.

8. People Really Want to Believe in something bigger than they are, something that they can depend upon and trust.
No this is not the total list and I welcome anything you can add to it.

This is what people want at the bottom of there mind, in there higher self.

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Awesome is definitely an understatement

Granted a lot of guys on here have no fucking clue what they want and don't even explain if they want a lay or a girlfriend in their threads. Step one is to know what the hell you want, otherwise how the hell is the girl supposed to figure it out?

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31 and still figuring it out.

This site isn't about what you want, fool. It's about how to go about getting your wants.

But if you don't know whether you want a ho or a housewife, the girl will send mixed signals, too.

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31 and still figuring it out.