So today I had a date with this gril from myspace... What a bad day. I thought we had a pretty good connection, we talked for a week over the phone.. then we decided to meet. Took her to this pizza resturant and the connection just DIED.. just right there.. we both felt it.. I don't know if it was the setting or what.. I don't know I guess we talked so much on the phone that we had NOTHING to talk about anymore. It was wierd and we both knew it. My game just wasn't there..It died too!! Why do I left past relationships dictate things.. Why do I have a lack of trust with women.. I'm so pissed at myself right now

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"It's not who I'm underneath, but what I do that defines me"-SPAM Begins

Easy fella, whats her first childhood memory? whats the craziest thing shes ever done? which celeb would she most like to fcuk? whats her fav 3 films?

talk and find out about her, cube, strawberry fields etc also talk about other people in pizza hut, was there an old fat hairy woman eatin a 12 incher? if so rip the piss out of the fatty (between u and HB!) then neg her for being evil and shallow if she agrees etc etc

Even use openers, who lies more, jealous GF etc etc an opener is a conversation starter also.

Internet meets are usually touchy dude

You must look back into the past and see when you were successful/happy/excited. Remember it in first person, looking out through your eyes, feeling with your own hands.

Remember of how the event made you feel, how the adrenaline pumped during the first meet, remember of how your confidence sounded.

Now imagine a future, again in your eyes, your hands, where you meet a girl. Bring those feelings from the past into the future, feel it there and then.

Now anchor those feelings, squeeze your wrist tight and hard. continue feeling the excitement of the created thought. what sounds will you hear? what will it feel like? what does it look like?

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Now, every time you think of the date with this particular woman, disassociate yourself with her. When you picture it, think of it in third person, watch yourself sitting there, like a character in a film. look at where he's doing things badly, look how he can improve that posture!